Strong woman feng shui
In a marriage, if there are the following three kinds of strong women, it is doomed to decline.
The first type: a "strong woman" who can fight. Although men are generally strong and women are weak, most men will have the upper hand at the beginning, but there are also well-trained or talented women. Such a woman can fight better than many men.
If this kind of woman can control her temper, then there is no problem and men feel safe. If this kind of woman can't control her temper, once she goes crazy, she will fight with her fists, whether at home or outside.
It's terrible. Crosstalk actor Wang Zijian met such a wife. She was repeatedly subjected to "domestic violence" and finally had no choice but to divorce.
The second type: a "strong woman" who doesn't know how to advance and retreat has heard a saying that only children can distinguish right from wrong, and adults only have advantages and disadvantages.
In marriage, if the wife doesn't weigh the pros and cons, she will eventually become a "bitch" outside. Even if you are right every time, but you don't know when to let others go, it will definitely make others have an opinion of this family. The world of adults is not just right and wrong.
If in the family, the woman doesn't know how to advance and retreat, and her husband's little mistake can be "attacked", the relationship between the two will become more and more rigid.
How can such a family be better?
The third type: the "strong woman" who haggles over every ounce likes generous people, because people make mistakes, no matter how big or small, as long as they don't involve fundamental principles, it is the best way to deal with them.
But if a woman haggles over every ounce and catches a man's faults for several years at once, no one can stand it.
There will be more and more conflicts between husband and wife, and it is only a matter of time before they part ways.
In fact, it doesn't matter who is strong or weak in marriage. There is no eternal strong, and there is no eternal weak. Only when husband and wife compromise with each other and at the right time can they run a good marriage and family.