The wife of a billionaire was ridiculed for being "ugly": The sexiest part of a woman is her brain. Do you agree?

At this time, many people in the United States still do not pay attention to the epidemic in the United States. At a large rally attended by 7,500 people on Independence Day, there was still no requirement to wear masks or maintain social distance.

Seeing this scene, Facebook CEO Zuckerberg couldn’t help but post an appeal on Instagram: Please wear a mask. A new wave of epidemic is spreading rapidly. Wearing a mask can keep us healthy. Let our country function properly.

He also included a photo in which he and his wife were head to head, both wearing masks.

This matter has also become a hot search topic in China.

This was originally a positive thing, but someone in the comment area commented sarcastically on the appearance of Xiao Zha’s wife Priscilla, saying, “I thought it was a photo of my son and my mother,” mocking her for being old and old. ugly.

In fact, this is not the first time Priscilla has suffered attacks on her appearance.

In 2012, the day after Facebook went public, Zuckerberg announced his marriage to Priscilla, his girlfriend of nine years. At that time, he was already the youngest billionaire and very handsome. , and only 28 years old.

At this time, if Priscilla divorces him, she will immediately have tens of billions or even hundreds of billions of assets, and she will suddenly become rich, and many people will lose their teeth.

For a while, in addition to blessings, people also had questions: Why did this young and handsome billionaire marry an ordinary-looking wife?

In the comment area, some people said that it is difficult to understand Western aesthetics.

There is also a post on Zhihu specifically asking questions about this.

The core basis for the above-mentioned doubts is nothing more than the familiar "mangcainuoyan": a rich man must marry a beautiful wife, and only beauty can match wealth.

But is this really the case? What does the plain-looking Priscilla rely on to attract Zuckerberg?

Let’s first look at Priscilla’s growth experience.

If life is a gamble, then Priscilla undoubtedly drew a bad hand.

Priscilla’s parents were refugees who smuggled themselves to the United States from Vietnam. One worked as a waiter and the other worked as an accountant.

Because her parents were busy working for a living, Priscilla was brought up by her grandmother who did not speak English.

Her parents did not have much education, but they knew deeply that education can change a person's destiny. Therefore, no matter how difficult it was, they still wanted to support Priscilla in her education.

Priscilla herself worked very hard and had excellent grades since she was a child. At the age of 18, she was admitted to Harvard University, the world's top prestigious school.

It was here that she met her Mr. Right.

The two were college classmates. At that time, Zuckerberg did not have any aura about him. He just loved computers and the Internet. He even dropped out of Harvard University after two years.

Priscilla felt that although this guy was a bit unreliable, his pursuit of ideals deeply attracted her, and she was very happy with him, so she fell in love without hesitation.

Do you understand? What many people call "marrying into a rich family" is actually getting the order wrong.

Priscilla was not “favoured” by Zuckerberg after he became famous, but she accompanied Zuckerberg to create Facebook from scratch.

Their love process is no different from ordinary people. There is no one who is superior to the other.

What attracts Zuckerberg is Priscilla’s intelligence, strength, flexibility, independence, and the soul’s soul that “understands him”.

When Priscilla graduated from Harvard, Facebook was already on the right track, and Zuckerberg invited Priscilla to become a partner.

It was a natural thing for a husband and wife to run a business together, but unexpectedly, Priscilla refused. The reason was that she had her own things to do.

She first worked as a natural science teacher in a primary school.

Then he enrolled in medical school at the University of California, San Francisco, and obtained his medical license as a pediatrician one week before the wedding in 2012.

In the United States, doctors have a high social status. Therefore, it is very difficult to enter medical school and obtain medical qualifications.

On the same day, Xiao Zha could not hide his excitement and confessed to his fiancée on Facebook: I am proud of you.

During the 9 years of their relationship, the two have been struggling on different tracks. Priscilla did not live as Zuckerberg's vassal, but steadily shined in the fields she was good at.

Their wedding was held in their backyard. There were no luxurious configurations, no gathering of guests, and not even a diamond ring. Priscilla wore a ring designed by Zuckerberg to complete the simple ceremony.

I ate a 32 yuan McDonald’s meal on my honeymoon, and it made the headlines of the newspaper and was ridiculed.

So, what do they do with most of their money? The answer is: charity.

As a pediatrician, Priscilla has seen too much suffering. When she talks about children's illnesses in public, she often can't help but choke up and cry.

To this end, she and Zuckerberg launched an organ donation registration tool on Facebook, which attracted 100,000 registrants on the first day.

When she saw the despair and pain of families who lost children online, she launched the "Amber Alert" operation on the Facebook platform to help find missing children.

In 2015, after their daughter Max was born, the Zuckerbergs announced a decision that shocked the world—to donate 99% of their Facebook shares to establish a foundation, with the money used for "personality projects." Chemical learning, disease treatment, connecting people and building strong communities."

In December 2016, the two announced a huge investment of US$3 billion to fund scientists to conquer the world's major diseases. .

In Zuckerberg’s letter home to his daughter, there is this sentence:

“You have given us a reason to reflect on the world we want you to live in. Like Like all parents, we want the world when you grow up to be better than ours today.”

Zuckerberg is the type of person who looks up to the stars, and the partners around him are also like him. Stand at the same height.

Priscilla spoke confidently and generously in front of thousands of people. When she talked about her beliefs and dreams, her whole person was full of magic.

Zuckerberg is always admiring and loving towards Priscilla, and he will praise her from time to time.

When he returned to his alma mater to give a speech at Harvard, his words of thanks were: "Thank you to my alma mater. My biggest gain here is that I met Priscilla."

Photographed when his wife was pregnant Here’s what he said about the photo below:

“This is a stunning photo of Priscilla. I love her expression: strong yet kind, brave yet full of love, and leadership. Capable and supportive of others."

Their love has already reached the soul level, but some people are still struggling with their skin.

Those who ridiculed Zuckerberg’s wife for being ugly didn’t realize that she was so happy with her, and that was not what they intended.

Good-looking skins are all the same, but interesting souls are unique.

Just like in "The Big Bang Theory", when Penny said that Amy was not dressed sexy enough, Amy replied: "Some people think that a smart brain is also sexy."

More and more As you go up, smart brains and interesting souls become more scarce, even more scarce than beautiful and sexy skins.

There is a very popular post on the Internet. Many girls who want to marry into rich families are asking - what are the standards for rich people to marry? What kind of girl can marry a rich man? Does it only need to be beautiful?

One of the answers received a lot of likes:

I am the manager of a TOP10 headhunting company. I have served thousands of people with annual salaries of millions, including many with annual salaries of over one million. Million dollar vice president. President, even chairman, but there is a surprising statistic. Most of the wives of rich people are not beauties in the worldly sense.

This is not about absolutes, but mostly. It is about probability. Of course there are cases of rich people marrying beautiful women. There is no need to discuss such a small number of examples.

Why is this? Don't rich people like beautiful women?

I don’t think so.

When rich people marry a wife, they generally consider three conditions, one is external, one is internal, and the other is the other person’s net worth.

It is the only choice for many wealthy people to marry a well-matched wife and take their business to the next level.

For example, when Hong Kong real estate tycoon Xu Jinheng married gambling king daughter He Chaoqiong.

For example, Liao Zhenhan, the son of the chairman of Taiwan Sanqiao Group, married Sun Yunyun, the daughter of Pacific Wire and Cable Group.

This is a part of the rich, and some of the rich do not want their lives to become a tool for profit-making through marriage, so there are two factors in their choice, external and internal.

Please note that people who can become rich are not stupid. If they are stupid, they will not become rich. They are all extremely smart and will be very cautious about marriage.

Buffett once said: When I was young, I dated the most beautiful woman recognized locally. Later I heard that she had been divorced three times. Imagine what a terrible thing it would be if I married her at that time...

So, for the rich, which one do they pay more attention to, external or internal?

I think it will be the latter. I have met many rich people, and most of them will choose women who are at the same level as themselves, at least at the same spiritual level.

Compared with the appearance, it is difficult to change the inside. It is formed by a person’s decades of experience and experience. If you marry a vase and go home, the pattern and cognition of the two people are not on the same level at all. , chickens and ducks speak the same language every day, and it doesn't help you at all, so why? Doing charity?

Believe me, rich people can reach that position and have seen countless beautiful women. They may be attracted by the appearance of some women and fall in love at first, but when they really want to talk about marriage, they must consider There are many factors, so you will definitely be cautious.

Why did Wang Sicong fall in love with so many Internet celebrities, but didn’t marry one? Why did Liang Luoshi still have no way to marry into Li Ka-shing's wealthy family after giving birth to three children?

There are actually many reasons behind this.

Some people may say, can’t we have both? There are women who are beautiful but also have inner qualities.

That’s right, but there are too few of them.

Therefore, many rich men’s wives may not be beauties in the worldly sense.

Thinking that you can conquer rich people simply by relying on beauty is the biggest misunderstanding of the rules of the game in the upper class.

Although it is difficult to generalize about the wealthy people’s criteria for selecting spouses because they vary from person to person, most of the women who can get married to him are women who are on the same level as him.

They have the same views and like-minded goals, and they are evenly matched. They complement each other and make progress together.

One day, an American girl named Boles posted a question on a financial forum:

"How can I marry a rich man?"

Boers said that he is 25 years old, very beautiful, and wants to marry someone with an annual salary of $500,000. "In New York, an annual salary of 1 million is considered a middle class. My requirements are actually not high."

Soon, a man named Rob Campbell replied to her.

Rob Campbell is a veteran of Financial Street, with an annual salary of more than 500,000 US dollars, which fully meets the conditions listed by Boles.

What you are talking about is actually a simple transaction. Party A provides a charming appearance, and Party B is responsible for providing corresponding money. It seems to be a fair transaction. But there is a problem here. Your beauty will fade away, but my money will not decrease for no reason. In fact, my income is likely to increase year by year, but it is unlikely that you will become more beautiful every year. From an economic perspective, I am an appreciation asset and you are a depreciation asset. Not only does it depreciate, but it depreciates at an accelerated rate. It may sound cruel, but for an item that is depreciating at an accelerated rate, the smart choice is to rent it short-term rather than buy it for life.

Secondly, from an emotional point of view, marrying you is a very risky move, because if one day a man with more annual income than me appears, I will have a high possibility. I will be ruthlessly abandoned by you, and while you are embracing others, according to the marriage law, I will lose half of my property. Therefore, the risk of trading with you is very high. Anyone with an annual salary of more than half a million is not a fool. We will only date you, not marry you. By the way, you have greater hope of becoming a person earning half a million a year than meeting a fool earning half a million a year!

Rob Campbell's reply was cold and heartless, but very true.

There is an old Chinese proverb that says well: Those who use sex to do things to others will lose their love when sex fades.

Using beauty as a proof of sincerity is the most unreliable thing.

Even if you meet a rich man who only cares about beauty, can you guarantee that you will always be young and beautiful? As your appearance ages, will it be easily replaced by someone younger and more beautiful?

Appearance is innate, but knowledge, behavior, and temperament can be improved day after day, and they are rarer and more precious than the former. Like brewing a jar of wine, it will last forever.

And we strive to improve, not to please others or find a destination, but to please ourselves and enrich our lives.

I have always felt that the sexiest part of a woman is her brain.

When the best self is tall and graceful, the best self is admired from a distance.

He appreciates your talent and your character. This is pure love worth pursuing.

I must be a kapok tree near you, standing with you as the image of a tree.