Xinyu fortune-telling steel bar
People are easily hinted by external information, which leads to the deviation of self-cognition. People often think that a general description of personality reveals their own characteristics very accurately-Barnum effect has been used by psychologists to let college students judge whether it is suitable for them. As a result, most college students think that this passage portrays themselves vividly. This is actually a psychological factor at work. People who ask for fortune telling are themselves particularly vulnerable to outside hints. Especially when they are depressed and frustrated, they lose control of their lives, their psychology is greatly enhanced, and their suggestibility is stronger than usual. In the case that the help-seeker is easy to be hinted, as long as the fortune teller uses the skill of leaving room for expression, is good at figuring out people's inner feelings and understanding the wishes of the help-seeker, the help-seeker will immediately feel a kind of spiritual comfort, and the fortune teller will say something universally applicable, and the help-seeker will be more convinced. Life taught Einstein that he was a playful child when he was a child, and his mother often worried about it. His mother's repeated warnings went unheeded. Until the autumn of 16, one morning, my father stopped Einstein who was about to go fishing by the river and told him a story that changed Einstein's life. My father said, "Yesterday, my neighbor Uncle Jack and I went to clean a big chimney in the south. The chimney can only go up if you step on the steel ladder inside. Your uncle Jack is in the front and I am in the back. We grabbed the handrail and climbed up step by step. When we came down, your uncle Jack still walked in front and I followed. Later, when we came out of the chimney, we found a strange thing: your uncle Jack's back and face were covered by the chimney. " Einstein's father smiled as needed and said, "I saw your uncle Jack and thought I must be dirty like a clown, so I went to the nearby river to wash and wash." And your uncle Jack, seeing me clean when I came out of the chimney, thought he was as clean as me, so he washed his hands and went out on the street. As a result, people in the street burst into laughter and thought your uncle Jack was crazy. "Hearing this, Einstein couldn't help laughing with his father. After his father smiled, he solemnly said to him, "In fact, no one else can be your mirror, only you are your own mirror. Taking others as a mirror, an idiot may turn himself into a genius. "In daily life, we can't reflect on ourselves all the time, and we can't always observe ourselves from the standpoint of an outsider, so we can only know ourselves with the help of outside information. Because of this, everyone is easily hinted by external information when he knows himself, lost in the environment, and takes other people's words and deeds as a reference when he acts. When we go to fortune telling, most of us are full of confusion and confusion. Doubt, so it is very likely to be induced to believe the fortune teller. In fact, a person's fate is in his own hands. When a person has a good psychological quality, he can find a suitable way to vent and deal with psychological problems.