A 73-year-old man in Hunan married a 28-year-old daughter-in-law, and they almost never quarreled. what do you think?
0 1, Introduction
Today's society is an era of extremely open and inclusive spiritual culture. Everyone's thoughts have been liberated as never before, which is obvious in many aspects, and people's ideas about marriage and love have also undergone earth-shaking changes.
In the past, for their own marriage, the parties could not make their own decisions, and their marriage events were all arranged by their parents. The tragedies of Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai were caused by the society where parents' orders and matchmakers' words decided their marriage. In the past, even two people who loved each other did not dare to disobey their parents' orders and matchmakers' words. For example, Lu You, a famous poet in the Southern Song Dynasty, and his ex-wife Lu Wan did not come to the end. At that time, not many people would agree with the idea of love freedom.
In the new era, we all have our own opinions on the concept of love. It can be said that we are not bound by the old ideas, and we all bravely pursue our own love. Now there is a view of love that love has nothing to do with age, identity and status. Many people don't care about each other's age when they are in love. This is because of such an open and inclusive concept of love, there have been many forgetfulness in society.
And what we want to tell is also the story of a pair of people who forgot the past year. The 73-year-old man in Hunan married his 28-year-old daughter-in-law and got the support of his family. What about their married life?
02, dark feelings
The 73-year-old hero named Wen Changlin is an uncle in Hunan. The 28-year-old daughter-in-law married by this Hunan uncle is called Zhang Feng. This Hunan uncle is a famous local village doctor. Zhang Feng's father needs a doctor's regular check-up for physical reasons, but Zhang Feng's family is poor and can't send his father to the hospital, so he can only stay at home to take care of him. In the village, he will naturally call the village doctor. Therefore, Wen Changlin was invited to take care of Zhang Feng's sick father, and Wen Changlin and Zhang Feng met.
Wen Changlin is very sympathetic to Zhang Feng. Zhang Feng is a girl, so she was disliked by her parents since she was a child, and her brothers and sisters were not good to her. She was put in foster care with her aunt when she was a child. She didn't live with her family since she was a child, let alone have any feelings for her brother and sister, who was also very crowded out.
Wen Changlin sympathized with the little girl, so she usually took care of Zhang Feng's father, cared for her, often enlightened and helped her, and gave her her her first birthday, which made her feel unprecedented warmth. Over time, Zhang Feng had a sense of dependence and complex feelings for Wen Changlin, but Zhang Feng didn't know Wen Changlin at that time.
03, show one's mind
After Zhang Feng's father died of serious illness, Wen Changlin left Zhang Feng's home. After Wen Changlin left, Zhang Feng was sad to think that they would never contact again. After Wen Changlin left, Zhang realized that he was in love with Wen Changlin. After confirming his feelings, Zhang Feng went to Wen Changlin's house and expressed his feelings to him.
In the face of Zhang Feng's sudden confession, at first, Wen Changlin was also startled. How dare he accept this young girl? Wen Changlin knows quite well. Zhang Feng is as old as her granddaughter, only 28 years old. Wen Changlin knows the age gap between them. However, Zhang always insists on her feelings. She doesn't want Wen Changlin. Finally, she moved Wen Changlin and fell in love with Zhang Feng. They decided to be brave for love once and chose to be brave together.
04. get married
Although we are open, tolerant and respectful to the concept of marriage and love now, we are still bound by some old concepts in some rural areas. Besides, marriage is not for two people, but for two families. Wen Changlin and Zhang Feng also met with resistance.
Wen Changlin's family has no different opinions. Wen Changlin has four children, and he can reap love when he sees his father getting old. Someone is willing to take care of his father, and Wen Changlin's children are also very happy. However, Zhang Feng was strongly opposed by her family, especially Zhang Feng's brother, who had arranged a marriage partner for her. Her brother arranged for Zhang Feng to marry a rich man. Her brother naturally hoped that Zhang Feng could marry the rich man to benefit from it, but Zhang Feng didn't like it and insisted on marrying Wen Changlin.
In the face of family opposition, Zhang Feng insisted on his own ideas. She and Wen Changlin chose a good day, quietly went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get a marriage certificate, formally got married and started a family. After getting the marriage certificate, she went home and confessed to her family that she married Wen Changlin. The family didn't believe it, so Zhang Feng showed his marriage certificate to his family. This is the end of the story. Zhang Feng's family had no choice but to follow Zhang Feng. Zhang Feng's mother and eldest brother said that as long as she didn't regret it.
After marriage, their life is calm and happy. To Wen Changlin's delight, Zhang Feng was pregnant soon after marriage, and Wen Changlin was naturally happy when he was old. Zhang Feng was pregnant in October. In the expectation of everyone, Zhang Feng gave birth to a son, and the child was injected with new life, which made Wen Changlin and Zhang Feng's small family happier. For Zhang's little boy, Wen Changlin's children are very happy. They all say they are going to be brother and sister again, and they all love this child very much. The child will be loved by so many people as soon as it is born. I think the road to growth in the future is also very happy.
05. Conclusion
There is a line at the end of the movie "Big Fish Begonia": Life is a journey. It took us several cycles to complete the journey. And this journey is very short, so be bold, love someone, climb a mountain and chase a dream. ...
Indeed, life is just a few decades, it is difficult to meet true love, and there will be no true love. When you fall in love with someone, you might as well be brave and pursue your love bravely. Wen Changlin and Zhang Feng were not optimistic about their unforgettable love at first, but they were brave together, which proved that their choice was correct and they lived happily after marriage. What do you think of this?