/kloc-before the age of 0/0, children should not learn three things too early, and parents must know.

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Parents should pay special attention to their children's growth. It is important to learn and exercise various abilities, but some things should not be premature for children.

It is right to do things that are beneficial to children's physical development at the right age. The following three things, you must know, children should do less before 10.

It is not advisable to read and write too early.

Many parents have some one-sided misconceptions about family education, thinking that the sooner they can read, the smarter they are.

Therefore, children are taught to read and even write before reaching kindergarten level instead of getting up early. I expect children to be able to read and write 3000 Chinese characters when they are three or five years old.

However, this "literacy" is meaningless.

It takes about twelve years for a child's cognitive ability to fully develop. The purpose of literacy is reading, and reading must be meaningful on the basis of understanding in order to keep children interested.

A five-year-old child, even if he can read newspapers fluently, can't understand the information conveyed by these words. So how can they write these words by hand?

Writing is an extremely delicate skill. It is necessary to observe and analyze the characters intentionally, decompose the characters into various strokes, and then send information and instructions to the hands of the brain to combine various strokes into characters.

If children are forced to write, it can only be a painting. Their handwriting will inevitably be crooked, lacking arms and legs. In this case, parents will inevitably vomit a few words:

"What did you write, ghost painting?"

"I told you to write carefully, but you didn't listen. Is it a pig? "

"You are so stupid and worthless!"

Hearing the parents' reproach, the children themselves are of course very discouraged and depressed. In the long run, I lose interest and confidence in writing, so that I have fear, such as being tired of learning.

For children under 6 years old, writing too early does far more harm than good. Moreover, it will also bring harm to the body.

Children's finger joints are not fully developed, and premature practice of Chinese characters is easy to cause finger deformities;

Children are inattentive, it is difficult to maintain a correct sitting posture, and it is easy to hunch over;

If you read books for a long time, your eyes will soon be tired and bored.

Over time, the ability of the eyes to adjust the focal length decreases, leading to myopia.

You're welcome to say that early literacy and early reading are actually an educational method that pursues immediate results. Its only advantage is to please parents and give them capital to show off.

Therefore, writing is basically something after children enter primary school and should not be advocated in early childhood.

It is not advisable to learn the piano too early.

Friends or parents often come to ask this question: Is it particularly easy for children to be nearsighted when they learn piano too early?

I want to say that children who play the piano are more nearsighted! Moreover, the longer the study time, the greater the probability of deep myopia.

Perhaps some parents will be unconvinced and ask: Lang Lang and Di Yun play the piano so well, why are they not nearsighted? Should children wait until they are 70 or 80 years old if they don't learn piano?

In fact, Di Yun and Lang Lang are both nearsighted, but for image reasons, they both wear contact lenses on weekdays. At the scene of tonight's live program, Lang Lang once said that his myopia was as high as 1500 degrees.

Borrowing a sentence from People's Daily Online, ten piano children are nearsighted, and children who learn piano have been nearsighted since primary school.

So, what is the relationship between learning piano and myopia?

/kloc-before the age of 0/0, it is a critical period for eye development. Excessive use of eyes at this stage will have a great impact on children's eyes.

Because of the contrast between piano and black and white keys, children sit in front of the piano for a long time, staring at the staff closely and intensively, which is easy to cause eye muscle fatigue.

Moreover, the words on the piano score are very small, and the child looks hard, and eye fatigue will slowly accumulate.

Especially now, some parents are too impatient to let their children lose at the starting line. Other children are learning the piano, and their own children can't fall behind.

So it is very common to force children to practice the piano for a long time, one to two hours. Then day after day, and finally induce myopia.

It is conceivable that children with poor eyesight, not to mention learning piano, even have difficulty reading. If you can't see the words on the blackboard clearly in class, you will feel dizzy and tired if you study for a long time.

Therefore, parents must pay attention to helping children protect their eyes. It is recommended to learn piano after the age of 6. Mothers can enlarge the piano score and let their children rest for half an hour 10 minutes.

Children who have been learning piano for a long time should remember to watch as much as possible, which is the best principle to prevent myopia.

It is not advisable to ride a bike or learn roller skating too early.

/kloc-children under 0/0 years old, the bones are in the development stage and have strong plasticity.

For children, cycling and roller skating are very physical exercises, which can not only exercise the coordination ability of hands, eyes, legs and feet, but also exercise the balance ability of children's bodies.

Many people don't understand why children can't ride bicycles and learn roller skating. What are the disadvantages?

At present, the distance between the two pedals of children's bicycles on the market is widened, and the distance between the seat and the pedals is too long, so some cars cannot adjust this distance.

The child's bone and joint density is still relatively small. When a child is riding a bike, his feet and lower limbs will produce great strength. After a long time, the inside of his knee will bulge and expand, and the lower limbs will be over-abduction, forming an "X"-shaped leg.

When you play roller skating, your waist, knees and ankles all need strong support. Once the force is improper, these parts are very vulnerable to injury. Because roller skating requires throwing your legs to the outside, it is easy to form splayed feet.

Pediatric experts suggest that the best age for children to learn to ride bicycles is about 5 years old, and it is suitable for learning roller skating after 7 years old. Need to pay attention to the control time of riding, 20-30 minutes is appropriate, not too long.

Raising children is a long-term project, so we must be far-sighted rather than eager for quick success. Again, we want a child, second-class in Guangdong, not falling at the starting line.