What did you do at home during the epidemic?

It seems that everyone has symptoms of smiling depression. Bright and bright when you work during the day, and clear-headed when you speak at the meeting. You think you have social phobia, but you pretend to be a social cow and wear a mask in the company. I dragged my tired body home at night, and then I brushed my mobile phone in bed at night for a long time. I just want to have my own time, no communication, and then I feel silently crying alone in some plots and songs. You feel sorry for yourself, but life is so cold that you have to force yourself to be an invulnerable adult.

In this world, people who can resist all kinds of drugs have been scarred, and people who can laugh at the situation have been riddled with holes! The epidemic made everyone indifferent. When they go out, they wear masks. It seems that no one knows anyone. Passers-by are in a hurry, chasing time in the wind. The subway is crowded, but everyone is holding a mobile phone, which seems to have crossed to another world, hiding another fresh and passionate youth. Does it feel very split, the silence of waiting when there is no mobile phone, and the patient comparison of watching short videos on mobile phones? Holding a mobile phone, I sometimes wonder whether the mobile phone controls us or we control the mobile phone.

Time seems to be controlled by fragmented apps. Where has all the time gone? You said you didn't have time to read books and call your family, but you brushed the enthusiasm of Tik Tok live broadcast and sent warnings and gifts. Who's flattering who? How long are you willing to work for ordinary people who work hard and live a down-to-earth life? Delayed retirement makes many young people afraid that they will have no time for themselves when they are old. Afraid of working all my life. When you find yourself too lazy to change the status quo, you will complain more, complaining that you have a boss who loves to draw pancakes, a mother who cares about everything, a boyfriend who doesn't like cleanliness, and an incompetent self. ...

You don't know that the boss paints cakes to keep every employee, to make employees full of expectations for the company, and to work harder for their own work to deserve his salary; A caring mother is afraid that you will lose money on something. She thought the clothes she bought for her would cost you money, so she found an excuse not to let you return them. She went to the market to bargain for a few dollars, but when she came back, she cooked a good table. My boyfriend works all night and is not in the mood to clean up when he comes back. He just wants to fall asleep. Except complaining, I never want to spend time and action to improve my dissatisfaction.

Do you want to start over? Re-work after getting married and having children, change careers after the industry crisis, and pick yourself up when you are depressed. "When you overestimate the difficulties, the difficulties will become bigger and your abilities will be dwarfed." The world makes you unhappy. Listening to happy songs, my heart is still sad. How many people wipe out the last ray of light in their complaints, hate work and docking, gradually become negative, become unwilling to work, lose sleep, toss and turn, have boring fantasies, gossip with colleagues, and finally hand over their resignation reports to HR, and then you start looking for a job blindly, trying to fill the emptiness inside. Finally, you find that it's not your job that's sorry for you, but your mentality. Only by solving the problem of mentality can we do a good job. Reconciliation with yourself, reconciliation with this society.

You will understand that some dark areas can be understood by taking off colored glasses. There are many directions to go forward, don't look back. Satisfy yourself and let others. I quit my job and became a volunteer, which just made me realize the importance of staying at home and feeling healthy. Experience being a volunteer, and you can feel a lot of positive energy and heal yourself after giving. What about you? Are you still worried? Look at Dabai downstairs during the epidemic and take off his protective clothing. He is just a child in his twenties.

Go and fight, the faintest light, waiting in endless hope. As Eason Chan sang, who said that only those who stand in the light are heroes? If you feel empty, it is important to enrich yourself, read books and save your energy, no matter how old you are. Go to exercise and keep your body active instead of tired. Keep the balance of upward energy. Only with courage can we fight against the bad emotions in life. Don't overestimate the difficulties and underestimate yourself. How to treat difficulties and how to maintain self-awareness are very important. If you want to do something, you should believe that you can do it. Laugh at the bleak situation, and then sit and watch the clouds fly. No argument is compassion, no argument is wisdom, ignorance is purity, no reading is freedom, forgiveness is liberation, and contentment is letting go.