What does it feel like for parents to call their children by their first names instead of nicknames?
I am the only child in my family who is not called by nicknames by my parents.
Let’s say the three siblings in our family are called "Wheat", "Wheat" and "Wheat".
My parents call my sister "Suisui" and my brother "Xiaoye", but they just call me "Maiya".
When I was a child, I didn’t understand. I always suspected that they were partial and why I was the only one without a nickname.
In rural areas, there is a saying that "two are too many".
Meaning:
It doesn’t matter if the first child in the family is a girl, because people hope that their children will have both children. , also hope that the elder sister will take care of the younger brother.
The third boy regarded it as a treasure because he wanted to continue the family line. And the more boys the better, no matter which one they are, they are all treasures.
But the second girl in the middle is just superfluous.
Unfortunately, I am the "two excess".
When I was a child, I felt inferior to this matter for a long time.
Only when I grew up did I realize that I was just imagining things after watching too many TV series.
My parents don’t dislike me and don’t call me nicknames. They just think that “Ya Ya” or “Xiao Ya” are not as easy to pronounce as “Mai Ya”.
In elementary school and junior high school, because I often came first in exams, they actually had high hopes for me.
There was a period of time when I was often sick. They took me everywhere to seek medical consultation and stayed with me in hospital. They spent more time with me than my sisters and brothers.
It is no exaggeration to say that I was probably the most loved one by them during that time.
So, it’s just a name.
The name is just for people to call. Others can call it, but parents can’t call it?
Those parents who affectionately call their children "baby" and "cute" certainly love their children.
But those seemingly serious parents also love their children equally.
My mother always calls me by my nickname,
Now I am in my thirties,
I still keep shouting,
I think it’s normal,
Because we are the closest Human,
If you call me by my name, I will feel uncomfortable,
Once my husband took our whole family out together. ,
My husband calls me by my nickname and chats with me,
My mother doesn’t want to,
She always emphasized that that was the name she called,
was her pet name for her daughter,
Husband is not allowed to shout, haha
We made the old lady laugh to death [laughing]
My daughter is little Her name is Doudou, and when we were little, we always called her Doudou. Later, when we went out to play with our children, we discovered that there were many puppies named Doudou!
Sometimes dog owners shout Doudou! My daughter agreed first! It made everyone dumbfounded, and then I started calling my girl by her given name.
A few days ago, my daughter complained that I always called her by her first name, which was not friendly, but she still liked me calling her by her nickname. When I went out for a walk with her at night, I saw a puppy coming across from me, because I often meet the owner of the dog in the community. So I knew that the little teddy was also called Doudou. At this time, I deliberately said to my daughter: Do you really like me calling you by your nickname? My daughter rested her head on my shoulder and said: Yes! At this time, the puppy also ran to our feet. My daughter was afraid of dogs since she was a child, so she avoided the puppy. When the dog owner saw it, he quickly shouted: "Doudou, come back!" Then he greeted me with a smile and said: My daughter is back? I said: Yeah! I also took my Doudou for a walk! When my daughter heard this, she quickly said: Mom! mom! Pull it down! You'd better call me by my first name!
Haha, my child has been called by his full name since he was a child. He has no nickname. This child has been a bit smart since he was a child. He is the kind that everyone likes, no matter who calls him. He always looked happy and cheerful. When he was 3 or 4 years old, people teased him and called him by name, "Sing me a song." He laughed and sang "Little Grass". He was taught by the kindergarten teacher. I think It's good to go to kindergarten, and he learns a lot of things. Sometimes I'm surprised, how could he do it without being taught? When I left kindergarten at the age of 6, I won first place in the intelligence competition. I was assigned to a good class and a good teacher in the first grade, and everything went smoothly afterwards.
I think my parents, relatives, or friends and neighbors are all accustomed to calling people by their nicknames. My nickname is Wang Laoer, because of the name of my family. Ranked second, so many people call me that, but there are also some people who call me Boss Wang. In fact, I didn’t know why at first. When I went home and asked my parents, I found out that I have another brother. , because he passed away when he was two years old, so I can be said to be the eldest, but I still like them to call me Wang Lao Er, which feels more affectionate. As for your name, maybe only your teachers and classmates at school will call you that, and then colleagues or people you know will call you by your name when you go out.
It feels quite uncomfortable.
My parents would call me by my nickname, which is the last character of my name.
It actually sounds quite cute.
But!
If I make a mistake, or fail in the exam, or do all kinds of things that make them unhappy, then I will become a famous person immediately!
She also yells fiercely!
So I often experience that one second it was sunny and windy, and the next second there was lightning and rainstorms...
But even though my parents They will be so angry that they call me by my name, but that doesn’t stop them from loving me.
Most parents love their children, and there are not many extreme cases described.
Mom and dad don’t call themselves by their nicknames or nicknames. It may be that their parents are not good at expressing themselves, or they don’t take their names seriously. After all, names are just code names, right?
So don’t take it too seriously!
My child's name has the word "Yue" in it. We all call him Yue Yue. One day we went to the mall to watch a movie. There were several children in an elevator. One of the parents called out "Yue Yue", and then the whole elevator was boiling. In the end, I counted and took the elevator with us. , including one to six of our children named yueyue. Because this word has too many homophones, such as Yue, Yue, Yue, Yue, Yue, Yue... Not only do kindergarten students have similar names, but in elementary school, students of the opposite sex also have similar names. The first-grade teacher calls them all Sometimes there will be another one who stands up to answer questions, and one of his cousins’ nickname was also called “Yueyue” after she was born! So we are also very helpless. We have not called our children by nicknames for several years. We simply call them by their first and last names.
If she is an only child, I guess she can be called whatever she wants. If you compare yourself with your brothers and sisters, it's still a lot of sadness.
Assume the name is ABC,
My parents have always called me the last letter of my name since I was a child, and the single letter is like this , most of my relatives and friends at home also call me this. My husband's family also calls him this way.
After getting married, my family still calls my husband with the last word C, but my parents-in-law always call me BC. I often feel that such a title is not intimate at all. , very distant.
It doesn’t matter, my name or nickname doesn’t matter, it’s the same no matter how I call it, but I still have a nickname, and my nickname is not only called by my family, Outsiders can also call me, but they never call me by my name, because I was the youngest at home since I was a child. My parents, brothers and sisters all loved me very much, so my mother gave me the nickname "Xiao Jiao Jiao". I called my parents and said it didn't feel friendly enough, and then gave me a nickname "Laoba" (which means the youngest child). Later, I was called Xiaojiaojiao in front of outsiders, and Laobai at home. , my brothers and sisters would also call me that. Now that I have grown up, my parents will just call me Jiaojiao or Laozi. The most interesting thing is that my husband also calls me Laozi. I have told him several times, don’t call me that. , it’s awkward, but I still don’t listen, it’s probably a habit, well, anyway, just call me whatever you like, and call me whatever your loved ones feel like.
I am a person without a nickname. The elders just drop my surname when they call me. Several of my childhood sweethearts and people I grew up with are like this. It seems like we It seems that people there don’t have nicknames, it’s just the custom of each place. I don’t think it has any impact on us. We use our first names in school and work, and our nicknames are only given by relatives and friends, which may make us look more friendly.