After studying for a Ph.D. or graduate school, how did your undergraduate roommates fare?
After graduating from college, the roommates who lived together for four years finally went their separate ways. Some are studying for postgraduate studies and Ph.D. exams, some are taking the civil service exams, some are taking the state editor exams, and some are working in companies. How are they doing after so many years?
@universe
I have lived in two dormitories and had 7 roommates. One went to Wuhan University, one went to Ocean University of China, two Chinese Academy of Sciences, and one went to Berkeley, California. One went to the University of Tokyo, Japan, and the other is now at Dongfeng Nissan! Except for the roommates from Dongfeng Nissan, everyone is still in graduate school, so they don’t feel much. All I can say is that my roommates abroad are really envious!
@ weonweon
To be honest, almost all my roommates are better at studies than me, but none of them took the postgraduate entrance exams. They all got jobs after graduating from undergraduate degrees. They are all doing well now. They have partners and have children. Yes. I am the only one who is a bad student (a real bad student). I have lost my mind. I have chosen the most difficult path, studying for graduate school. Now I have neither a partner nor a job. I don’t have enough money and have to be sponsored by my parents. I am heartbroken. Want to cry but no tears.
@ iris girl
Two are married and have children, one is about to get married, and the other is going to work as a laboratory technician in a university after graduating from graduate school. I'm still on my way to a PhD.
Anonymous user
Everyone made different choices when I was an undergraduate. Everyone has their own ideas, and it can be said that they don’t quite understand other people’s choices. Five years have passed, and I am studying for a PhD. Some of them have peaceful and stable jobs, while others are working hard in big cities. It seems that they are getting farther and farther apart, but in fact they just want to prove that their original choice was the best. No matter what, just be happy and content.
@黑兵一
I chose to work in a state-owned enterprise, and my friend chose to study for graduate school. One of the girls studied silently for a year by herself and went to a certain 985. Three years have passed, and I am copying the day before. One of them graduated and went to Huawei, and the other is about to graduate. I only have some regrets and want to go back to graduate school!
@ Vivien Liya
I am in graduate school, and my other roommates are working. They have the worries and entertainment activities of working people. I envy them the most because they can provide living expenses for their families; and I I also have my own small life, and the bursary basically allows me to live as a graduate student without having to ask for help. Although scientific research is stressful, I like it very much.
@ Lend me a look
It has been 4 years since I graduated from graduate school. I am doing scientific research in a certain institute in a certain province. I often work overtime and have a lot of pressure. My salary is about 5K. The situation of students who are not in graduate school is different.
@陈 Zihan
My roommate who failed the postgraduate entrance examination and became a civil servant earned 800/month, while I, who was admitted to the postgraduate entrance examination
Anonymous user
Wall, nothing to say, the path you choose
Anonymous user
It’s been almost two years since I graduated. I have a job, a paradise, re-examination, and graduate school. I am a student of tobacco and alcohol. , a test editor.
Anonymous user
They are better off than me now, and I think I will be better off than them after graduation. Rejoice, she is so confident
@伊木
I gave birth to a pair of twin daughters, and they were exposed to the sun every day. . .
Anonymous user
It should be said that the choices are different and the paths are very different~ My roommate at work is prosperous and has a happy family, my brother who is a civil servant is ambitious and strives to make progress every day, and I am studying Graduate students are happiest when they pursue an ideal path that suits them
@ mjl
Studying and academic qualifications do not make people feel more joyful and happy! But I still have to continue~
@If you are not happy, give me some dopamine
One of them did not pass the World War II exam and I don’t know where he went, and the others are in graduate school. . .
@ wencan
When I graduated with an undergraduate degree, my roommates all went to graduate school, and when I graduated with a master’s degree, my roommates all went to Ph.D.
Anonymous user
Me He's the one studying for graduate school, and his stipend is not enough to live on. Who knows how he lives his life. My college roommates have all gone to work, and one of them has bought a house and a car
Anonymous user
All of them who are not in graduate school have given birth to their second child, but I am still alone. There is less and less hair, and the hairline is getting higher and higher.
Anonymous user
My undergraduate degree was a normal college student. After graduation, I took the postgraduate entrance examination, and my roommate found a middle school to teach. A year later, I was in the second year of postgraduate school and had no achievements. My roommate passed. After one year of teaching practice, teachers’ skills have been greatly improved, and their teaching has been well received by teachers at home and abroad.
@ LEO
A research monk like me, a civil servant who eats royal food, and a highly paid programmer. It seems that everyone has their own difficulties, but they are still happy. After all, life and the future look pretty good. Wish us all the best, old fellows
Anonymous user
I am currently a first-year graduate student in Shanghai, with a monthly allowance of 500, which is enough for food. The school is very remote and I don’t go out except for I'm in class in the office. Sometimes I feel very depressed, but sometimes I think about it, it's not easy for everyone. Sometimes I feel stupid, and I feel that others are very capable of doing things. I feel like I can't learn things by myself. Sometimes I feel really tired and anxious, but I don’t know where to start. I really want to find someone to help me share the burden.
Anonymous user
I was still living on scholarships when I was in graduate school, and a roommate from my undergraduate degree had already started a company
@ vivien
One became a civil servant, the others went to graduate school and then all worked. Only I continue to study for a doctorate. I hope we all live better and better
@ Jiang Y Q
Forget it, no Mentioned, life is more nourishing and happier than mine.
@SCO
One is in graduate school, the other is working, and the other doesn’t know anything. They went their separate ways and haven’t contacted each other for a long time. Thinking about it now, I still feel nostalgic. How could we survive without these two bitches? Live a boring college life.
@pengjun
Those who have not gone to graduate school envy those who have gone to graduate school, and those who have gone to graduate school envy those who have not gone to graduate school! In fact, we don’t need to envy other people’s lives. The path we have traveled, looking back, is the best arrangement. Why do you go your own way and care about others?
@波波小白Rabbit
I feel like others are doing very well. I am about to graduate from graduate school. My partner’s mother thinks I am too poor to afford a house and won’t let her be with me. .
Anonymous user
It’s none of my business how other people live, and it’s none of my business how I live their lives
Anonymous user
A 2008 graduate There are 4 people in the undergraduate dormitory, 1 is studying for graduate school, 1 is a civil servant, 1 is studying for PhD and the other is working. The graduate student works in user experience after graduation and changes companies every two years. The current annual income is almost one million, and the civil servant is looking everywhere. The relationship has improved. The one who studied for a Ph.D. just graduated and went to college this year, and the one who works in middle management is annoyed every day.
Anonymous user
The roommate who did not study for graduate school now has a car and a house. I have a husband and children.
@西西
Two years after graduation, two of my undergraduate roommates have become housewives
@卡卡
There are four people in the undergraduate dormitory, one runs a canteen but no news, one works as a developer in Suzhou Snail Game, and one works as a junior high school teacher in Huai'an. I have finished graduate school and am currently studying for a Ph.D.
@ jkjj
I am in graduate school, and one of my roommates is selling houses in Beijing, one is in the Shenyang Railway Bureau, and the other one has gone to South Africa to open a bar and hotel?
@拉美
I graduated from graduate school, and now At the Chinese Academy of Sciences, one roommate had just resigned from Huawei, and the other went home to work as a civil servant.
@blameme slightly
There are four people in the undergraduate dormitory, all of whom graduated from graduate school this year. One is Alibaba, one is from a certain institute of the Chinese Academy of Sciences, one is studying abroad for a Ph.D., and there is me, who failed to live up to expectations and changed majors and went to a securities firm.
@澳门
There are four of them, one is a graduate student at my school, one is a graduate student at Sichuan University, one is from a Nanjing software outsourcing company, and one is writing code in a private company.
@Rongguang
The eldest brother works as a maritime lawyer in a Shanghai law firm, the second brother works in Tianjin Public Security Bureau, the third child works in Beijing Tongge Law Firm, and the fourth child works as a judge in Shenyang Sino-French Law Firm. , Lao Wu is at Dalian Customs, I am here.
@ Alawi
After graduating from the Department of Moving Bricks, I entered a design institute, moved bricks on a construction site, worked as a supervisor, and opened two institutions of my own. clothing store. Just finished the National Day party.
@Ohwuohfear
I have a master's degree from my school, one is working in a foreign company, one is directly getting a US green card, one is returning to a state-owned enterprise in his hometown, one is a direct doctorate from the Chinese Academy of Sciences, and another has been working for two years. I went to Peking University to study for my master's degree.
My graduate student roommates were one from CITIC, one from the State Council, one from the Central Committee, and I was still studying for a Ph.D. . .
@jakob
The richest 10 years were said to be laundering money for people in Dubai, with a three-year work visa, but he came back in a year and a half, saying he had earned 450,000 , bought a house and got married after coming back
@funanhe
Tell me about me, the university changed two dormitories, the first dormitory: 1. Baoyan Fudan Computer Data Graduate Student 2. Huawei A certain type of engineer 3. The second dormitory of UCSD's ECE PHD: 1. Fudan Integrated Circuit Research Institute 2. Apply for MS in the United States, EE, probably UTA, UC 3. Southern Fund 4. This is the one ?Niu?Gubo Congji Lai V School? Currently has admission to finance from the University of Sydney and the University of Melbourne. Although it is very weak, I am preparing to apply for the United States IC.
@小AOjiao
Let’s not talk about the graduate student, the relationship is not deep. Eight years after graduating from undergraduate degree, there are six people in the dormitory. 1 I went to Peking University for the postgraduate entrance examination, and went to Stanford for my Ph.D., and I am still in the United States. 2. After taking the postgraduate entrance examination at Peking University, I am currently returning to my hometown to open a small company. 3A certain city’s tax department. 4Three Gorges Office. 5A certain judicial authority. 6. I am a graduate student of my own school and am currently staying at the school. To sum up, I didn’t do particularly well, and I didn’t do particularly badly either, so just make do with it.
@Scala
There are 4 people in the dormitory. I am currently a second-year graduate student. One is in Shenzhen with a monthly income of 9,000 before tax. One is a transfer student selected by the Henan Provincial Committee. The salary has not been mentioned. If you stay in Chengdu, your monthly income will be 6,000.
@家AO
Four people in the university dormitory: 1, admitted to Xi'an University of Electronic Science and Technology as a graduate student, now in a research institute in Shijiazhuang, his hometown, getting married next month 2, Chengdu Electronic Technology University graduate student, now in a research institute in Suzhou, unmarried3, admitted to the graduate school of this school, stayed in a company in Hefei to do integrated circuit design, got married on National Day last year4, I graduated from undergraduate degree without taking the postgraduate entrance examination, got married two years after graduation, now have two sons, academic qualifications Worst at work.
@LAKLSL
Both of them are married to rich people, the better ones drive Land Rover, and the worse ones are A7s. For me, a graduate student who relies on allowances to live, they are all How!
@大卡来
There are 6 dormitories, and it has been five years since I graduated from undergraduate degree
1. One took the postgraduate entrance examination and went to Sichuan University, and the other graduated and entered a certain design institute. , with a monthly income of about 5,00, saved money with subsidies for business trips all year round, and mortgaged a house; one went to Beijing to do sales, and I don’t know what happened when he came back last year, and he is not married yet;
2. One After taking the postgraduate entrance examination, I entered Southwest Jiaotong University, and it seems that I signed a contract with a design company, with a monthly income of 6,00, and I have not bought a house for the time being;
3. As a test, I entered Southwest University of Finance and Economics. After graduation, my monthly income is estimated to exceed 10K in a financial institution. Come on, we already have a garage;
4. A second-generation rich man who failed the postgraduate entrance examination for two consecutive years after graduation. Now he has opened a company, has more than 2 houses, drives an A6, and his wife is two years younger than us. I am a flight attendant and have a daughter;
5. I was recruited by Vanke Property Management after graduation, and later moved to Evergrande. Now I am a supervisor. I have a car and a house, I am married and have children, and the house is decorated;
I am the worst student in the dormitory and currently a Ph.D. student.
@卡吉泽
I am now imprisoned in the laboratory, and there are three others, one is Nanjing 28th Institute, one is Xi'an New Oriental, and one is Shanghai Zhaoxin Microelectronics.
Anonymous user
Three are in graduate school and one is already working with a bachelor's degree. Everyone is nice. Those who work are the first to have children and live a stable life. The rest are also married. We are scattered at the end of the world and don’t have many contacts. We still know our own situation best. I went abroad to study for a Ph.D. Painful and happy. Because I went abroad, my world became bigger and smaller in front of me. Participate in scientific research conferences and have the opportunity to experience various parts of the world. But the pressure is increasing. I’m not sure I will pursue my scientific research path to the end. Now I have just graduated and am doing postdoc abroad. The salary is enough, but the work is exhausting. I feel that I am already 30 years old and my life has just begun, but my body is not as energetic as before. In conclusion, seek benevolence and be benevolent, and don’t regret it.
In the blink of an eye, I graduated from undergraduate school, and in the blink of an eye, I graduated from graduate school. The people who gathered together in the past are scattered all over the world again.
There was happiness and friction when we were together, but looking back, it was actually nothing at all. Everyone is doing so well now, I'm really happy from the bottom of my heart. After all, not many people can live with us for four years in a lifetime!
You never know when your opportunities will appear. Feng Shui is always changing. It will be difficult at the beginning to get a master's degree, but it will gradually get better in the future. After all, knowledge lasts a lifetime. Vision, ability, and academic qualifications may be a better stepping stone to enter the enterprise.
To sum up, everyone is doing well. Even if your performance is just a little bit worse now, just think of it as your motivation to move forward. No matter what, I hope everyone can live their lives the way they want to be.