How to communicate with others and start a conversation

In fact, topics are paved the way for us to chat. When we encounter embarrassment, what methods should we know to start the topic and communicate with others? Below I have compiled a list of Tips for opening up topics in communication with others, for your reading reference.

Tips for communicating with others and starting topics 1. Set up suspense.

If you carefully observe the jokes written by joke writers, you should be able to find that good jokes often have two factors, the reversal at the end and the expected suspense setting from the beginning.

A more natural application in life is "I didn't expect it. I thought it was XXX before, but today I found XXX..."

Give a chestnut.

A. I always thought that my colleague Xiao Li was a quiet and well-behaved little girl. Until something happened recently, I was shocked!...

B. Yesterday I met I met an innocent girl who liked my style three times in a row, and some movie-like plots happened...

C. I saw a masterpiece, and I am still shocked. The quality of this work The concepts and creativity are really impressive...

D. I have a friend who works in Africa and told me something that shocked me...

First The second type is the interesting things about people around you; the second type is your own unique experiences; the third type is the movies or literary works you have seen; the fourth type is life experiences or feelings. Each can lead to more topics and discussions, as well as attract the other person’s interest in chatting in the first place.

Tips for communicating with others and starting topics 2. Go with what they like.

Suitable for friends who are already familiar with each other or if you know the other person’s work interests and preferences.

Typical applications. I found that you like XXX/you are watching XXX, I also like it very much, I think XXX, what do you think?

A. Don’t you like X family’s things very much? Recently I discovered that X family The new XX product is very good...

B. Team X vs Team X yesterday, this game was really thrilling.

C. Director XX, whom you also like very much, has recently made a new movie about XXX.

D. By the way, let me take a look at your horoscope this month. It seems there are peach blossoms~

Understand the spirit...

Communicate with others Tips for starting topics 3. Share useful social information and intelligence. For example:

A. There will be a grand international XX exhibition at the XX Convention and Exhibition Center next month. I'm sure it will be of interest to most people.

B.XX Library is holding a reading group on the history of the Three Kingdoms this weekend, and several famous historical writers are here.

C. There is a newly opened Thai restaurant that is very good, but the location is relatively remote and the environment is very good. It is very suitable for couples.

D.XX Cafe will have a themed salon event tomorrow, I think you may be interested...

Of course, there are also interesting and useful product explanations about investment, real estate, etc. Let’s talk about topics that most people are concerned about. Varies from person to person.

Tips for communicating with others and starting topics 4. Conclusion first, leaving room for discussion.

Recently I have realized that most of the things I understand about XXXX are emotional, be it friendship or love.

A. Are there any men who don’t watch pornographic films? Why do men still watch pornographic films when they have girlfriends?

B. Do Chinese parents like to force their children to be fast? Marry?

C. There is really no pure friendship between men and women! Li Daren and Cheng Youqing are still together, do you have Li Daren?

D. Long-distance relationship It’s really unreliable. Are there any successful long-distance or exotic relationships around you?

Some things that are specious and inconclusive are the easiest way to arouse the other party's interest in chatting. This process can be unfolded slowly.

Tips for starting conversations with others 5. Pseudopsychology

This is really the most versatile... In fact, most people may not really believe it in their hearts, but this The best thing to create a Barnum effect is to create buzz and talk.

A. Constellation analysis, emotional matching.

B. Simple and interesting little psychological tests, such as abnormality index test

C. Feng shui, palmistry, etc., it’s okay if you don’t understand, just talk about it casually, and then laugh and say I made it up of.

D.MBTI personality theory, etc.

Then when chatting, you can also add projection effects, halo effects, stereotype effects and other slightly pretentious words.