What causes middle-aged widowed women to live longer?
My husband died when I was 45. The fortune teller said that I was a widow. I was not born to get married. When I got married, my husband would die young. My mother didn't believe me when I was a child. But then my husband did die unexpectedly when I was middle-aged. After my husband died, I took the responsibility of taking care of my children alone. Because I am the only pillar left for my children and parents, I asked myself to take good care of my health.
Maybe because I don't have a husband, I will pay special attention to my health and can't let myself fall easily. This may be the reason why middle-aged widowed people will live a long and healthy life, because the whole family is counting on me, and I have repeatedly asked myself not to have an accident.
My husband died when I was about 40 years old. When my husband died, I left two children behind. After my husband left, I had to raise the children. Without a husband, I can only force myself to become strong quickly, because without a husband, orphans and widows will be bullied if I am not strong. Therefore, after losing her husband, she paid more attention to her health, fearing that something would happen to her and that her children would not rely on her.
Because of the loss of their father, the children have become very sensible, and our mother and son depend on each other. Later, the child grew up slowly. The burden on me has also become lighter. After the children got married, I began to live alone. A person's life is actually very quiet and simple. I think it is because there are too many quiet and simple days that I will live a long and healthy life.
My husband died unexpectedly at work in his forties. Of course, the death of my husband is particularly painful, but what can I do with this pain? If I make myself depressed, how can I live? I don't want to live. Yes, can children not live? Adults should think of their children. Although I don't have a husband, I have to take care of my children, so I try to take care of myself. Only when adults are in good health can I give children better protection. In fact, these years are also for children, so I protect myself and make myself healthier.
Of course, middle-aged widowed women are unfortunate, but any misfortune can actually stimulate women's strong will. Widowed women are often stronger and more independent than those who are loved by their husbands, because their responsibilities are heavier. The death of a woman in middle age is one of the most terrible tragedies in life. If a woman can bear such grief, her future life will actually be more open-minded, more tolerant and more open-minded than those women whose lives are smooth.
Many middle-aged widowed women live a long and healthy life. Maybe life is a blessing or a curse. God made them suffer some pains and gave them some strength to face life more bravely.