My son is unfilial, I want the daughter I gave away since childhood to take care of me in old age

In 1990, I gave birth to my daughter. My husband and parents-in-law were very happy, but I was the only one who sighed and didn’t smile.

I don’t even bother to look at my newborn daughter. Because I know very well that in rural areas, my son is the mainstay, so what’s the use of movies about girls? No matter how much I love and love them, they will have to enter other people’s homes in the future.

I named my daughter Laidi. When Laidi was a child, she never bought any delicious food or toys. But I knew that I would have a son in the future, so I prepared a lot of toys for my future son. , rattles, small wooden guns, they all belonged to boys, and Laidi was not interested in them either.

Due to family problems, I delayed having a child for several years. When Laidi was 6 years old, I finally gave birth to my son, Xiaobao, as I wished.

Also this year, someone died in the brick kiln where my husband worked, and it was sealed and refused to be opened. There are six people in our family, and we all rely on the little money my husband earns from working part-time. I am so worried that my hair is growing gray.

It just so happened that not long after, the eldest aunt was diagnosed with blocked fallopian tubes at the county hospital and might be unable to have children for the rest of her life. The eldest aunt, brother-in-law and her husband planned to adopt a child together. I thought, instead of adopting children from outsiders, why not give them Laidiguo? It would not only fulfill their wishes, but also reduce our burden. Why not?

I really couldn’t bear to see Laidi off. This girl Laidi is hard-working and capable. Under my training, she can wash clothes and cook at the age of 6. She can do all the work at home. Without her, I would have to suffer a lot.

But there is no way, the family is tight, and Xiaobao cannot be wronged. My husband and I sent Laidi to my aunt's house. We were both very sad, but my aunt gave us 20,000 yuan, which was not a small sum at the time. I bought a lot of new things for Xiaobao that day. Xiaobao has never been so happy about the delicious clothes and delicious food. Life is getting better, so I don’t think much about Laidi.

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A year later, my husband found a job in a factory in the town, and our family’s life gradually became more comfortable. Although it was not comparable to that of my aunt’s family, It's much better than before anyway.

Although my eldest sister adopted Laidi during this year, she did not stop going to various hospitals for treatment. She did not have high hopes for Laidi at first, but she did not expect that she was cured later. My sister was overjoyed to be pregnant with her own child and discussed with us whether we could send Laidi back.

To be honest, I’m not very happy. We haven’t seen Laidi for a year, and the child has long since stopped kissing us. To put it bluntly, Laidi is now our eldest aunt’s child. It doesn't matter anymore.

But my husband is soft-hearted, and he said that we should just think that this child is destined to us, that is, it is just an extra pair of dishes and chopsticks in the house.

After Laidi came back, I immediately felt a lot more relaxed. Laidi can take care of the housework and take care of my younger brother. She can serve as an adult even in her teens.

Laidi is smart and willing to work hard. She has always been among the best in studies. However, after finishing high school, I was unwilling to let her continue studying in college because the family's money had to be saved to educate her younger brother. Besides, she is a girl. No matter how much she studies, it is of no use. From now on, she will just be around the cooking pot.

But this child was very stubborn. She couldn't listen to my earnest words. Instead, she cried and knelt on the ground and begged me to let her study. I saw that it was okay and said no, so I raised my hand and gave her a slap in the face. She gave up on this idea, and as a result, she settled down and went out to work obediently.

Laidi is a kind-hearted child. Although she is a little dissatisfied, she still sends money to her family on time every month. A few years later, Xiaobao went to the town to study in high school. I told Laidi that she didn’t have to Just send the money to your home and go directly to the school to give it to Xiaobao every month.

When Xiaobao was in his second year of high school, his academic performance plummeted. My husband and I hurriedly went to town to see him. Xiaobao snorted and said coldly: "My classmates have enough to eat and wear." They all use famous brands, and I am stuck in the middle of them, living like a beggar. I can’t afford to lose this person, and I don’t want to go to school anymore.”

I became anxious when I heard that, and we pointed at the little one from now on. Baby, how can he do it if he doesn’t study? I quickly comforted Xiaobao and used my husband and I’s savings over the years to increase Xiaobao’s living expenses.

Lai Di came back at the end of the year and bought new clothes for the whole family. She herself also wore a bright and beautiful outfit. When the uncle’s daughter saw Lai Di’s bag, her eyes shone with envy. That bag I forgot the name of the brand, but when she said it cost several thousand dollars, I immediately became angry. If she has money, she should stick to her brother first. Her brother has never used such an expensive thing, how can she use it? ?

I said to her, now that you have money, you can add 1,000 yuan to your brother’s living expenses every month.

Unexpectedly, Laidi complained to me about poverty. She said that she bought this bag on her birthday, and she had bought this bag for so many years.

So what? She only bought one, but her brother never bought one.

I said no, you must give your brother extra living expenses. No money? It’s not all spent on herself. If she saves money on food and clothing, she will save Xiaobao’s share.

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What makes me happy is that Xiaobao is very successful and got into a good university with his own efforts. My husband and I are very happy and we will count on Xiaobao in the future. Bao makes us happy.

We held a banquet for Xiaobao at the best hotel in town to celebrate his graduation. Laidi’s voice on the phone was wrong, and she said she had to go to work and couldn’t come. I told her, “If you don’t come, don’t come.” If you pay 5,000 yuan back and work hard, there will be plenty of money for Xiaobao to go to college in the future.

Unexpectedly, something unexpected happened. On the afternoon of the entrance banquet, the little sister who worked together with Laidi called me suddenly. She was extremely anxious and said that Laidi had cut off her finger by a machine and was rushing to the hospital for a finger replacement. She called me. Send money quickly.

I asked about the injury and learned that it was a small section of my left little finger that was cut off. What does that have to do with it? I said it didn’t have much impact on my life, so I didn’t need to take it anymore. I remembered when I was cutting wheat and a sickle was cut on the instep, and blood started to flow. After two days, I would still go to work in the fields.

Her little sister was so rude. She even scolded us on the phone for cheating Laidi. I hung up the phone angrily, thinking that young people today are really unqualified and don’t know how to respect their elders.

After the incident of picking up the finger, Laidi went home less and less. One day she came back, and there was a man beside her. I saw that the young man was very energetic and was very kind to Laidi. I think he would be happy to give her a bride price. During the meal, I said that I would pay at least 200,000 yuan to marry Lai Laidi. The man looked at me in surprise. I thought to myself, why is this so rare? Some girls in the village cost 280,000 yuan.

After Laidi sent the man away, her eyes were red. I hurriedly asked her if the man was willing to pay 200,000 yuan. Unexpectedly, Laidi suddenly became angry and shouted at me. Yelling, this is the first time in more than twenty years.

She was crying and shouting, calling me a vampire, saying that I sucked her blood to feed Xiaobao, and asked me if she was my biological child.

I was shocked. I didn’t expect that she would dare to rebel and say such rebellious words. She was not afraid of being struck by lightning. I picked up the broom and waved it at her: "You are not my biological child! Today I I’ll beat you to death!”

I was so cruel that I beat Laidi’s head with blood, but she didn’t hide or evade, and kept squatting in the corner crying. I feel so miserable. I have given birth to her and raised her for so many years, but I never thought that I would raise a white-eyed wolf, spend two dollars on her, and still bear the grudge of my own parents!

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Three years later, Xiaobao graduated from college. I burst into tears of joy. My son was promising, and my wife and I could finally live a good life after working hard for half our lives.

When Xiaobao went home, he also brought a girl back. It was obvious that Xiaobao liked her very much. The girl was beautiful and I heard that her family background was good, but she was too greedy. She wanted both a house and a house. Want a betrothal gift. I don’t like this girl. Xiaobao is a good-looking college student. What kind of girl can’t be found? But Xiaobao recognized her, and I followed Xiaobao in everything, so I didn’t say anything.

But land in the city is so expensive, where can you get the money to buy a house? At this time, I thought of my unfilial daughter, Laidi. She has not been back home for three years, but she has always sent money. It is only natural for her sister to buy a house for her brother. It is okay for Laidi to buy this house.

If it weren’t for buying a house, I really wouldn’t want to deal with this dead girl.

In fact, I know that every year during the Chinese New Year, my wife would secretly call her. She couldn't invite this big Buddha even though she said good things. One year, I saw it. I took the phone away from Pi Tou and scolded her: "Whether you love me or not, I will not come back." Xiaobao’s father will treat you as if you’re out there, and we won’t have you in our family from now on!”

I wanted to call Laidi and ask her to pay for a house, but Xiaobao said she would definitely pay for it. No, it would be easier if she knew her address. I asked her and she would definitely not tell her. The baby's father has to make this call.

His son is still smart, and Xiaobao’s father actually asked for his address and work unit. This girl's current residence and job are many times better than before. I heard that she has a boyfriend and is about to get married. I don't even know about these things.

I called Laidi and asked Laidi to prepare money to buy a house. As expected, Baiyanlang was unwilling. Well, if you can’t be soft, you can be hard! The next day I took a car to their workplace and sat in the lobby of their company, crying and making noise. I saw a few young girls taking pictures with their mobile phones. I cried and shouted: "Everyone, come and take pictures! Come and take pictures." ! Let everyone see the true face of Liu Laidi, the money-losing white-eyed wolf!”

After a while, Laidi was called over, and she seemed to look at me differently than before, staring at me. Mao, I haven’t seen him in a few years, and Laidi is a lot of strangers. I told her that if I don’t get the money today, I won’t leave!

Laidi took me to a small restaurant, and I curled my lips: "You are so rich now, why don't you treat me to a nice meal?"

But Laidi neither Without talking or ordering food, she expressionlessly took out a document from her bag, which said something like severing the relationship. I read it, and it probably meant that she was willing to pay off the mortgage for Xiaobao, but she still had to pay off the mortgage. After paying this amount, she will have nothing to do with us, and we will not be able to contact her again if we have anything to do with her in the future.

Of course I'm not happy about it. There will be a lot of things like Xiaobao's betrothal gifts, furniture, etc. in the future. If she doesn't share these things, then what am I doing raising her?

But she said, it’s okay if you don’t agree. I won’t pay any money for your son to buy a house. I will change my job at the worst. It’s not my legal obligation to be a supporter. If you don’t like it, Just sue me.

I was trembling with anger at her words, but she was so confident that I started to panic. Humph, you are a loser who eats both inside and outside. I have known for a long time that this girl is unreliable and raising her will be in vain.

If I hadn’t brought her back from my aunt’s house, would she be where she is today? If I had known she was so selfish and cold-blooded, I should have let her starve to death at the age of 7.

I signed the documents Laidi gave me. Who is afraid of whom? Anyway, I will have Xiaobao in the future. What is the use of her as a girl? Who are you trying to scare?

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After Xiaobao got married, I often visited him. To be honest, I really regretted it.

Xiaobao doesn’t know what he likes about this daughter-in-law. She can’t cook, she orders takeout three times a day, and she doesn’t know how to wash her clothes. She is not a qualified wife at all! I was confused, she was ignorant, how come her mother didn't understand human affairs and didn't know how to teach her?

Her mother didn’t do anything, so I, the mother-in-law, had to do it for her. But I kindly taught her how to cook, but she actually said those were not her favorite dishes and she didn't want to learn them. She doesn't like to eat, but Xiaobao loves to eat. A wife must serve her husband wholeheartedly. She can't even cook the dishes her husband likes, so what's the use of Xiaobao marrying her?

Conflicts accumulated. Later, this little hooves actually turned on me and refused to agree even after calling her several times. I was so angry that my lungs exploded. After all, I am also an elder, and she is the one at home. Treat your elders like this? I beat her that afternoon. What made me even more angry was that she dared to fight back and started a struggle with me on the spot.

After Xiaobao came back, I thought he would teach me a lesson. Unexpectedly, he bowed his hands and persuaded me to go back first. He looked at the son who had raised him with all his heart and soul, and in a blink of an eye, he lowered his voice to protect and love me. Another woman, I feel indescribable sadness in my heart.

Looking back, in fact, after his son got married, he completely became a slave to his wife. He lived in the house that Laidi bought in the city and never returned home. Even during the Chinese New Year, the two of them went there. The woman’s family passed away. Something unexpected happened. In August 2009, I fainted while cooking at home. My wife rushed me to the hospital. The doctor told me to do a heart bypass. We quickly called Xiaobao, who hurried over and took a look at me. Three thousand yuan was left behind, and it was gone forever.

The pain in my body is far less than the pain in my heart. I cried silently while lying on the hospital bed. All the hope in this life was shed in tears. I devoted my whole life to protecting my son. Why did I treat him so badly in the end? I am so ruthless. Is this the retribution given to me by God?

After crying for a while, I gradually fell asleep. In my daze, I seemed to hear Xiaobao’s voice. I was overjoyed and opened my eyes to look for Xiaobao. Ah, it turned out to be him, but how could he? Kneel on the ground? My wife's face was ashen, why was he so angry?

I listened carefully and found out that my wife wanted to sue him, so she scared Xiaobao. He knelt on the ground and begged, as if saying that all the family’s money was lost in business, and the rest was In the hands of my daughter-in-law, if my wife forced him again, he had no choice but to bump his head in front of my bed and die.

I didn’t have any energy at all, but I still managed to raise my hand and called my wife to the bed: “Forget it, my son only has this potential, it’s useless for you to force him to death. People say that raising a child will help you grow old, so let’s just pretend that we have never raised this son.”

Two more tears flowed from the corners of my eyes. When I said these words, every word was like a needle pricking my heart. .

After Xiaobao left, my wife sighed and asked me why I was bothering? I closed my eyes and shook my head and asked my wife to call Laidi. After a while, my wife hung up the phone and said to me: "Laidi gave me 60,000 yuan, but she told us not to look for her again. This child I was hurt, and I kept saying that I had severed ties with you, and I didn’t even call you mom, alas!”

These two children make me feel discouraged, especially Laidi, I don’t want to. Understand, every girl in the village was raised like this. Laidi even went to high school. Why did she always feel so wronged?

I don’t know how much money will be needed for the follow-up of this operation. Even if I am discharged from the hospital, my body will not be as good as before. Someone must take care of me. My wife is old and Xiaobao cannot count on me. I can only rely on Laidi. .

But last time, in order to buy a house for Xiaobao, I signed a document severing relations with Laidi. I don’t know whether this document is legally binding. If I sue Laidi now, she will be responsible for supporting me. Obligation, is it still too late?

If it’s too late, how can I let Laidi support me and give me something to rely on for the rest of my life?