When did you change your name to calling the other person mom and dad?

When did you change your name to call your parents-in-law your parents?

This close friend should change his name to parents-in-law or parents-in-law at the wedding. There is such a part in the wedding, and neither party will feel embarrassed

At the wedding ceremony, There is a step called changing the confession, and the parents-in-law or parents-in-law also have to pay a modification fee. However, in our hometown, it seems that people have changed their tune before getting married. In my case, I changed my tune on the day of our engagement. Many people did it earlier.

I remember that not long after I met my husband, I always called me aunt and uncle. But one day, aunt asked me to change my name to mom and dad. I said it was too early, after all, my husband and I were only boyfriend and girlfriend, and I'm not sure I can continue with him. She might have been upset by my rejection at the time, but she didn't mention it again after that.

Although it is just a title, I always feel that changing my words too early seems to be out of position and too proactive. This should be a matter of principle. If the marriage doesn't work out, isn't calling someone else's parents for a period of time in vain?

I remember that my mother also asked my sister-in-law to change her story before getting married, but my sister-in-law persisted until after the wedding. However, my brother has long since changed his name to her parents. The elders seem to be happy with this, and men don't seem to feel any loss, but we women are always very reserved and don't want to suffer.

Actually, I am really embarrassed about changing my name. After all, I have my own parents, who are unique and irreplaceable. I have called them dad for decades, and suddenly I have to call two strangers my dad. Mom, I was resisting and feeling awkward in my heart. Of course, no matter whether you are a man or a woman, as long as you get married, you cannot avoid this link.