Why do some couples live happily and some couples suffer?
It's not that the other person can't live without us, but that we need the other person to fill the gap in life.
Husband and wife, the closest audience, are also the people who have been with us for the longest time. What they need is encouragement and cherish, not always picky and blaming.
When something happens, if we only care about the harm it brings to us and don't consider each other's mood, it's easy to fly into a rage, complain about anger and even get hysterical.
But have you ever thought, if you can't tolerate him, who else in this society will tolerate him?
Partners need to support each other, don't always hit each other.
Whether you choose to treat each other as enemies or soul mates depends on your attitude.
Who is the partner?
It's our pillow and the best person in the world.
He also has his own weaknesses. What we need to do is his armor, not the bayonet that hurts him the most.
03
It is the best feng shui for a family not to blame something.
Zhou said to:
"Home is a small boat, which will carry us through such a long time."
In the long life, when there is calm, there is a sudden gust of wind, and there are also many opportunities and challenges.
The more stormy it is, the more you should report to the group to keep warm, instead of blaming each other.
Home is always a place to talk about love, because love is warm and heavy, so it is long-lasting.
Don't make a fuss just because of a little trouble, and don't talk endlessly because of each other's shortcomings.
If we want love, we should give more love. If we want to praise, we should give each other more encouragement. If we want happiness, we should try harder to manage it.
A good marriage is definitely not a war-torn marriage, but a beautiful love, and it is definitely not a bickering love.
Home is the harbor of the soul, not each other's prison.
Only when there is love at home can there be the inheritance of love, and only when there is warmth at home can it warm people's hearts.