My boyfriend studies philosophy, and he looks at all problems with a philosophical eye. I am in pain! Can you tell me what to do?

Zhuangzi said that there are high and low levels of ideological realm, and the highest level is Taoist view, which means treating everything with an equal attitude; The lower realm is self-esteem and inferiority, that is, thinking that you are good at everything and others are good at everything. Confucius also said that ancient learning is for oneself, and today's learning is for people. That is to say, ancient sages studied to improve their self-cultivation, while today's people study to boast about themselves and gain utility. Therefore, your boyfriend's ideological level is too low, not like a philosopher, or at least his philosophical research is not in place.