God: Why can't I live without my wife and lover?

Dr. Zheng Weijian/Wen A male friend told Dr. Zheng, "My wife and lover are very kind to me! The wife manages the family and children; Lovers make me feel at ease in my career! I am sometimes ambivalent! My lover never mentioned birthright, which makes me very uneasy! Because the child is still a little wife and never asks me anything, even if I stay out at night, I am very uneasy! Wives have known each other for 9 years, and lovers have been together for 3 years! Sometimes I feel very happy; Sometimes it feels painful! They are all my favorite people! Can't even give up! I am really afraid that I will lose them all one day! " At all times and in all countries, kitchens are related to stoves. Dr. Zheng analyzed the shape of the word "stove": stove-from fire to soil, which means "fire burns on the soil" In the wild, put three stones on the flat ground to support the pot, and light dry wood below to cook. For wind protection, you can dig a pit and put the pot in the pit to cook, which is called "burying the pot for cooking". "Zao" is also a surname. Legend has it that in the past, there was a gentleman in Hunan who was ill when he was a child. Later, a monk came to his home and said that he would take this gentleman to travel around the world, otherwise his mother would not live long. The monk thought of another way and said that he would change his surname to Zao. Since then, this gentleman has never been sick again. The kitchen stove is also related to the kitchen god. Dr. Zheng remembers a folk legend: It is said that in ancient times there was a family named Zhang, two brothers, the elder brother was a plasterer and the younger brother was a painter. My brother's specialty is cooking pots and pans. He was invited by East Street and West Square, and they all praised him for his high cooking skills. He became famous for a long time, and Fiona Fang called him "Zhang Zao Wang" for thousands of miles. It's strange for Zhang Zao Wang to say that no matter who builds a stove, he likes to meddle in other people's homes if there is a dispute. When he meets a noisy daughter-in-law, he will persuade him, and when he meets a fierce mother-in-law, he will say that he seems to be an old elder. In the future, the neighbors will look for him when they have something, and everyone respects him. Zhang Zao Wang lived for seventy years, and when he died, it happened to be late at night on the 23rd of the twelfth lunar month. After the death of Zhang Zao Wang, Zhang Jiake was in a mess. It turned out that Zhang Zao Wang was the head of the family, and everything in the family was under his command. Now that the eldest brother has left the world, the younger brother can only write poems and draw pictures. Although he has spent a lot of time, he has never taken care of housework. Daughters-in-law of several rooms are clamoring for separation, and the painter is stirred helplessly, frowning all day. One day, he finally came up with a good idea. On the 23 rd of the twelfth lunar month, the anniversary of the death of Zhang Zao Wang, late at night, the painter suddenly called to wake up the whole family, saying that the eldest brother had appeared. He led his son, daughter-in-law and the whole family to the kitchen, only to see the dark kitchen wall, flickering candlelight showing the appearance of Zhang Zao Wang and his late wife, and the family were shocked. The painter said, "When I was sleeping, I dreamed that my eldest brother and sister-in-law had become immortals, and the Jade Emperor named him' the Nine-Day East Chef, who ordered the kitchen to be the king of the palace'. You are always lazy and lazy, and your sister-in-law is not harmonious, disrespectful and unfilial, which makes your family uneasy. Brother knows that you are splitting up, and he is very angry. He is going to tell the Jade Emperor that he will come down to punish you on the night of the 3 th. " Hearing these words, the children's nephews and daughters-in-law were terrified, and immediately they knelt down and kowtowed again and again, and hurriedly brought Zhang Zao Wang's usual favorite sweets for the stove, pleading with Zao Wang for forgiveness. Since then, uncles, brothers and daughters-in-law who often make noise have never dared to make a splash again. The whole family lived in peace, and the young and old lived in peace. When the neighbors knew about it, word spread, and they all came to Zhang's house to find out the truth. In fact, the kitchen king on the kitchen wall on the 23rd night of the twelfth lunar month was drawn in advance by the painter. He came to town to scare his children's nephews and daughters-in-law, but this method really worked. So when the neighbors came to the painter to inquire about the situation, he had to pretend to do it and distribute the painted kitchen king to his neighbors. As a result, it spread along the countryside, and the kitchen of every household was labeled as the kitchen king. The passage of time has formed the custom of offering sacrifices to the kitchen god on the 23rd of the twelfth lunar month and praying for the safety of the family. The reason is that they are afraid of desecrating the worshipped gods because of gender differences. On the night of Mid-Autumn Festival, the Han people have the custom of worshipping the moon god. On the night of the 23rd day of the twelfth lunar month, there is the custom of offering sacrifices to the kitchen god. According to legend, Luna is the goddess, the goddess who runs to the moon in myths and legends. She is Yi's wife, because she ate the immortal medicine of the Queen Mother, turned it into a fairy moon and flew to the moon palace to become a moon essence. Therefore, it is forbidden for later generations to worship the moon when men worship. In order to avoid blasphemy. People think that the kitchen god is a male god, and he is called "the kitchen god". It is said that he will go back to the Heavenly Palace on the 23rd of the twelfth lunar month every year to tell the right and wrong of the world. As an old saying goes, "Heaven speaks good things, and the lower world keeps peace". At first, it was an old woman who offered sacrifices to the kitchen god, but later it was developed into a man who offered sacrifices. At most, women can only offer sacrifices behind men. If there is no man at home, please ask the men in the neighborhood to take their place. If there is really no substitute and worship is needed, there is also an accommodating method, that is, when the man Yue Bai and the woman offer sacrifices to the kitchen god, they wear a hat, so that the gods can't tell whether they are men or women, and they won't blame them. Getting to the point, Dr. Zheng specially reminded his friends that the home feng shui kitchen (stove) represents the hostess, and the feng shui of the kitchen and stove is related to the big problems of the male and female owners. Not long ago. Dr. Zheng surveyed a mansion in Shanghai. The kitchen of this mansion has two stoves, namely, there are both western-style stoves and Chinese-style stoves. The two stoves in such a family led to two hostesses in a family. Sure enough, the male host had an affair and took another woman home for the night while the hostess was often on a business trip. Therefore, if your husband is having an affair, Dr. Zheng asks you to check immediately, whether there are two stoves in the kitchen? Did you add an oriental cooker in addition to the western cooker? The stove represents the hostess, and a hostess inserts an aluminum sheet behind the stove to facilitate cleaning. This piece of aluminum is very clean and shiny, but due to the reflection of aluminum, one stove becomes two stoves, and one wife becomes two wives, which means that the host will take mistresses or a third party will appear. There is also another family who likes to add a mirror in the hall. For example, the mirror in the hall shines on the kitchen. Looking from the hall, I see that there is a kitchen with two stoves, which means that there are two wives in this house, the owner has two wives, and there are even many lovers or affairs. There is a typical case: there is a house in Luohu, Shenzhen. Because the floor of the house is very high, I think I am smart enough to build an attic in the kitchen for the nanny to live in. The nanny climbs the stairs from the kitchen to the attic to sleep every day. From the perspective of geomantic psychology, one kitchen becomes two kitchens, and the biggest problem lies in the stairs that climb to the attic. In this kitchen, the stairs just opened in the northwest. In terms of geomantic omen, the northwest represents the male owner, who often climbs the stairs. Unfortunately, the nanny put a big mirror in the attic room, which promoted the feng shui effect of changing the kitchen from one to two, and also showed that the nanny from Anhui was a beauty lover (ambiguous). All these factors piled up and something really happened. One day, the male host climbed up the attic from this ladder and had an affair with the nanny, which led to an affair. Therefore, Dr. Zheng reminded his friends to be cautious: the kitchen should not be divided into two floors as far as possible. Even if it is divided into two floors, the stairs must not be opened in the northwest. Some friends will ask, where is the best place to put the stairs? In fact, no stairs is the best. Can I put it in the east? The stairs are placed in the east, and the eldest son will climb to the second floor! To avoid this kind of thing, the stairs should not be placed in the northwest, east, north and northeast, because the northwest represents the male master, the east represents the eldest son, the north represents the middle male, and the northeast represents the male. The stairs open in this square, and all four of them will climb to the second floor. If the nanny you hire is ugly, the possibility of fulfillment will be lower. However, if the nanny looks good and meets this feng shui pattern, it will easily lead to an affair. As Dr. Zheng said earlier, the kitchen stove represents the hostess: the top of the stove represents the hostess's head and upper body, and the bottom of the stove represents the hostess's lower body and feet. Therefore, if there is a vase on the top of the cupboard on the stove, the hostess will often have a headache. The bottom of the stove is also very important. There is a new house in Suzhou. The hostess's lower body often goes wrong and suffers from gynecological diseases. When Dr. Zheng surveyed the geomantic omen in his home, he found that the kitchen stove was full of filthy dirt. Originally, due to water leakage under the stove, sewage accumulated in the utensils under the stove, which became dirty and smelly, thus affecting the health of the hostess and causing women's diseases. Since the stove represents the housewife's body, it is good for both men and women to start the stove every day; Dr. Zheng found that there are often some white-collar workers, both husband and wife are eating out, and the stove can't turn on for a month, which is extremely unfavorable to the physical and mental health of the hostess. Therefore, if a man can't get married without a partner, then Dr. Zheng asks you to check: Does the house you live in have a stove? If you don't have a stove, or if you have a stove but never cook with fire, then you can't get married; Even if you get married, the hostess may be "in Cao Cao's heart and in Han", and your marriage may be in trouble. It can be seen that the stove represents the hostess. If your wife and lover leave, then from the perspective of home feng shui, there may be something wrong with your kitchen and stove. Remember Dr. Zheng's words: Feng Shui is around us, and conditioning home Feng Shui is conditioning your emotional marriage Feng Shui.