Women are like water, they are also wealth
Water governs wealth, and mountains govern luck, so places with mountains and water are often Feng Shui treasures. Do we have wealth luck in our lives? In fact, women in every family are wealth. Because women are Kun, earth, soft, obedient, and water. So women are born with wealth. As far as men are concerned, there is a saying that goes like this: "Marry a family and establish a career." This means that you can only start a career after you have a family. I don’t know if everyone has this kind of knowledge. A successful man is basically married. Of course, this has something to do with age, but the main reason is: a successful man needs a woman to prosper him before he can establish a career. Behind every successful man there is always a dedicated woman.
When I was 5 years old, I had no way of earning a living due to the war, so I had to return to my hometown. Confucius was 35 years old at the time, a time when he was accumulating knowledge. He knew that I was a learned man, so he went to visit him. The two people walked to a creek. Laozi said to Confucius: You should learn the virtues of water. Confucius asked: "What virtues does water have?" Lao Tzu went on to say: "The best thing is like water. Water is good for all things and does not conflict with it." "
From this story, we can draw the conclusion: The best is like water, and women must have such virtues. If a woman wants to hold up half the sky at home and be a strong woman, then Without the virtue of water, fighting for the world with men is equivalent to the fate of being blocked by water. Even without divorce, it is not easy to get along with each other.
After Laozi said, "The best is like water." "It is the virtue of humility to be humble when others do not like you. Therefore, Jianghai can be the king of a hundred valleys. If he is kind to others, he can be a king of a hundred valleys." There is no one in the world who is soft and weak compared to water, and no one who attacks the strong can win. This is the virtue of softness; therefore, the soft overcomes the hard, and the weak overcomes the strong. Because it has no existence, it can enter the non-existence. From this, we can see the benefits of teaching without saying anything and doing nothing. "From this we can understand some truths. Women should know how to be humble. The virtue of humility is worth a thousand words. When a man loses his temper, a woman should show the characteristics of water and use softness to overcome strength. In this way, the man will lose his temper and the woman will never lose his temper. He is the head of the family. As mentioned above, if he behaves well, he can be the king of hundreds of grains. But if he gets angry when he has a quarrel, it will be like water that has no way and will seep by itself, and all his wealth will fall into the ground. Yes. Men will not be obedient to women. One hundred plus one hundred, two hundred times of obedience can be quantified, so it is impossible to be obedient. It has always existed.
? Water moistens everything without fighting. Look at the friends around you. If a woman has the characteristics of water, her life will generally be better. Of course, it is not ruled out that there is one. For example. But in terms of overall results, the fate is very good. And how many women who lack water characteristics have a happy and happy life? Do you think a domineering woman, a strong woman, will have a happy family?
?A good woman should know how to praise a man and let him know that he is a hero in the family. In this way, the man will think about how to protect his weak wife for the rest of his life. On the contrary, women. If you often find fault with a man, your heart will become colder and less confident, and you will feel that you are a fool and a loser.
In terms of life experience and experience, Let me talk about some digressions between men and women: For men, women are water, and water is wealth. Your wife is your family wealth. If your family wealth is not stable, no foreign money will enter the house.
< p> Regardless of whether you are a man or a woman, you should remember that sexual immorality is the first of all, and a house that accumulates good deeds will have great luck, and a house that accumulates bad deeds will have more rice.According to the Eight Diagrams, men are good for heaven and good for heaven. You must have capacity. Therefore, a man can do as much wealth as he has capacity. Both men and women must have a kind heart, be kind to others, and treat others with kindness. He is a rich man. But people who often give charity will become rich in the future. Do you know why? Because "a person who often gives charity is already a God of Wealth in the eyes of others. Who can have money if the God of Wealth does not have money?" ”
Both the Buddha and the Tao follow the principles of nature. If virtue is not lost, there will be no disasters. If the Tao is not lost, you will live a happy life. Everything and everything follows the principle of "balance of yin and yang". Buddha's The reincarnation of things and the natural laws of Tao are all principles of "balance".
There is no clear boundary between loss and failure, fault and failure, gain and failure, death and immortality, etc. We cannot use one thing or a period of time to measure "balance". You may have spent a long time and done a lot of work on something, only to fail at the last moment. So according to the Buddha, this is the return of some bad karma, because the debt you owe must be repaid. Of course, it is also possible that when your career has reached its lowest point and you are almost bankrupt, suddenly a big project makes you jump out of the water. This is because a good "karma" has returned. Therefore, everything in the world is connected, which means that there are countless connections behind everything. All in all, God is doing good and people are doing good. People should do more good deeds after all.