Can be fast or slow, not in a hurry or lazy.
The exam can be quick and not urgent; Learning can be slow, not lazy.
During the exam, you must answer questions quickly, but you must not be impatient, because impatience will confuse your heart, even the simplest questions will be wrong, and the answers will naturally be full of mistakes. When I was on holiday, I read the examination papers of Tongzhou subjects and found that the points deducted each time were basically relatively simple questions. Let them do it again and get all the answers right. This is the damage caused by their impatience. They need to sharpen their minds and control their emotions, and then their academic performance can be steadily improved.
People's intelligence and personality vary widely, and their styles of doing things are also different. Is it easy to tie your shoelaces? For me as a child, this is a particularly complicated thing. My mother taught me how to tie my shoelaces, and I can't even tie them properly. I just tied my shoelaces and let them go without taking a few steps. If it's loose, stick it again. If it's loose, stick it again. If the shoelaces are not loose again, I must have tied them in a fast knot. My mother never scolded me for not tying my shoelaces properly. Her patience and tolerance made me feel the warmth of a loving mother. Being her son is the luck of my life!
In the worst case, children can't tie their shoelaces, parents help tie their shoelaces, or simply buy a pair of shoes without shoelaces. Children in learning have different endowments, and the speed of learning new knowledge and accepting new things is fast or slow. It doesn't matter which is good or bad. The important thing is how to keep children interested in learning. Even if they move at snail's speed, aren't they constantly moving forward? Isn't this the truth of the tortoise and rabbit race? Parents, for their own sake or by extreme means, provide shortcuts for their children, but only create a "lazy" environment for him, which is not shallow!
"Fast or slow, don't worry." This is the eight-character secret for Tongzhou and myself. I hope everyone can deeply understand and consciously practice. I wish you smart and lively, healthy body and mind, and progress in your study in the new semester! I sincerely wish the teachers who love their jobs and dedication a happy family!