Look at Yolanda 23 years later: Marrying Yu Xia, who has nothing to do, has made her happy all her life.
In 2022, in July, when "big melons kept flooding with small melons", a "out-of-date film emperor" rushed out of the encirclement of "layers of big melons" and attracted the attention of big guys with his acting skills and strength.
The reason why he is called "the film emperor of the past" is because he doesn't speculate on gossip or go to variety shows on weekdays, and his "presence" in the entertainment circle is extremely low!
But it is such a person who has a very low sense of existence. It happened that the first shot was blown up by the king. In the recently hit online drama Out of Court, he and the actors Luo Jin and Wan Qian are quite brilliant!
This person's presence in the entertainment circle is extremely low, and his contribution to the topic degree is also zero.
But everyone who knows them knows that this couple is not only beautiful, but also beautiful from school uniforms to wedding dresses. Their stories are more romantic than movies.
Since there is "no ambition" in fame and fortune and "no scandal" in emotion, where did this person spend his time and energy?
It was later discovered that he spent all his time and energy on "playing".
He is not only the best actor, but also the champion of skiing, skateboarding, surfing and skydiving. Besides being good at sports, he can also draw, write and practice calligraphy. It is said that he is also very good at antiques and magic.
In this regard, he himself has a summary: Thirty-six measures are the best.
But his "play" is not a simple understanding, but every item has played out his experience and played out the doorway.
In 2022, at the age of 45, he finally closed his heart and had the work "Out of Court".
Although this is an online drama, the performance of this person in the drama is still like running water, without a trace of performance. Even when he played Judge Lunan, he was instantly praised by netizens: Sure enough, the best actor is the best actor!
Clearly low-key, but still liked by so many people, where is his charm?
In today's turbulent entertainment circle, he only hates that he can't climb up. How can he go it alone, just seeking his own "one acre and three points"?
Today, let's take a look at Yu Xia, an incorruptible actor who entered the entertainment circle, and see his story and legend.
02
1976, Yu Xia was born in a "literary family" in Qingdao. Because it rained heavily that day, the painter's old father named him "Yu Xia", which is a good sign that "spring rain is as expensive as oil, and summer rain flows everywhere".
Although the meaning of "Yu Xia" is very auspicious, his childhood is somewhat "miserable". In Xia's own words, that is: his parents are divorced and live under the fence.
At the age of 3, his parents divorced and Yu Xia followed his father.
Although nominally following his father, because his father was a painter, he was running around all day and couldn't take good care of Yu Xia at all, so his father entrusted "this important task" to his aunt Yu Xia.
When I followed my aunt, Yu Xia was still very young, but children could understand that my aunt and her cousin were different.
Because of his naughty personality, Yu Xia was beaten by menstruation, so Yu Xia at that time often felt that menstruation was eccentric and that he was not his own, and he was always beaten.
When I grew up, Yu Xia knew that my aunt hated iron and did not produce steel, for fear that he would not learn well.
In retrospect, there is nothing wrong with Yu Xia being defeated.
/kloc-when he was 0/6 years old, it happened that Yu Xia was admitted to high school, and other children were trying to sprint to learn, but he followed a group of children and became fascinated with skateboarding.
Huang Xiaoming, who is also an actor, has a deep understanding of Xia's skateboarding.
At that time, both of them lived in a community in West Street, Shinan District, Qingdao. When Huang Xiaoming comes home from school to do his homework, he often sees a group of children skateboarding in the yard. It was Yu Xia who took the lead in skating.
Many years later, recalling this period, Yu Xia was also a little ashamed. He said that I lived very close to Huang Xiaoming's family in those years. Later, Xiaoming studied well and was admitted to Qingdao No.1 Middle School, but I failed to be admitted to Qingdao 12 Middle School.
Although the schools in Yu Xia were not as good as those in Huang Xiaoming at that time, no one expected that only one year later, the fate of the two men opened a clear gap.
1993 While Huang Xiaoming was studying hard in the classroom, Yu Xia was stopped by his father and got on the train to Beijing urgently.
On the phone, my father told Yu Xia that he got you a chance to act, so you should meet director Jiang Wen.
For Yu Xia at that time, who was the director of Jiang Wen? He didn't know or care, but as soon as he thought of not having to sit in the classroom, he immediately listened to his father and went to Beijing.
When Yu Xia and his father arrived in a hurry, he never expected that director Jiang Wen didn't see it. Yu Xia, who didn't know the ins and outs, could only ask his father: What's going on? Did the director send me?
It turned out that my father had no predetermined plan for Xia's action. He just saw the job advertisement issued by Director Jiang Wen in the newspaper and wanted his son to have a try.
With a try attitude, my father sent a photo of Yu Xia to the crew. Unexpectedly, Jiang Wen didn't see it for the first time, and Jiang Wen's mother saw it for the first time.
When Jiang Wen's mother saw Yu Xia's photo, she was immediately shocked. She felt that "this child is just like Jiang Wen when he was a child".
So, because of her mother's words, and because of this photo which is very similar to herself, Jiang Wen decided to meet this child named Yu Xia. Unfortunately, when Yu Xia and his father arrived, Jiang Wen just went out.
Although I didn't see him on the first side, when Jiang Wen saw Yu Xia on the second side, he immediately made a decision to make Yu Xia the first hero in the movie.
Later, Jiang Wen said that he chose Yu Xia to play "The First Hero" not only because he thought the child looked like himself when he was a child, but also because Yu Xia was stupid.
For Yu Xia, the reason why he can perform the "silly new" stupidity of The First Hero is that he can't act at all, but "accidentally hit the nail on the head" and performed the effect that the director wanted.
Although Yu Xia's first acting in his life was full of coincidences, it must be said that this performance completely changed Yu Xia's fate.
Because after this movie, 17-year-old Yu Xia not only became famous overnight, but also won three awards: Best Actor in Venice International Film Festival, Best Actor in Golden Horse Award and Best Actor in Singapore International Film Festival.
The film that changed Yu Xia's fate was Sunny Days directed by Jiang Wen.
03
After filming Sunny Days, Yu Xia was a little confused for a while.
He said that he shot so many best actors at once, and he hasn't reacted yet.
For this teenager who is only 17 years old, these honors and auras are indeed "heavy", but the good thing is that Xia is still awake. He has always felt that winning these championships has nothing to do with himself, but the credit of the whole crew.
However, because of the opportunity of this film, Yu Xia's life took a new direction, and he decided to study acting.
1995, Yu Xia was admitted to the Central Academy of Drama with the aura of "Three Best Actors".
But no one expected that within two years of Chinese opera, Yu Xia had the idea of dropping out of school. He said that the study pressure was too great.
It turns out that Yu Xia has been regarded as a "favored son of heaven" since he entered school. The teacher hopes that he can be a "role model", and the students respect him especially, as if Yu Xia is a "Nezha with three heads and six arms", and everyone wants to meet him.
Especially in school exams, the small stage of the theater will be packed with students, and everyone wants to see what Yu Xia can do!
Facing the disappointment of teachers and classmates, Yu Xia gradually became rebellious. He found this study boring and even a little depressing.
Fortunately, all these depressed and lost days disappeared in junior year, because Yu Xia's good luck came again.
1998, with the role of Liu in the movie "The West Mirror", he was nominated for the best actor in Tokyo International Film Festival, which once again proved his strength and talent, and it can be regarded as blocking the "long masses".
At the same time, this year's summer rain has a greater harvest, that is, he met a warm-hearted girl on campus.
This girl is his wife, Yolanda.
Many years later, Yu Xia recalled seeing his wife for the first time and was still deeply moved. He said that romance is more romantic than movies.
04
The day I met Yolanda, Yu Xia was sweating profusely on the basketball court on campus.
Just as Xia was about to shoot, he suddenly stopped because he saw Yolanda like a lotus in the clear water.
At that time, yolanda had just come out of the bathhouse with a plastic basin in his hand and his wet hair pinned with a hairpin. Originally, this dress was nothing special, but he hit Yu Xia's heart.
Especially when Yolanda approached him, their eyes suddenly met. According to Yu Xia's description, they looked at each other for nearly a minute, and then yolanda left and stopped playing basketball.
Later, Yu Xia began to explore crazily, and finally learned three key messages.
First, Yolanda is one of the "Seven Golden Flowers" in Grade 96, and she is famous in the same class.
Second, Yolanda is introverted, quiet and quiet.
Third, although Yolanda doesn't have a boyfriend yet, there are many people who secretly love her. It can be said that "there are rivals everywhere."
As the saying goes, know yourself and know yourself.
Yu Xia is not in a hurry to "push", but trying to create a "chance encounter".
According to the students familiar with this matter, Yu Xia often "meets" with his friends and Yolanda on campus, and then takes his friends to find opportunities to go out for dinner in yolanda.
But at that time, yolanda was absorbed in his research, and nine times out of ten he refused Yu Xia's invitation.
In the face of Yolanda's refusal, Yu Xia was not discouraged. After all, good girls are hard to chase.
After nearly 1 year's efforts, Yu Xia finally got a chance to visit the Great Wall with Yolanda at night.
On the day I decided to visit the Great Wall, Yu Xia did his homework in advance. Yu Xia was even happier when he learned that there was a rain forecast.
He said that when it rains, girls will definitely feel cold, and I will give her clothes then, which will make me look like a gentleman.
Sure enough, after they arrived at the Great Wall, they didn't see the night view much, and the "timely rain" came down, and raindrops fell one after another.
Seeing that the rain was getting heavier and heavier, Yu Xia suggested waiting until the rain stopped. Afraid of their embarrassing atmosphere in the car, Yu Xia played a song, which happened to be Aaron Kwok's "I'm a little bad tonight".
In this way, neither of them spoke, but they seemed to say everything.
This time, after visiting the Great Wall in the evening, Yolanda became Yu Xia's girlfriend.
When it was learned that Yu Xia and Yolanda were in love, everyone around them was envious.
One is the "three-material film emperor" with superior strength, and the other is the "most beautiful golden flower" that is quiet and smart. These two people together are really a perfect match.
In the eyes of many people, once men and women fall in love, it will affect their careers more or less, but Yolanda and Yu Xia will not. On the contrary, they go hand in hand, one is better than the other.
On 200 1, Yu Xia starred in My Brothers and Sisters, in which he played the shy old Yao Qitian.
1 year later, challenge the food drama "Buddha jumps over the wall" and become a naughty cook.
In 2003, Yu Xia's career once again ushered in a big explosion. With the movie "The Police Have an Appointment", he won the best actor in the 23rd Golden Rooster Award, which can be said to be the "Golden Rooster Film Emperor" again.
Compared with Yu Xia's award-winning actor, Yolanda, as the other half, is not inferior.
From 65438 to 0999, Yolanda starred in the first film in her life, Spring is bursting, and won the China Golden Rooster Award for Best Supporting Actress.
Later, she collaborated with Pan Yueming on Blue Love and was nominated for the Golden Rooster Award for Best Hostess again.
In 2003, when Yu Xia's career took off for the second time, Yolanda not only won the Hundred Flowers Award for Best Supporting Actress, but also won the China Golden Phoenix Award.
Seeing that they are evenly matched, many insiders think that Yu Xia and Yolanda are simply "model lovers".
However, just when they were in the spring breeze, they never thought that an accident caught them off guard.
In 2003, Yolanda had an accident while rehearsing the drama Orphan of Zhao. She fell heavily from the stage and suffered multiple fractures all over her body.
Originally, Yolanda was injured, and Yu Xia was worried enough, but it happened that she caught up with the "SARS period" in Beijing at that time, which was even worse for taking care of patients.
In order to let Yolanda get better care, Yu Xia made a major decision. He wants to take Yolanda from Beijing to his aunt's house in Qingdao, so that more people can take care of Yolanda together.
Considering that Yolanda was injured and couldn't bump all the way, Yu Xia filled the car with pillows.
In the interview, Yolanda was very moved when she mentioned a car full of pillows. She said, I don't know where he got so many pillows.
After arriving in Qingdao, Yu Xia took care of Yolanda more freely, and they had a feeling of "living alone". Seeing the two people at this time, people around you feel that they may never be separated again in this life.
But no one expected that after just a few years, there was a crack in their love.
05
In 2005, Yolanda mentioned her feelings with Yu Xia in an interview. She used a word called "persistence".
In 2007, when Yolanda was interviewed, her attitude towards Xia was more subtle and her eyes were more sad.
She said: "No matter what the result is, it has actually blossomed in our hearts." Between words, full of regret and disappointment.
Not only is Yolanda's attitude "subtle", but Yu Xia's "episode" is also shocking, because some media caught him and Gao Yuanyuan.
Seeing the "golden couple" in those days, things have changed now, and the media at that time all felt with emotion.
Fortunately, Yu Xia and Yolanda finally got together, although they were on and off.
As Yolanda said: We have many memories, and we have witnessed each other's growth. If we change people, these memories may be gone.
In 2009, Yu Xia and Yolanda got licenses. They took a group of wedding photos at their alma mater, and then the two families had a meal together, completing the biggest decision in their lives.
For outsiders, marriage without it is not perfect after all, but for Xia and Yolanda, being together is enough.
After marriage, they have a daughter named "Xia Haha", hoping that her daughter can "smile" every day.
After becoming parents, yolanda and Yu Xia kept a low profile. Unlike the star couples in the general entertainment circle, they basically don't interact, don't go to the show, and are as quiet as "retirement".
But for Xia, after having a daughter "haha", he has changed a lot.
For another example, Yu Xia's ambition for work seems to be getting more and more indifferent. On the contrary, he prefers to grow up with his children.
He draws and writes with his daughter and takes her to exercise. These things seem more convenient to him.
If you look at the dynamics of Yu Xia, you will find that there are three aspects in his daily life, namely, sports, painting and playing the piano.
From the age of 16 to now, Yu Xia is still obsessed with skateboarding. Whenever he sees Yu Xia skateboarding in the video, it seems that he is still the boy who follows the trend.
Besides skateboarding, he also likes skiing because of his good level. He also worked as a ski commentator in the Winter Olympics, and some actors worked as ski commentators, which is simply "once in a hundred years" in the entertainment circle.
Yu Xia was asked what other sports do you like besides skiing and skateboarding?
He said, I like all kinds of sports. We can play surfing, mountain climbing and skydiving, but I am most proud of playing table tennis, because when I first went to Yuan Family, I played with my father-in-law, and he was very satisfied with me.
Seeing Yu Xia's daily exercise, maybe many people think that he is a restless person.
As we all know, when he is quiet, he is more patient than anyone else.
He likes practicing calligraphy. He can write all kinds of fonts. He said that writing can calm down. Nowadays people are too impetuous, and not many people can sit down and write quietly.
Seeing his copybook, many people admire his calligraphy. They all say "words are like people". When you see Yu Xia's words, you will know how calm his heart is.
Yu Xia not only writes well, but also likes painting.
He said that his painting was somewhat influenced by his father, but he felt that his level was average and he painted just for fun.
Perhaps it's because Yu Xia paints at will, so when he looks at his paintings, he can always see a kind of innocence and innocence.
Occasionally, on a whim, Yu Xia also plays the piano, often at home, which is indescribably leisurely.
Seeing Yu Xia playing the guzheng and yolanda playing the piano, probably everyone will envy such a "fairy couple".
Yu Xia once said that he and Yolanda are the same kind of people. They just regard "actors" as a job and never define themselves as "stars", so they live their own lives except showing their faces at work.
It is precisely because of this calm heart that the couple's works have not been many, but every time they come out, they will always impress the audience.
As some netizens said, these two people look quiet on weekdays, but they will win prizes if they shoot a work.
Seeing such Yu Xia and Yolanda, I suddenly thought of a passage by writer Yi Shu.
"Everything is quiet, come quietly, go quietly, work quietly, harvest quietly, and avoid noise."
Maybe they are not as radiant as other stars, but you know, in this impetuous and noisy era, it is not easy to protect a piece of pure land in your heart.
I hope you can live a simple and carefree life like them.