In your five senses, there is the feng shui of a child's life.
The geomantic omen of a child's life is hidden in parents' five senses
1. Listen carefully and open the child's heart
When excellent parents communicate with their children, they should follow the principles:
Step 1-Listen:
Let the children speak out and understand their true meaning
Step 2-Understand: < p
more important than reasoning is listening!
Parents who know how to listen are the relief valves for family conflicts. A good listening parent is the greatest blessing of a child's life.
2. Speak well with your mouth and give your child the motivation to get better
The psychological "south wind effect" reminds us:
When you strongly command and belittle your child, the child will only become more and more disgusted and resistant to you;
On the contrary, if you can speak in a gentle breeze and make your children feel respected, understood and tolerant, they will become more and more mature and sensible.
The so-called knife mouth is actually a knife heart.
The real and effective education is never condescending and accusing, but lowering your voice and instilling truth into your children's hearts with continuous whispers.
learn to speak well, praise the words of approval, encourage the words of criticism, and respect the words of opposition.
3. See the child with your eyes and discover the bright spots in him
Eyes are full of the child's shortcomings, often parents have problems
You can only see the child's shortcomings, and the child is really getting worse; The more you pay attention to your child's advantages and progress, the better the child will become.
Try to find out the advantages of children and give them positive encouragement. ". It's better to teach a child more than ten.
No matter how bad a child is, there is a good side. As parents, constantly discovering bright spots, dark places will become less and less, and children can grow up with confidence and sunshine and live themselves.
Every child has a side worthy of being seen.
4. read the child, see the child, and discover the bright spots in him.
Every child is born with a blank sheet of paper, and parents are painters. What a blank sheet of paper becomes depends on parents.
If you practice your ears and know how to listen, you will have the ability to read your child's heart.
Practice your mouth and talk well, and you will gain a harmonious and intimate parent-child relationship;
Practice your eyes and see the advantages of your child, and you will get a child with fewer and fewer shortcomings.
in your five senses, there is the feng shui of a child's life. I hope every parent can be responsible for their five senses, keep practicing and give their children a bright future.