Xia Ziwei Kobayashi letter

I think, probably when I think of something, I regret it as soon as I talk about it, but the situation at that time forced me to do something against my will.

If you can, you will always try to make up for it afterwards. Fortunately, sometimes regrets can be made up, but they are also helpless. Some regrets have a time attribute. After that point, it is no longer the original. More often, in order to make up for this regret, another regret may be created.

Xiaomei is Xiao Lin's first love. Both mother and fetus are single Kobayashi, and they didn't have their first love until they were 26 years old, and often the first love didn't end well. Yes, two years after they broke up, Xiao Lin got married with a girl from a neighboring village whom she met on a blind date. But as we all know, there is another person in the heart of each blind date, and that person in Kobayashi's heart is Xiaomei.

Speaking of the separation of two people, it is not because they don't love each other, but because they are far away from home, and neither of them has the courage to set up their own small home in the third city. It's only a matter of time before they part.

After two years of love between Kobayashi and Xiao Mei, Kobayashi put forward the idea of getting married. Men want to take their first love home and take good care of it. However, when Xiaomei put forward the idea that she didn't want to marry far away and wanted to buy a house in Changsha, Xiaolin felt that she had a house in her hometown, and buying a house in Changsha was a bit far from home, and some were unwilling. Before they passed this idea on to their parents, they had some differences. Later, they stopped talking, stopped talking, had no plans and no future, and finally broke up.

On the eve of the wedding, Kobayashi and several brothers held a bachelor party. Call Xiaomei when she is drunk and say that she is getting married. I wish her happiness.

May 1, 20 19, lost for a few minutes, which led me to miss the flight from Ho Chi Minh to Nha Trang. Before that day, my colleague said that Vietnam doesn't need a visa to fly, just a passport. I believe that if I don't bring my visa, I will be banned from boarding.

Later, I took a bus from Ho Chi Minh to Minai, and then took a bus from Minai to Nha Trang. After staying in Nha Trang for several hours, I had to catch a bus back to Ho Chi Minh because the holiday was coming to an end.

This matter has become a thorn in my heart. I regret not being able to enjoy the scenery of Nha Trang with my friends, and I regret leaving her there at last and letting her go back alone. All these have given me a "regret" filter for Nha Trang.

In the Spring Festival of 2022, I plan to go to Nha Trang, make up what I left unfinished on 20 19, book hotel tickets, make plans, and prepare passports and visas. Until I got on the plane, I was still worried about whether I would be banned from checking in. Fortunately, everything went well this time. Even my carry-on luggage with hundreds of milliliters of liquid was released. I checked in without a quick screening test on my return trip, which really exceeded my imagination.

Every day goes as planned, but because of the Spring Festival holiday, some shops and restaurants are closed, and the planned food has not been tasted. The rest of the things have been completed, except that there is no time to go to Longshan Temple, which has become a regret of this trip. I made up for the regret of 20 19 and also made up for the regret of 2022. Well, this is life.

People always have their own limitations before choosing. Are they concerned about the benefits they can see and the practical and long-term future? I want to foresee, but I don't have the ability. Finally, I still cultivate one acre and three points by myself. However, the facts always tell us that it is good to cultivate one-third of your land.

In the face of the times, we are just people who are pushed away. Think about it. Because of the changes of the times, we use smart phones to step into a cashless society, shop online and go out to see the world. Many things are not what we want, but the surrounding environment has created such a trend. Obviously, we can only conform to the trend of the times, but we should give full play to our subjective initiative and lead a different life.

In front of the crossroads, there are visible benefits at one end and "regrets" at the other. What would you choose?