Feng Shui married and divorced. Now, is it okay to wear filial piety to the man's family?

Feng Shui married and divorced. Now, how about mourning for the man's family? ——— For deeper consideration, you can go to Dai Xiao, and there must be articles in it. Now that you are divorced, the person in charge of the family is fully aware that this should not be our family, and we can only treat each other with relatives and friends. Can an outsider, Dai Xiao, be the owner of the deceased family after repeated discussions. Among them, Dai Xiao is the head of the deceased's family and has different views on the man in your divorce.