Can I stand a monument if I die in a car accident? I just looked it up on the internet, and people who die by violence are not suitable for erecting monuments. I don't know what that is. Can I erect a monument?

The matter of erecting a monument should follow the local geomantic custom and common sense. You know this sentence. Besides, what I want to say is, how old is the person who died suddenly? If you are older and your wife is alive, it is not appropriate to erect a monument. They're both dead. You should put up a monument. Besides, the monument is too young.