Is your best friend a "reference" in your life?

The reason why girlfriends can become their own girlfriends is because they share the same interests with her. ..... we have the same interests and hobbies, and we can feel the same and be close.

It is for the above reasons that she will become her best friend. Only two people can be intimate and talk about everything.

While communicating intimately with each other, girlfriends have another identity: she is also a "reference" in her own life ... Her words and deeds, every move, life and work will be compared with each other with girlfriends as a reference. ...

This is because of our own characteristics ... that is, we all have the enterprising heart to live a better life. ..... The fundamental reason is the following reasons:

1, everyone wants to be better.

Everyone doesn't want to be left behind.

Because of this, we always pay more attention to the people around us to see if they are stronger or weaker than themselves, better or worse than him ... this is the so-called "reference" in life.

As a close friend, my best friend should pay attention to her situation ... If she is better than herself, she will be moved and try to catch up. ...

Of course, the above mentality and state will not affect the intimate communication between yourself and your best friend.

First of all, taking your best friend as a reference will not affect your words and deeds.

This comparison is made silently in the heart and will not be shown in words and deeds.

Secondly, this state will not affect their close contact with their girlfriends.

Although I take my best friend as a reference, the intimate communication between them will not be affected.