It is the best feng shui for a family not to blame when something happens.
In Wuhan, a 14-year-old student was invited to his parents for playing poker.
when mother arrived, she was angry and raised her hand and slapped her twice.
He subconsciously blocked it with his hand, but his mother didn't calm down her anger and continued to raise her hand to poke her son's forehead.
After his mother left, he stood silently for two minutes, then suddenly climbed onto the railing and jumped down.
Her mother should just want to teach her son a lesson, but she never thought it would lead to such a result. In the final analysis, she still didn't care about each other's feelings.
Many times, we are always polite to outsiders. When we treat our relatives, we are always unscrupulous and always forget to leave the best emotions to the closest relatives.
the best family style is not to blame when something happens.
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Some people say that all happy families are similar, and each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.
There will always be mistakes in life. In an unfortunate family, we will always choose to criticize and criticize blindly, but we don't know that home is a place to talk about love.
when Zhang ailing recalls her mother, she always thinks of an angry face.
Her mother is moody and often growls at people when she is angry.
On one occasion, when a guest came to the house, Zhang Ailing found that a chair was missing. Young Zhang Ailing laboriously moved a chair, but her mother shouted in front of all the guests, "What are you doing? Pig! "
when Zhang ailing is ill, her mother has to pay medical bills and take care of her. Her mother often shouts impatiently, "Anyway, you live to harm people!"
Zhang Ailing's life was clouded by her mother's knife mouth.
Liang Qichao's marriage is happy, and his nine children get along well with each other, which is related to Liang Qichao's family management.
One day, Liang Sizhuang, the second daughter, was depressed because she only got sixteen in the exam, but Liang Qichao comforted her daughter:
"Zhuang Zhuang, I am satisfied with such a result. It's a great loss to you to get the sixteenth place among thirty-seven people. Don't worry, just work hard. "
He often says to his children, "Whether there will be achievements in the future depends on talent ..... but if you ask about hard work, Mo Wen will reap ... do what you can, and where you are."
there is no condescending, no beating, scolding and punishment, just encouragement, just trust, just respect.
under the influence of such a good family style, all nine children of Liang Qichao have made extraordinary achievements, which can be described as "three academicians in one subject, and all nine children are talented".
the most important and precious thing in a family is not the moment of right and wrong, but the true feelings.
Everything is prosperous at home, and the family is harmonious. Qi Xin, a family member, will make a fortune even if he is poor again.
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A fire broke out in a residential area in Guiyang. As can be seen from the live video, the fire in the burning room was fierce, and the smoke went straight to the residents' home on the roof.
The fire was controlled in time, but the whole house was in a mess, with cracked walls and charred doors, leaving only the skeleton of the bed.
Ms. Meng, the head of the household, said that she blew the sheets with a hair dryer, and the child began to cry. She put down the hair dryer to put on pants for the child, and then the hair dryer exploded, igniting the headrest at the head of the bed ...
Ms. Meng was very sad and blamed herself. The most admirable thing was Ms. Meng's husband, who said,
"It's just a house. It's a big deal to redecorate it, which is equivalent to us living in a new house.
most netizens said that Ms. Meng married the right person.
Life is bound to be bumpy, and the reaction before the predicament is often the touchstone of husband and wife's feelings.
This husband's behavior is a good interpretation of the wisdom of getting along with each other.
It's an established fact that no one wants to make a mistake, and no matter how you blame it, it can't be redeemed.
it is important to know how to avoid making the same mistake again.
When a mistake happens, if you just pour out your emotions, you don't think that the other person is actually regretting and blaming himself.
the result will only add fuel to the fire, which will not help solve the problem.
not blaming and being relieved when things go wrong are the preservative of the relationship, and the feelings can be deeper and longer.
As a saying goes:
"The so-called good relationship comes from one person's tolerance and accommodation, and another person's moderation."
A happy family is more tolerant and less accusatory; More understanding, less abuse, natural harmony and happiness.
The world always wants to find a land of geomantic omen, to bless the health of family members, the harmony between husband and wife, and the children and grandchildren.
In fact, the best feng shui for a family lies not in luxuries and luxuries, nor in being rich, but in the fact that the family does not blame anything and gets along harmoniously.
when a family is harmonious and harmonious, it will naturally flourish.
The so-called home is not a place to reason, but a place to talk about love. It is necessary to have home and everything.