What are the taboos of marriage customs in Zhenjiang? Unmarried pregnant people can be bridesmaids or something. What's the story?

1. Will being a bridesmaid affect your marriage?

Q: Will being a bridesmaid and sister after marriage affect marriage?

I said I should do as little as possible. The child is ok, it doesn't matter if the child does this, but if he is older as a bridesmaid, if it is possible from the perspective of life, just get married once. If this person is a bridesmaid, it may lead to a future marriage ... Many women will never find a man when they become bridesmaids. After I talked about this last time, there was a lot of feedback. They said, "I was a bridesmaid when I was a child. I have been unable to find a man since then, and I am still single. " So be careful with this.

2. Being a bridesmaid and best man in a dress will break the marriage. How to remedy it?

Q: Master said that being a bridesmaid and best man and wearing something similar to a wedding dress would break up the marriage. So some people didn't understand this before, and they were bridesmaids several times, all wearing dresses. Excuse me, master, is there any remedy?

A: It all depends on her chanting, talking to Guanyin Bodhisattva and repenting. After I talked about this last time, there was a lot of feedback. Many children said, "No wonder my marriage has been bad all my life, and I have never been married once." Some people are unlucky, and their marriage will always be bad. Why? She's married. For example, the fortune teller said that you were married twice, she was a bridesmaid three times, and she was not married. Talk and blow, and that's it. I don't understand. There was no master in the past. How about not listening (yes, we didn't understand it in the past)? I kept chanting and said to Guanyin Bodhisattva, "Every human fetus, I am so-and-so ..." First, I want to say "every human fetus" because the protector forgave you first. "Every human child" means telling the Bodhisattva, "Do you know the Bodhisattva? I am not a bodhisattva, I am a human being, please forgive me. " Then the Bodhisattva knows that people make mistakes. For a simple example, the dog did something wrong. As soon as the dog shed tears, you immediately thought, "Oh, it's a dog, forget it." Right? I see. Thank you for your kindness. )

3. What should I do when I am the best man and maid of honor? I won't lose my marriage.

Q: Fellow initiates want to ask Master, will being the best man or maid of honor give up feelings? Being a friend's maid of honor or best man is usually on good terms. How can fellow initiates refuse to attend the wedding if they want to attend but don't want to be bridesmaids?

A: Actually, don't refuse. Tell each other not to wear that kind of clothes, because both bridesmaids and groomsmen wear wedding dresses. This is not good. If you don't wear a dress, it doesn't matter to be with him (oh, just don't wear a dress). You should throw it away after putting it on. If this person has only one marriage in this life, if she wears a wedding dress, then her marriage will not succeed, she should be dismissed, and then she can't find any men. That's it. If she wears it twice in her penis, she will wear it once. Maybe it will be more formal and last forever, so the problem depends. It's best not to wear a wedding dress, so it doesn't matter if you are with her. You got it? Because many bridesmaids and groomsmen are just a bunch of bridesmaids and groomsmen. Master, can you tell avalokitesvara when you attend? It's no use talking, because you made it yourself. Your problem now is that if you talk to avalokitesvara, it will be gone. That's impossible. For example, you have done a bad thing now, "Avalokitesvara, I stole something today, you know, please forgive me, I really have nothing to eat at home". Do you think it is a crime? You said today, "I became a bridesmaid today. I should turn myself in." Please don't give up. " Because this is a natural truth, bodhisattva does not move cause and effect, don't you understand? It is very difficult for you to move this thing yourself and ask the Bodhisattva to help you get rid of it. It doesn't matter if he wears a suit and tie next to him (just wear ordinary clothes) Well, it doesn't matter if you wear a normal suit. It's not a big problem for men Women must not wear wedding dresses, because many bridesmaids also wear wedding dresses, which are weird and will be discarded (just wear ordinary clothes and stand by? ) right. You can dress better, that kind of fancy clothes, standing beside her beautifully and happily, not just the maid of honor (I know, thank you for your kindness)

4. About being a bridesmaid

Q: Master, is it difficult for a girl to get married after being a bridesmaid for three times?

A: That's not true. First of all, it depends on how many times this person has been married, and some of them have done a good job as bridesmaids. There was once a person whose master saw that she should have been married two or three times in her life. Fortunately, she only had one marriage in her life. Alas! That's weird. Then master helped her look at the totem. When she saw that she had been a bridesmaid twice, she should have been rejected twice. In the old society, there was a custom that if the fortune teller said that she would divorce in the future, she would let her children be bridesmaids. If she is fired, she will be the only candidate in the future. But you have gone too far, so I'm sorry, even your own marriage has to be dissolved and you can't get married (well, I'll let her listen to the recording tonight, and she really wants to get through to Master's totem phone)

5. How many marriages are there in life and the relationship between being a bridesmaid?

Q: You often say how many marriages have you had in your life. If she goes to be a bridesmaid, will she go once or twice?

A: If you often participate in several major events in the world-marriage, childbirth and death, you will know them in the world, so the retribution will be even worse. Of course, it is not necessarily a bad thing, there are good results and bad results. Being a bridesmaid will eliminate many things, for example, five men in your life torture you, treat you badly, and then dump you ... If you are a bridesmaid often, you may lose it. If you get married only once, it is not good to be a bridesmaid often.

6. About being a bridesmaid

Q: Let me ask you a metaphysical question. It is said that girls who have been bridesmaids for more than three times can't find husbands. Is this correct?

A: That makes sense. When people get married, you dress like a bride. In fact, in metaphysics, it belongs to "should be discarded" If it falls, it's gone. It's already done. Being a bridesmaid, maybe you still have a married life and can get married again; If the bridesmaid does it two or three times, and one person gets married at most three times, it will be gone.

-metaphysical question and answer