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Please stop bemoaning bad luck and follow these four simple rules, and you will get good luck soon.
Opportunity: Lucky people usually keep a relaxed attitude, and they are more willing to try new things.
Intuition: Sometimes trusting intuition will bring you good luck.
Hope: We believe that lucky people always have the hope of realizing their wishes, and strongly hope that good luck will always accompany them. If a person spends a few minutes every day thinking about the happy things that happened that day, he will feel that he has always been accompanied by good luck.
Positive attitude: By looking at things positively, we may turn around bad luck. For example, imagine that the challenge waiting for you will have a good result. A good attitude will bring good luck. Even if the final result is not satisfactory, I feel very lucky. Remember that things may get worse.
The above is psychologist Richard? There are some Chinese versions of Wiseman's books, such as Psychological Mystery Behind Luck, Weird Psychology: Uncovering the Incredible Daily Phenomenon and 59 Seconds.
Richard. Dr richard wiseman is a famous professor of social psychology at the University of Hertfordshire. He spent more than ten years studying the influence of people's daily behavior on their lives and life trajectories. In other words, what behavior is linked to luck and what behavior misses the good thing that should have happened. In the book "Luck Factor" published in 2003, he talked about a lot of luck-related behaviors and handling methods. He thought, "Luck is not magic, nor is it a gift from God. Whether you are lucky or not is determined by your thoughts and actions. " He thinks that the probability factor accounts for about 10%, and the other 90% lucky factors are all on their own.
Richard said meaningfully that "lucky" people, they are sober, they are sensitive, they are not stingy to try, and they welcome the emergence and occurrence of opportunities and new things. If luck means being in the right place at the right time or doing the right thing in the right place, then the so-called correctness-everything depends on whether thoughts and actions are in a field called "correctness".
What should I do if I am unlucky recently? I was unlucky for a while, and nothing went my way. Now I'm slowly adjusting.
1, looking back at your alma mater, hometown, or places where young people often stay will make you feel warm or mixed feelings. It's good for regulating yourself.
2. Talk to your elders, grandparents, teachers, old friends or classmates. You can always find your own demands in their words and the world.
3. Order a better red rope in Red Rope Zhou Jia, which is prosperous, beautiful and easy to use.
Don't forget to read at any time.
5. Do something for the people closest to you, such as cooking a meal.
The above methods are absolutely easy to use, and you can try them every time.
What should I do if my luck has been bad? What should I do if I have been unlucky? What if you are unlucky? People sometimes have bad luck. No one will be unlucky all his life, and no one will live in good luck all his life. Luck is like the tide, with ups and downs. However, luck is erratic and unpredictable. When you are lucky, good things happen again and again, and when you are unlucky, you can't get rid of it. Everyone wishes good luck and tries to avoid bad luck. Good luck is a stepping stone to our success. However, when bad luck comes, we don't have to be too negative. We should try our best to compete with fate. The so-called invincible, God suggested that we must try our best. In addition, there are some well-coordinated methods. Tao Yunge will explain to you what to do when you are unlucky. How can we change bad luck? First, psychological factors, psychological factors can affect a person's immediate luck, but also affect your life's luck. A person who hates the world, wealth and talent is difficult to get along with others, and those who blame their pain on others will also be avoided by good luck. If you hate the world, the world will hate you. If you tolerate the world, the world will tolerate you, and you will have the world. We also want to. Second, if there is no good luck, it is a bit cruel. I have to say that many people are really unlucky, so there are too many tragedies for the bottom people and their fate is low. Even if they are lucky, they are only a little better than before. They have worked hard all their lives, but they have achieved nothing. So I suggest, if possible, try to do something you like. The other is the eight-character high-rise but unlucky. Generally speaking, you can't be poor. Luxury food is just anything. There are too many such people, such as the rich second generation who have a successful career, or the white-collar executives who suffer indignities in the office building. They just need to be careful to avoid accidents. Third, good luck has passed. Generally, such people are lucky in their early years, but when they reach middle-aged and old age, they will go against the sky or go against the sky. When people reach middle age, they will feel depressed when they see that all their friends around them have successful careers and their houses and cars change year after year. In Tao Yunge's view, this is unnecessary. Everyone's luck is predestined by God. Since good luck is gone, it is not bad to concentrate on your career and feel the joy of life. Fourthly, according to the numerology characteristics of the zodiac and Ryutsuki's fortune, some people are likely to have a low fortune when they encounter evil spirits such as the year of the animal, the year of the tiger, the dog and the five ghosts. At this time, they should try their best to resolve their zodiac fortune. Taoyunge will explain the fortune of each zodiac at the beginning of each year, so you may wish to pay more attention. Fifth, do good deeds and change your destiny. Correct behavior can change the good or bad luck, but it can't change the natural talent and doomed luck; And accumulating one's own qualities and virtues can change one's nature, even one's innate wisdom, and change the doomed nature of good fortune and bad fortune. Therefore, doing good can change fate, accumulating virtue can change life, and doing good and accumulating virtue can change fate. The way to change your destiny by doing good deeds and accumulating virtues must be based on yourself and constantly improve yourself. Correct behavior is the best way to really change your destiny. However, life is doomed, and so is the life of human talent itself, but nature cannot be changed. Therefore, although there are good ways to change fate, in fact, only a few people can change their fate, and most people will live under the rules of fate. However, the right way to change your destiny by doing good deeds can't change your destiny, but it can improve your destiny more or less.
Why is the fortune bad in recent years? Everyone wants to have good luck on weekdays, and there are surprises waiting for him every day, but only a few people can realize this, but for those who are unlucky, the most important thing is to find the best way to change their luck.
First, we should adjust our mentality. Mentality is the most important thing. The outside world is like a mirror. If you are in a bad mood, then bad luck will accompany you. On the contrary, if you are relaxed, happy, helpful and love life, then your heart can have a positive impact and your surrounding environment will gradually improve.
The second is to do more good deeds. It goes without saying that friends who do good will understand. The key is what is good? In fact, doing good is very simple. For example, it is a good thing that you relieve your depressed friends. Of course, if you can go to Hope Primary School to tell stories to students or donate money to charity, it will be a great kindness. However, regardless of the size of the good deed, the mind is the most important. Help those who you can help. God usually cares for such kind people, and good people will always be rewarded.
The third is to get rid of bad luck. Prepare 33 pieces of glutinous rice, put your three hairs in the glutinous rice (three, three, three stands for scattering), and then put the glutinous rice and hair together in the red envelope bag. When you go out, put the red envelope bag at the nearest intersection from home. When people and vehicles step on it, the bad luck will be scattered! What followed was good luck.
The fourth is to wear the Buddha. According to the Buddhist scriptures, everyone has a bodhisattva or Buddha to protect you from birth, and the day he was born, he became attached to the Buddha, which is called "Buddha in this life". The Buddha is mainly to make up for what is missing in his life. The wearer can save money to protect himself and keep safe, especially in this lifetime and every nine years, he can get through the joints of the fleeting time, dredge the fortune of the fleeting time, turn adversity into luck and get happiness from suffering.
What does luck have to do with bad luck? In fact, "fate" and "luck" are completely different. "fate" is innate, doomed and cannot be changed. But "luck" can be adjusted and changed, and "luck" will change because of your choice and hard work. Everything has a process from birth to death, and people live in this particular law, but people have not completely lost their ability to master "fate". As long as we choose our best position and find a path suitable for our development, happiness and success will follow.
So how can we change the status quo and then change our destiny?
First, know yourself.
It is not easy to really know yourself. Many people have lived for most of their lives without really knowing who they are, what they want, their own advantages and disadvantages, their own likes and dislikes, so they can't find their place and see the direction of life development. Once they wake up in a daze, they have missed the best time.
Therefore, if you really want to change your destiny through your own efforts, then first of all, you should know yourself, what is good for you and what is harmful to you, and know your orientation, direction and goal in life, so that you can really grasp your destiny and change your destiny in a targeted way, otherwise everything will be empty talk, even if you are full of ambitions, you will probably hit your head against the south wall, even if your economy and technology are developed again.
Second, understand the environment.
From birth to independence to marriage, we are always influenced by the surrounding environment, people and things around us, and no one can shield us from external forces. Therefore, we should try our best to explore our own environment, from the whole country in the world to a unit, a department and a family. Only by understanding the environment can we adapt to it and turn it into something beneficial to us.
Third, faith and mentality.
"Some people are always lucky," you often hear others say. However, I wonder if you have ever wondered why these people can create so many opportunities even in adversity. There is no denying that some people are born lucky and always get twice the result with half the effort. There are always people who lend a helping hand when they are in trouble. However, such lucky people are rare after all, and most people are not so lucky. Therefore, we must strive for it by ourselves and work hard. Only with an upright heart can we walk well, quickly and steadily.
Except those who are born lucky, lucky people have a prominent feature, that is, they all know how to attract good luck and how to motivate others to help themselves. These often come from people's beliefs and mentality. A sunny and happy person will always have a group of people around him who are willing to approach him, help him and share beautiful things with him. However, a dark and melancholy person will have fewer and fewer people around him. No one wants to listen to his complaints and grievances all day, let alone endure his satire and meanness. Such people tend to get narrower and narrower. Then what kind of mentality you should have and what kind of beliefs you should adhere to are self-evident.
Fourth, the correct use of external forces.
In the previous articles, we have talked about these methods with the help of external forces, such as adjusting our own gas field, adjusting the feng shui environment, and relying on the help of nobles. Correctly and effectively using the help of these external forces can often achieve very good results, but the premise is that as long as you strive hard and work hard, there will be no pie in the sky, no matter how good a person's life and luck are and how good Feng Shui is, if you don't work hard, even if you gain something, it will not last long, just like someone who gets rich overnight. In the face of these help, we should be grateful and regard it as the driving force and assistance for our progress, and we can't pin all our hopes on these people, things and things. Only with a positive attitude can we really seek a happier life for ourselves with these external forces.
Verb (abbreviation for verb) the power of faith
There is no denying that there are unknown forces in this world, and there are always some unexplored energies, which are often expressed or realized through different beliefs. Whether it is a person's firm goal or religious belief, it is a kind of energy, especially popular belief, which can form a strong magnetic field with the gas field of the group, thus making the individual in a strong energy field. If this belief is good and positive, then we can.
Why is a person so unlucky that he can't do anything, no matter how hard you try! A person's innate life is determined by the good and evil in the previous life, and has nothing to do with the good and evil in this life. The good and evil in this life change luck, so it can change fate. However, fate is not so easy to change, and they must accumulate merits to a certain extent to reverse it. Therefore, some people are not bad people, just unhappy and short-lived. That's because they haven't done enough to effectively break through their innate destiny.
Therefore, we are committed to the bright future of Mo Wen. Fate is divided into life and luck. Fate cannot be chosen, but luck can be changed and created. Therefore, this fate can be transformed through the efforts of the day after tomorrow, because mastering luck can change fate. The Four Disciplines tells us what fate is and how to change ourselves to change our luck, thus changing our destiny. Four Instructions on Family Law is a book to be handed down to future generations, including classics, books, movies and TV plays. It can be found on the Internet that luck can be created. If luck is always good and bad, it will change fate. Good luck will change, bad luck will go bad, good luck will always go bad, and many bad things that should happen will not happen or be hurt a little, so people's fate will change and bad luck will change. The key is persistence, and fate will change. Of course, everything will change, because there are good and evil, and ordinary people often do things with good and evil coexisting and offsetting each other. If you want to change your destiny, you must work hard and do more good deeds, and your destiny will develop in one direction and change more. Of course, good must be really good, not Q. In real life, many people will think that weak people are good people, but this is not necessarily true. Some people are bullied, but they dare not resist. They may have chopped each other up in their hearts. This is not good. True goodness is kindness with a generous heart, which means "great wealth". True goodness must be positive and full of righteousness. This meaning can break evil spirits and stop evil spirits from heresy. Of course, some people will question that so many bad people in society are still alive and well. That's because everyone's fate is different. Some have more blessings, while others have less. Because of the large base and the great inertia of fate, it can bear the consumption, but it is always decreasing. I remember that two people in our village killed a snake together before. One of them died of illness in a few days, and the other lived for many years. So everyone's blessings are different. Some people can bear it, others can't. Of course, anyone who can bear it will die.
If you want to live a long and healthy life, the best and fastest way is not to kill nursing students, to be vegetarian and let them go. Of course, you must be sincere. Because killing animals and eating meat is murderous, murderous will destroy luck, and vegetarianism will reduce this murderous look and improve luck.
You can ask Guanyin Bodhisattva to get married and have children. Of course, we should be respectful and sincere. Where can we be respectful and sincere? Of course, worshipping Bodhisattva must be respectful (don't worship while reading, is this the spirit? It probably won't work, because your heart is wrong. Also, it is reflected in one's own behavior, truly abandoning evil and doing good, which is called true respect and sincerity. Now many people don't understand this truth. Just blindly worship Buddha, burn incense, donate money, but do not regulate their own behavior, can not do real respect, so it is not very clever. Some people feel refreshed, and many people are predestined, not desirable.
This year feels unlucky. How to deal with it? With the rapid development of the world we live in, everyone can realize colorful dreams according to their own good wishes. Whether the family is poor or rich, whether the nature is sad or happy, whether the industry is hot or cold, the wealth of financial officials must be the ultimate goal of all beings. Luck is a stepping stone to our success. First, psychological factors, psychological factors can affect a person's immediate luck, but also affect your life's luck. A person who hates the world, wealth and talent is difficult to get along with others, and those who blame others for their pain will also be avoided by good luck. You hate the world, the world will hate you, you tolerate the world, the world will tolerate you, and the world will tolerate you, and you will have the world. Second, if there is no good luck, it is a bit cruel. I have to say that many people are really unlucky, so there are too many tragedies for the bottom people and their fate is low. Even if they are lucky, they are only a little better than before. They have worked hard all their lives, but they have achieved nothing. So I suggest, if possible, try to do something you like. The other is the eight-character high-rise but unlucky. Generally speaking, you can't be poor. Luxury food is just anything. There are too many such people, such as the rich second generation who have accomplished nothing, or the white-collar executives who suffer indignities in the office building. They just need to be careful and avoid accidents, such as Yao Jiaxin. Third, good luck has passed. Generally, such people are lucky in their early years, but when they reach middle-aged and old age, they will go against the sky or go against the sky. When people reach middle age, they will feel depressed when they see that all their friends around them have successful careers and their houses and cars change year after year. In my opinion, this is unnecessary. Everyone's luck is predestined. Now that good luck is gone, feel the joy of life instead of focusing on your career.
What if one's luck is always bad? A confident person will never feel unlucky. This is an idea you only have when you are extremely lacking in self-confidence. I suggest you read some books on basic psychology. . . .
What should I do if I am unlucky recently? 18 ways to change my luck:
1, unknown efforts. Lucky people focus on action. They spend their time on important things instead of boasting and showing off. They always focus on better work performance.
2. Get along with positive and optimistic people.
Inject positive thoughts into your mind every day. Sometimes we may think of some negative thoughts at random, and then these thoughts have a negative impact on our actions. Consciously choosing the right words and actions requires us to consciously choose the right thoughts. For example, when I wake up every morning, I say to myself, "Every day, in every way, I am getting better and better."
4. Don't think too much, and act immediately. For many people, it is common to hesitate about the choices before them. In fact, the worst decision is not to make a decision. Success comes from good judgment; Good judgment comes from experience; Experience comes from bad judgment. So, even if you make a wrong judgment now, as long as you learn a lesson, it will eventually lead you to make a correct judgment.
5. Have a clear and definite goal. Lucky people have an extremely clear goal. And no matter what happens, they will always stare at the goals they set.
6. Imperfect acceptance. They don't say, "Now is not the best time". But they will say, "This moment is the best time." They will never come to them automatically when they know the right time, they will immediately create the best opportunity.
7. Don't care about other people's criticism. Lucky people are not distracted by the words of opponents, skeptics or haters. They don't allow negative thoughts to influence their thoughts. They actively try and make progress.
8. Listen to your inner guidance. Lucky people are often inspired by their emotions. Thinking is very important, but we often point out the direction for ourselves by our hearts. When we face difficult problems, our thinking often conflicts with our feelings, and lucky people often follow inner guidance rather than reason.
9. Focus on results, not plans. The plan will change. Accidents may ruin the best plan. But it won't turn out. A happy marriage, smart children, meaningful work and a successful career ―― these are usually our unchanging goals.
10, a lot of action. Lucky people dare to try, even though they may fail. They don't just sit back and wait, but often try until everything becomes clear.
1 1. I am willing to communicate with others at any time. Lucky people will warmly welcome anyone who is willing to listen to their ideas and talk to them about their ideas. Usually one idea points to another new idea.
12, pay attention to the same day every day. Let go of the past and focus on the present. Lucky people focus on what they can change at this moment. They are not worried about yesterday or tomorrow.
13, a firm belief in overcoming difficulties. Lucky people will encounter setbacks, but they will move on, because they firmly believe that as long as they stick to the end, they can get out of failure and get the results they want.
14, believe in yourself, they are not conceited. Lucky people believe that each of us has a strong inner strength, and this resilience can make us achieve great achievements.
15, full of curiosity, they will ask anyone they know some questions about simple things. They are eager to know how things work. They are curious explorers. They welcome new ideas, ideas or opinions.
16, Thanksgiving. Lucky people regard life as a gift and always do things with a grateful heart.
17. Admit that you are not clever. Lucky people become smarter by constantly trying to learn new things. They admit their shortcomings and mistakes, and can learn from them immediately and move on. They know that happiness and success in life come from continuous learning.
18. Serve and help others. Lucky people are very generous in helping and serving others in their work and personal life. They know that they will try their best to help others get what they want and their needs will be met.