The tide is turning? Outside the delivery room in Shandong, grandpa learned that the third child was a boy. Let’s take him away first.

For a long time in the past, boys had to occupy a higher position in the family than girls.

There are many reasons for this, such as the influence of the consciousness of reproducing offspring, men in the farming era were more energetic and had better harvests, raising children to provide for old age, etc.

However, with the development of the times, this tradition has changed. When a son gets old, he may not have a daughter to rely on. On the contrary, the cost of marrying a wife and having children is indeed unaffordable for parents.

The arrival of a newborn should be a joyful event, but outside a delivery room in Shandong, when the nurse brought the baby and looked forward to enjoying happiness with his relatives, the family His performance was a bit beyond her expectations.

Especially grandpa, who also had a sad look on his face, just let the nursing staff carry him back to the house.

In the new era, people have new classification standards for the upper, middle and lower classes. Upper level: two daughters, middle level: one son and one daughter, lower level: two sons.

Although it is a bit of a joke, the views and people’s consciousness behind it are actually self-evident. That is to enhance the status of girls.

The newborn fell to the ground, and everyone breathed a sigh of relief. After some treatment, the nurse in the delivery room took the baby out as usual and shared the good news with the family.

The mother and baby are safe, the baby is a boy, how much the baby weighs, etc.

She thought that the child’s relatives would be all smiles after hearing this, but what she didn’t expect was that the people waiting outside didn’t seem to be very excited and just briefly asked the pregnant woman’s name. After the health condition, the language will no longer be available.

The child in the nurse's arms didn't seem to be very interested. After just looking at it and discussing it for a while, the child became silent again. Especially the child's uncle, who originally reached out to hug him, but finally pulled back.

After being silent for a long time, he finally opened his mouth, but there were only a few words: Take him back to the house and go.

It was not until later that the nurse realized that the reason everyone was depressed was not because of anything else but the gender of the child.

Before I came here, there were already two boys in the family. I thought that the third child would be a girl, and everyone’s expectations were very high, so we specially took relevant courses, and even bought all the clothes for girls in advance. Clothes, but what I didn’t expect was that he was still a boy.

In the past, boys were expected, but now girls have become "hot cakes", and netizens are also talking about this.

Some netizens said that this idea is actually worth understanding. If there are two daughters in the family, they want a son, and if there are two sons in the family, they want a daughter. Unfortunately, there is providence.

Some netizens also said that when a daughter was born in the past, a group of people often sighed. Now, having a son has become a "burden". I have to say, things are really changing.

Some netizens said that since they have decided to have another child, they must be prepared and give them whatever they want. I don't like hearing this. Both a boy and a girl, as long as they are good children.

Objectively speaking, modern people’s understanding and trust of children are very different from those in the past.

In the past, raising a son and working hard to support him was nothing more than wanting to retire when he got old. However, when reports such as "the more sons you have, the more miserable your old age will be" appear in society, people's expectations are no longer as high as in the past. High.

More and more facts prove that sons are often careless and sometimes even have no liver or lungs. In contrast, my daughter is a truly considerate little cotton-padded jacket.

In this case, it is reasonable for the son to be treated less favorably than the daughter.

Especially those born in the 1970s and 1980s, it seems that they do not intend to entrust their later years to their children.

Children have their own lives. Whether they stay with them or spread their wings in the future depends entirely on their personal choices.

As for their later years, they mainly rely on themselves and their significant other.

To put it bluntly, a child is a gift from God, and getting it is a blessing in itself. But when you get this gift, don’t expect to exchange it for anything in the future.