What will you do when you are alone for a long time?
I work in a public institution, so I don't have to get up early and get greedy for the dark, so I still have plenty of time.
Although I am still at leisure, I am not greedy for bed or staying up late. I live a regular life and self-discipline is also an attitude towards life.
I like cooking food best at ordinary times, and I am willing to call friends to share it. In fact, calling friends, that is, two or three girlfriends. It's boring to cook delicious food alone. They will bring good wine. We are just a few old ladies, also called drinking and enjoying ourselves.
once again, it's time to sip tea. Although the conditions are limited, I am also dubbed by my girlfriends as a little petty bourgeois. Life is your own, be comfortable. At home, there is the simplest tea table and tea set, and a pot of water is burned and tasted slowly, which is also considered to be self-cultivation.
I also go shopping occasionally on weekends. It doesn't matter whether I buy it or not. I stay at home and meditate. What I want to go out for a stroll is a kind of excitement. I can also enjoy the beautiful clothes and enjoy the beautiful scenery of watching beautiful women try on beautiful clothes. Moreover, shopping is good, and I can improve my aesthetics. Although I am going to count to five, my colleagues also praise me for being fashionable.
Recently, I have a new hobby, besides doing moxibustion and promoting moxibustion, I also want to do classic reading. Every night, I assign myself the task of endorsement, and I feel more and more fulfilled.
I am a first-line oil logger who has been away from home for a long time and worked in the field in a foreign country. This topic is really a bit heavy for us. After graduating from Petroleum University in 26, I worked in the petroleum system, and engaged in the first-line field logging work. I have traveled all over Liaoning, Jilin, Heilongjiang, Shaanxi, Shaanxi, Hebei, Inner Mongolia, Xinjiang and other petroleum lands. In 211, my company went abroad and came to Kazakhstan, a Central Asian country. I didn't expect to work here for ten years. In the past ten years, I have been overseas for more than eight months every year, working abroad for three months and returning home for a month. In order not to affect the work, but also to reassure the family. Use your free time to do what you want by slowly adjusting.
first of all. Strengthen exercise, usually like to play table tennis, but few people play here, so most of the exercise is running, basically running 5-8 kilometers a day, and the weight has dropped from 14 to 125 pounds, and it has been maintained consistently over the years. And more energy.
second. Learning the local language, in these years in Kazakhstan, I have been in contact with all Kazakhs. Before, I communicated with them through English translators, but in order to better and more effectively understand the local culture, I began to learn Kazakh language myself. At first, my mouth was so lame that I can communicate simply now.
third. You can take out the good books you especially wanted to read before, read them quietly, watch movies and TV dramas, and listen to your favorite music, so that you can calm down inside.
finally. Through WeChat and QQ, you can often video chat with your family to reduce your solitude time, and you can also know what your family is doing, and you can also communicate with your family about your photos and things you encounter at work, so as to alleviate the long-term yearning.
I think I have a say in this question.
I have been living alone since I dropped out of junior high school (for family reasons). I always think of many ways to keep myself busy, such as shopping after work to buy a la carte and cook a delicious meal (you must wear headphones when you go out) to make life so boring. After cleaning up, I will take a shower and watch some books I like or movies of high quality, and then have a good sleep. Anyway, that's about it.
here are some dishes that I usually cook. They don't look very good but they taste good! Slipped away ...
I'm alone. Because of my work, I spend half a year alone in the wild, and people around me are several kilometers away. I don't want to visit in winter when it's snowy. My way is to watch TV and listen to music, watch TV when my eyes are tired, and play WeChat occasionally. Just get used to it.
it's not easy to make money!
Usually, if I am alone, I will play with my mobile phone at home, lie in bed and sleep in. If the weather is fine, I may go out for a stroll. In the past, I was basically alone in the years when I worked in Changzhou Electronics Factory. I also enjoyed my life alone. Although I was lonely sometimes, my life alone was also wonderful. I could go out online or go out to the supermarket to buy some I liked.
My personal life is a little lonely and inseparable, which makes me feel sad.
empty house, lonely self, helpless shadow. When wronged, one squats down and holds his knees, so sad that he cries. Later, I just put away my tears alone and let the cold wind squeeze in from the windowsill, drying the tears on my face, but I couldn't take away the sadness from my heart.
I once loved, paid, and some people were willing to hold hands, but later, I let go. I really want to talk about a love that will never break up and keep a true love that will never give up. However, the vast sea of people, where to find?
A person's life is a little lonely, but very quiet. No one quarrels with me and nobody cares.
I loved and let go, not because I didn't love, but because I was disappointed. How much I have paid, how painful my heart is now.
In the dead of night, I even heard the sound of heartbreak. I don't know where I feel distressed, so I stay up all night.
On a lonely and unbearable day, turn on the radio, listen to an old song, and the sound is around your ears. All those disturbing lives, tangled love and unspeakable pain are forgotten.
Actually, I spend very little time alone, because I don't like being alone, and I spend most of my time with my family or friends in my work and business, so I'll tell you what I can do alone for a short time! First of all, I will take an hour to exercise my body, do some aerobics, dumbbell training or jogging, and usually go out for running. Even if I have a treadmill at home, I choose to go out for running. First, the air is good, and second, I can see the scenery by the way. Then I will arrange my own cleaning. If time is tight, I will sweep the floor, mop the floor and wipe the dust at home. If time is long, I will have my own preferences to change the furniture at home and give myself the feeling of a new home. Although at home, I have three meals a day, so I will arrange myself to cook a good meal, which is not necessarily colorful, but must be exquisite, because it will have an appetite. The rest of the time, watching movies and TV plays, passed like this. My daily life is not very exciting, so you can refer to it. Thank you
for listening to music and drinking tea. . . Sometimes green tea, sometimes scented tea, sometimes fruit tea; Sometimes I make snacks and snacks. . . If you feel beautiful, just take a picture and send it in a hair circle, and share it with your friends [yeah] [yeah ]
I usually arrange time. One third of the time I will read some science books or study on the computer
** Don't think it's a good thing to be addicted to learning
The other two thirds, I will go out for a walk. Physical and mental health is very important, right?
Playing games.
Watch TV dramas, preferably American TV dramas, Japanese comedies or science fiction.
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