Essay: After thousands of years, no one asked me whether the porridge was hot or not, and no one added long sleeves to me.

Have a bowl of pumpkin millet porridge with just the right temperature. The color of Huang Chengcheng is waxy and sweet, which is very suitable for hot autumn. I hope to drink it with people I like. "

People are social animals, in fact, they need companionship, and there are many kinds of companionship: one is daily companionship and the other is spiritual companionship. The happiest thing is that the daily companionship and spiritual companionship are the same person. But there are too many helplessness and regrets in reality. We often feel that the person who accompanies us every day can't satisfy our spiritual companionship and singing.

Human nature is greedy and lazy. What you get is often no longer cared for and cherished. Everything is so natural. Living very close, I saw each other's shortcomings and shortcomings. So contradictions and quarrels continue. As a result, without passion, feelings entered a period of burnout.

We are more and more envious of the couples who accompany us to the old age. That's because couples nowadays often don't have the patience and tolerance to accompany the elderly. Don't those couples who support each other to the old age have quarrels and contradictions? I believe there is. Then what makes them stick together? Why are we so fragile and don't cherish our feelings? Is it because we are too easy to get? Or is it too tempting outside?

What we want is a high-quality company. We both yearn for daily life, and some people are caring and attentive. In reality, we often stop taking the initiative to care about others and greet them. I feel too active to disturb others.

Spiritual companionship is a kind of high-level companionship, a spark of ideological collision, a confidant and an understanding of you. It is spiritual communication and enjoyment.

The biggest thing between men and women is a word' love'. However, the reality is often the person you love. He may not love you as much as you do, but you don't love the person who loves you. So the two people who really love each other become few and have to choose again. It's almost hard to meet in the vast sea of people. Because we are more and more picky, more and more demanding and more greedy. We want both friendship and freedom. For the company of daily life, we are more eager for spiritual.

So we don't make do, don't compromise, we would rather be lonely, so most people sigh:

When we become more and more independent, more and more indifferent, more and more numb, more and more self-conscious, we yearn for free life, but also for the company of daily life. What a contradictory individual.

Look, the sun has set and all the people walking are old people. Look, more and more people like to eat alone.

Being independent and strong is a good thing. If we are so independent that we no longer need company, is it another sad beginning for mankind?

We have been pursuing all our lives, pursuing a life, career or love that we think is worth pursuing. There is too much love that is not allowed in reality, and too much disappointment.