Respect people by name.

Recently, a girl named "Northern Rock Yi Yun" in Jinan, Shandong Province was rejected, which triggered a heated discussion. Prior to this, a couple in Zhongshan, Guangdong Province renamed their children "Travel around the world". Their father is surnamed Zhou and their mother is surnamed Zou. They want their children to travel around the world. Therefore, after passing the audit, netizens said that it was so casual! Husband's surname is "rich in the world" and Zhang's name is "decorated with lanterns". After the banter, we need a deeper reflection. Although a person's name is no big deal, we can't take it at will.

It was said before that some couples named their children "the glory of the king", which was considered a rare phenomenon. When more parents choose this way to name their children, this is not a case, but a common phenomenon. I can't help asking, is the world too changeable or the culture too casual? Parents' pursuit of freshness and individuality is understandable. But the name embodies a cultural connotation and a choice of family culture. It is a way of inheriting civilization and a form of expression of the unique beauty of Chinese characters. Now it has become the so-called "news", which is ridiculous and sad.

Names are of great significance, and China has always attached great importance to people's names. Under the influence of Confucius' thought of "correcting the name", people regard the naming of later generations as very sacred and even mysterious. Naming emphasizes meaning, connotation, generation order and differences in respect for the elderly, which has lasted for thousands of years. The appellation of China people is known as "female book of songs, male songs of Chu". On the other hand, in modern society, even the most basic "surname" is being discarded. Some people may say that we have long since stopped following the ancient way of seniority; We are an open modern society and advocate the simplification of written expression. Not without reason, it also gradually withdrew from our life stage. However, more and more modern people only pursue the symbolization and personalization of names, rather than the true meaning of names. The expression is becoming less and less solemn, the meaning of "name culture" is lost, and the inheritance of "name culture" is terminated.

Network culture enriches cultural diversity, and name is one of them. Virtual social media makes people's names unimportant. Names are symbols and emotional catharsis, which can be played at will. But back to the real world, this principle is infeasible and unacceptable.

In the past, how important it was to give children names. Rich or poor, knowledgeable people will turn to several big dictionaries and think for a long time. The poor will also ask God and Buddha, paying special attention. It can really be said that "a name stands and the moon lingers." Names will accompany a person's life. What impressed me deeply was that when the university introduced itself for the first time, a classmate said, "Autumn rain hibiscus. Very cute and romantic. Compassion for the wind loves the moon and looks back on the past, and farewell to the wind on the moon. " This is the origin of the name "harmony". How beautiful! I was so envious and admired. But now that I think about it, one day someone said to me-"My parents like to play the glory of the king, so my name is the glory of the king." What kind of picture is it?

I don't know how children will behave when they start to be sensible, but I know that those meaningful names are parents' expectations for their children, respect for their lives and respect for culture. Instead of being unconventional, we should think about the profound meaning, which is the way to correct our name.

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