A very good friend won’t pay back the money, how should I hint to him?
In order to prevent so many years of friendship from being wasted, the way to deal with it must be to be polite first and then use force. First, check to see if he has really been having a hard time recently. Did he not go to other friends’ gatherings? Or are you still looking for someone else to borrow money? If you are really in big trouble, it is difficult to get the money when you ask for it, and you have ruined the relationship with your friend. You can make him pay back later by recording or writing a document. If you have physical evidence in your hand, the loan will be in arrears for a long time. It can also be said clearly. If a friend has become rich recently and is still showing off his wealth on WeChat Moments, just leave a message below saying: "I can't afford to eat lately!" Then call him in a few days to tell him about his difficulties and ask him to borrow money from him. The money will be returned to you. Riding the bull and watching the bear, I think that if you are a "true friend", you won't continue to drag it.
Borrowing money is a "testing stone". The test is whether your friendship is true or false? What matters is whether your friendship is strong? How many friends in this world show loyalty to you on the surface, but don't help when it's critical. The person who asks to borrow money either thinks you are rich, or thinks you have a good relationship and won't refuse you, but these are not borrowing money and not paying it back. reasons. Riding Bulls and Watching Bears If you encounter a good friend who refuses to repay money, you can ask your friends around you if they have borrowed money from him. If so, invite a few good friends to his house or make an appointment to talk it over together. Do not do this. As time goes by, there will be estrangement, and you can immediately give an accurate confirmation of whether you can repay the money. It is much better for a group of people to ask for money than to face it alone. It can make the other party surrender, both psychologically and with momentum.
Sometimes the borrowed money is only a few hundred yuan, and the other party still refuses to repay the money after urging him five times, so I treat him as a dinner treat. This is a "breakup meal" after I get to know him clearly, and I won't use it in the future. No matter how good we are, if we don't repay the money, we will have no credibility. After being polished by society, people will become bad. If the loan is more than 4 figures, then you have to touch your "little heart" and ask yourself: "Does it hurt?" If it hurts, don't worry about the relationship for many years. Set a specified time limit with the other party to repay the money. Just take it to court and solve it through the power of law. After you have done your best, don't talk about whether to be friends or not. Let's get the money first!