The situation is reversed. When you keep rejecting others, have you ever thought that you will be rejected one day?

Good luck doesn't always belong to one person. Everyone can't be smooth sailing all his life. There will always be lows and bad luck. In terms of men's and women's feelings, acceptance and rejection are subjective, which has little to do with luck, but more on the basis of mutual love and some fate. Refuse if you don't like it. Accept it if you like. Rejection and rejection are normal. It is better to be rejected after confession than to miss it. However, don't accept people you don't like because you are afraid of being rejected by people you like one day.

First, even if it's not love at first sight,

Love at first sight, love at first sight, and life after decision are rare. The people we usually meet are, first, people who have a good impression and feel good, second, people who don't have a good impression and don't understand the language, and third, the other person is a favorite ordinary friend. First of all, there is a good feeling between men and women. Two people can try to communicate and get to know each other better. For the second one, we will generally reject it directly. If you don't refuse, you will waste each other's time and feelings. The third is that there is no good feeling between men and women, but they belong to ordinary friends who are willing to associate. If one party has unilateral feelings for the other, they can also communicate with each other with the consent of the other party. If the other party refuses, it means that the other party has made a judgment on his own heart.

Second, learning to refuse is to protect others and protect yourself?

Some couples come together after a certain affection, but after in-depth understanding, they find that their personalities are not suitable for long-term coexistence. At this time, breaking up in time is the best choice for each other. The other is that there is no good feeling between the opposite sex and it needs to be resolutely rejected. Even if two people come together, with the increase of each other's feelings, the longer the delay, the greater the harm and self-harm to each other.

Third, when you meet someone you like, you must express it bravely.

Finally, there is a saying in Zhang Ailing's novels: When a person meets someone he likes, he may be wiped out. So it takes courage to meet the person you like and express your love. Be sure to express it bravely so as not to miss it.