What does this sentence mean?

This should be the explanation of birthday. What he said is: When I was young or young, I suffered a lot, but in middle age, I will live a better life. If it is a man, he will have a good wife, but although he is at leisure, there are many things and it is more troublesome. My brother can't help anything, he can only struggle on his own. If it is a woman, she is virtuous and capable, but she should guard against villains.