Birthday age is taboo (some ages are not allowed to celebrate birthdays)
Speaking of birthdays, it seems that most people are keen on it. Many friends celebrate their birthdays twice a year, that is, both the solar calendar and the lunar calendar. But in fact, China people are very particular about birthdays.
Millennium once had a friend who was willing to contribute 1 million yuan to celebrate his mother's 70th birthday. In order to appear grand and special, he invited relatives and friends at home and abroad and asked everyone to wear uniform clothes to celebrate his mother's birthday.
As a result, he was stopped by a feng shui master and asked him to think about it. Under what circumstances will relatives and friends wear the same clothes in China? If you insist on giving your mother a birthday, it probably means that this is the last, or even the last, family photo.
China Yijing Feng Shui is not groundless. For older people, birthdays are very particular. Most elders pay more attention to these established rules, but younger generations tend to ignore them.
You know, it is also a kind of filial piety to respect the traditions of the elders over the years. As a China person, there are some things you must know.
In fact, from the perspective of psychology and numerology, people of some ages are not suitable for birthdays, which is why people always say: don't make a whole birthday.
In the geomantic omen of the China Book of Changes, people aged 60 to 80 are not encouraged to celebrate their birthdays vigorously, because there is a saying in numerology that a big birthday can consume 8~ 10 years of life.
Anthropology believes that the birth of man is a process from God to man and then to God. If you celebrate your birthday with excessive fanfare in the human stage, you will not only live long, but also lose your life.
From birth to 16 years old
From birth to 16 years old, children at this stage are "gods" rather than people. Therefore, we can give our children birthdays as much as possible, even if it is not exaggerated.
Jade of Affinity: Emerald
Suitable for cutting: gourd, beans, passepartout, Xiangyun, etc.
Suitable varieties: ice waxy seeds and ice seeds.
For children, it is best to choose jade with mild properties. But it is suitable to choose gourd, mung bean, passepartout and Xiangyun. , are more exquisite, suitable for children's physique.
△ Emerald Passepartout
△ Emerald Fudou
△ Emerald Xiangyun
On the other hand, many of these small pendants have the meaning of healthy growth and learning progress, which is very good for children who are still learning and enlightening.
△ Yuzhu Festival means steady and rising.
From 17 to 59 years old
17 to 59 years old, from a "god" to a person, you can celebrate your birthday, but you should pay attention to celebrating your birthday according to local customs.
For example, every tenth birthday should be one year in advance, that is, the 30th birthday should be completed at the age of 29. There are also some places where the custom is "three but four", that is, the thirtieth birthday can be celebrated and the fortieth birthday cannot be celebrated.
Affinity Jade: Hetian Jade
Suitable for cutting: wide-brimmed bracelet, movable card, design type.
Suitable varieties: sheep fat jade, duck egg green
Entering the society, jade can still be used as personal articles in the transitional period. If it's a birthday, you can choose Hetian jade, because its gentle temperament is conducive to improving a person's mind, fading away from childishness, becoming increasingly mature and steady, and being relatively low-key.
Young people can choose Hetian jade leisure cards and some novel designs, which are very consistent with girls' gentle and delicate temperament.
Skip the girl, and when you are mature, you can choose a wide-brimmed Hetian jade bracelet, which is slightly heavier, calm and restrained, and conforms to the "quiet" characteristics of China people.
△ tracing gold and hetian jade
△ Mosaic Hetian jade
People are 60 years old.
When a person reaches the age of 60, it is already the reincarnation of 60 children, so it is not appropriate to celebrate his birthday in a big way from the age of 60 to 79.
Cheng Zhu Neo-Confucianism believes that once a person reaches the age of 60, he can't celebrate his birthday, because he is afraid of "reminding" the terrifying prince and "checking out" the birthday party in advance. So the so-called "60th birthday" is usually completed at the age of 59.
Jade of attachment: agate
Suitable for cutting: bracelets, necklaces and brooches.
Suitable varieties: Nanhong and Bingpiaonanhong.
Agate is a longevity thing. By the age of 60, agate's health preserving ability and moral are very suitable for prolonging life. Many old people like to wear bracelets, so Nanhong bracelets or pendants are good choices.
In addition, although the brooch is often overlooked, it is actually a place to enhance one's temperament. If you don't like carrying heavy loads, don't wear exquisite brooches to show your dignity.
People live to be 80 years old.
At the age of 80, he changed from a person to a "god", so he can celebrate his birthday, he can celebrate his birthday with great fanfare, even in the newspaper, because he is already a "god" instead of a person.
Affinity Jade: Hetian Jade
Suitable cutting: pine crane prolongs life, pine and cypress are in the same spring, and peach lives longer.
Suitable varieties: Hetian jade and seed jade.
At this time, Hetian jade is still the most suitable for the elderly to wear, because Hetian jade feels warm and comfortable, and its function is also the gentlest. At this time, you can choose sculptures with special meanings to express your wishes for longevity.
△ Hetian jade handle: more than one year.
△ Hetian jade brand: Songhe Yannian
Aggressive offenders are too old.
In addition, for those friends who have committed crimes in the past, they need to be cautious about their birthdays, and they can keep a low profile as much as possible.
Jade attachment: all kinds of jade
In the case of committing tai sui, we should choose the right jade according to our respective zodiac signs and specific conditions.
Millennium proposal
? China's traditional position theory has far-reaching significance, and people's fortune varies with age. Therefore, it is not the same whether they celebrate their birthdays with high profile or low profile, and friends need to study it carefully.
? Friends who have reached the age of 60 should be more careful about their birthdays. Birthdays can be spent quietly at home, without publicity or high-profile, otherwise trouble may follow. Although some friends celebrate their birthdays one year earlier, such as 59, it is advisable to be cautious.
? Friends over the age of 80 can celebrate their birthdays with great fanfare, because they can get a lot of positive energy and prolong the life of the birthday girl.