Learn "Know No" and teach you five tricks to see a person clearly.
Recently, I rewrote Know No, feeling that it is full of all kinds of useful truths to teach girls to survive and make friends in society. You have to sink your heart and watch carefully to understand the play!
Number one: meet his friends.
"Although Gu has a bad reputation, his friends are honest people like Sheng, and Xiao Qin seems to be a good man but wants to associate with people like Aunt Kang. Gu always tries his best to hurt his friends and family, while Aunt Kang and Xiao Qin's generation do their best to hurt their friends and family. Look at a person, first of all, look at what friends he makes. " It is an eternal truth that birds of a feather flock together.
The second measure: look at the family.
Moran's beauty qualification is good, but what Xiao Nianglin taught her was crooked ways. Ming Lan grew up in front of a wise old grandmother. When she grew up, she was honest and smart. Mo Ran did not hesitate to marry Liang Jia, regardless of his reputation. Although he worships Xiao, he has his own bottom line, and he also thinks about the reputation of Sheng Jia everywhere. Family background can not completely determine a person, but it can be an important consideration.
The third measure: look at the lowest point of character.
Ming Lan told her grandmother, "Being with others ultimately depends on the lowest place, that is, the place with the lowest personality. Sun Xiucai, married by Lan Shu's sister, is shameless. Although Hong Wen is soft-hearted and thinks of Ming Lan and Sun Xiucai everywhere, he is shameless and always cares about her family's property. Looking at the lowest point of a person's personality, the lower the bottom line, the worse the person is, and the less able to make friends.
The fourth measure: look at his posture when something happens.
When Zhu Manniang heard that Gu was expelled from the waiting house, she sold Gu's property and prepared to run away from home. When Gu saw that Xiao's marriage was blocked, she was willing to gamble on her own safety to help Xiao. Zhu Manniang and Lin Xiaoniang are both fearless in times of crisis, while Gu Hesheng is a friend who can really lend a helping hand in time. A friend in need is a true friend. Only when life is difficult can you see a person's true colors.
The fifth measure: see if his words and deeds are consistent.
Although Xiao Qin was good to Gu verbally, what he did hurt him. On the other hand, Gu will try his best to make his promise to his friends, even if he finally loses his life. A man knows his companion in a long journey and an inn. A person can pretend for a while or for a lifetime. If a person's words and deeds are consistent for a long time, then such a person is worthy of making friends.