The name will be sprayed

Although the name is just a code name, many parents still spend a lot of energy on naming their children, trying to give them a nice and promising name. But for children in China, most of them don't just have a formal name. When they get along with close people, they often have many nicknames.

The big name is parents' expectation and blessing for their children's future, while the nickname is a nickname for them to express their close relationship with their children. Moreover, birth names can be more casual and lovely than formal names used in formal occasions. Perhaps it is precisely because the birth name is relatively private that many parents will not bother as much as the official name when taking out the birth name for their children.

In fact, birth names are also very particular. If you have a bad birth name, it will also affect your child's self-esteem. The birth name will accompany the child for life. Parents must remember: try not to take these three birth names, and don't be careless. For example, young people nowadays like playing games very much, and some people will take the names of game characters as their nicknames. My friend recently gave birth to a daughter. Because she likes Cai Wenji very much, she named her daughter Xiaoji.

When the family called the child's name, the child did not show obvious disgust. But I didn't expect that after school, the child had a very obvious resistance to this birth name. Because parents often call their children by their birth names when they pick them up from school.

Moreover, this baby's name sounds particularly like a chicken of a small animal, so many students make fun of this name, which has caused great trouble to their daughter. Many parents are used to calling their children by their birth names. Even if there are classmates or friends who are more important to their children, they will call their children by their birth names without care.

If the birth name is normal, you may be praised by your friends. However, if it is too casual to spread the birth name to the school or circle of friends where children live, it will become a very troublesome thing for them. Parents should not easily choose the following three names: ugly and hurtful self-esteem.

One: homophonic baby name.

When choosing a name, many people will choose a few words that they think have better meanings, and sometimes they will ignore the feelings after reading the name as a whole. Some names are considered to be good names only by looking at the meaning and structure of the font, but after being pronounced with the surname, there will be some homophonic stalks.

Therefore, whether you give your child a formal name or a nickname you usually use, you should pay attention to this, and don't choose a homophonic name that is easy to associate with other aspects. Many children have no ideas. They will feel funny when they hear such a name, so they make jokes without restraint.

This sometimes bothers children, and some children even feel tired of learning. As parents, there is no way to avoid such a situation. They can only pay more attention to names and try to avoid homophonic names. In this way, children will not be nicknamed by classmates at school.

Two: named after vegetables or fruits.

Some parents take names casually, thinking that the birth name is the child's nickname, which can be more relaxed and lively. So they often name their children after their favorite vegetables or fruits. But because these foods are ubiquitous and real in daily life.

Therefore, if this name is known by others, it is easy to make fun of children with real food. Many people will feel embarrassed when they hear that their names are used as jokes by others. Even some sensitive children will hate their parents because of this.

Moreover, during the conversation, if parents really mention these fruits and vegetables, children will feel very confused and don't know whether their parents are calling themselves or chatting. Therefore, parents should be more careful when naming their children, and don't name their children fruits and vegetables so casually.

Three: notoriety

I believe many people have heard of the saying that cheap names are good for feeding. In the past, the medical level and quality of life were not good enough, and many children died unfortunately because of various accidents after birth. Therefore, some parents will give their children an ugly nickname in order to make their children live a healthy life, and even some parents will directly use this name as their official name.

Because in their view, such an ugly nickname has passed many tests, so it will be stronger and more vital. For example, names like "Iron Egg", "Dog Son" or "Dog Leftover" are nicknames that many old people like. Although such a name sounds smooth and fun, it is obviously not a good name.

If there is such a custom in the living area and all the friends around have such nicknames, it may not be so embarrassing. But on other occasions, such an ugly birth name is easy to be laughed at by peers, and some even crowd out children.

These are some of the most unpopular baby names for children, so choosing names is not only harsh, but also hurts children's self-esteem. Some children also feel inferior, unwilling to hear others call their names, and even afraid to show themselves on some occasions. If parents really give their children such names, don't shout in front of classmates or friends easily, otherwise it will easily affect their interpersonal relationships and make them feel inferior.