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What’s the point of giving gifts?

Question 1: Is there any particularity in giving gifts? Seventeen precepts for giving gifts

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1. Understand other people's tastes. You must know that giving gifts is not to make yourself happy, but to make others happy. Any items designed to experiment with other people's tastes are not acceptable as gifts.

2. Motives are not allowed. Gifts that have implications and meanings should be avoided as much as possible.

3. It's always better to be new. Because no one likes receiving second-hand goods.

4. Don’t buy “useful” gifts. This advice is especially for men who only know how to buy household items for the women they love. Practical gifts not only lack imagination, but also lack of thought. Remember that you are giving a gift to a person, not to the family.

5. Whether your gift is 3 yuan or 300 yuan, you must first remove the price tag. Giving a gift with a clearly marked price seems to remind the other person how much this gift cost me. Are you expecting a reward? Or do you want to do a business of equivalent exchange and value for money? It is generally considered rude to have a price tag on a gift. It is also unwise for you who want to express your feelings.

6. Carefully selected packaging. Gifts are different from personal use. Good content is important, and good form adds more color. The principle of gift giving is to choose beautiful packaging as much as possible.

7. Relatively speaking, giving gifts to women is always simple. There are many small things in women’s lives, so they are all good choices for you to give gifts. Women's natural instincts of daughterhood, wifehood, and motherhood can all be catered to in gift giving.

8. Still, it’s unwise to give away women’s clothing. Not to mention that the colors and styles are different and difficult to figure out. The key obstacle is the size - losing weight is troublesome, but gaining weight will also make her unhappy: Am I so fat?

9． Seize the opportunity to give gifts. There are many opportunities for gift giving. We can only give one person a birthday gift once a year, but nothing prevents us from giving "non-birthday" gifts at other times. Non-birthday gifts have long been responsible for enhancing relationships, soothing injured hearts and repairing broken hearts. The importance of friendship.

10. Love the gift you sent. If you don't like a gift yourself, you shouldn't let others receive it.

11. Come up with something new. It would be the most troublesome thing to give a gift to someone who is not interested in anything or someone who is in need of anything. You might as well use your brain and invite him or her to see a very attractive show.

12. Choose a more practical gift based on the recipient's occupation.

13. Measure a reasonable price. This gift is rude because it is too cheap. In fact, the value of the gift should be measured based on the relationship between you and the recipient to avoid embarrassment to both parties.

4. Personalized gifts. A homemade gift is one of a kind and it expresses how much you feel.

15． It is said that ties and belts are not suitable for men unless you have a close relationship with him. Because these things are meant to tie each other down. By analogy, it seems inappropriate to give women necklaces, let alone rings.

16. When giving gifts, you should have a good balance between practical and impractical. For an elegant person, a book may be better than anything else, but there are fewer and fewer elegant people. However, gifts are gifts after all and should not be overly practical.

17. Avoid sending fresh goods. Even if you are giving a gift to a housewife who loves cooking, it is best not to give chicken, duck, fish, meat and vegetables. Not to mention the difficulty in keeping it fresh, its ability to be cooked as soon as it is brought in and eaten after importing it will greatly diminish its meaning as a gift. By the way, when sending nutritional products, food, and cosmetics, you should pay attention to the shelf life, otherwise it will be embarrassing.

Question 2: You need to pay attention to taboos when giving gifts. What gifts cannot be given? 1. Don’t give wallets.

Giving wallets usually means that you are giving away your own “money bank”. Anyone who has given a wallet to a friend, think about it for yourself, will you have poor financial fortune in the future? Or will the leakage of money be serious? Or the money that should be collected cannot be recovered in time? I remind you to be careful when giving wallets. Of course, it is usually between husband and wife or lovers. It's no big deal, because there is skin-to-skin contact and congeniality.

2. Don’t give swords as gifts

Some friends like to give "peach blossom swords" to others so that others can cut off the rotten peach blossoms. As a result, they will suffer a lot of peach blossom disasters; Some friends also bought a set of kitchen knives and forks as gifts to others when they saw their relatives and friends moving or getting married. The strange thing is that after that, their fortunes plummeted. Be careful when sending swords. In addition, if someone gives you a sword, you should also store it carefully.

3. Don’t give "God of Wealth" as a gift.

If a friend opens a store or business, relatives and friends will give him "God of Wealth". In fact, from a spiritual point of view, you should be careful when giving. God of Wealth, otherwise, it is very likely that your wealth will be stagnant; of course, the recipient should also pay attention to it. Usually, gods and Buddhas have to go to the temple in person to invite them. They cannot invite them at will, nor can they accept money from others at will. "God". Otherwise, both the sender and the receiver will suffer financial problems.

4. Don’t give a fish tank

A friend asked Dr. Zheng to check the feng shui of his house. Why did he find that he had poor financial luck after getting a fish tank? It turns out that she didn't know something. The fish tank is similar to the "God of Wealth" and cannot be given or accepted at will. What's more, some people are taboo on keeping fish, so fish tanks cannot be sent at will. The first thing you need to do when placing a fish tank is the shape, size, location, height, number, type, quantity, and color of the fish tank.

5. Don’t give clocks as gifts

Some people say that you can’t give clocks as a gift because bell is the homophone of end. Giving a clock to someone is tantamount to expecting the person to die. And the watch also belongs to Zhong Ke. You see how many corrupt officials have been dismissed or even lost their lives because of wearing the brand-name watch of the briber.

6. Don’t give shoes

Shoes are a homophone for evil. Therefore, giving shoes to others (excluding relatives) is tantamount to sending away evil spirits. Therefore, it is very likely that you will lose contact or friendship with the other person soon.

7. Don’t give umbrellas

Umbrella is a homophone for “scattering”, so umbrellas cannot be given as gifts (excluding umbrellas in the rain). If good friends give umbrellas to each other, Giving it as a gift will mean that you will break up or be separated in the future.

8. Don’t give pears and plums as gifts

Pears and plums are homophones for “li”. Giving away these two fruits will mean the danger of separation in the future!

9. Do not give candles

Candles are used to worship the deceased, so they cannot be given as gifts.

10. Don’t give rag dolls

Rag dolls and human-like things such as masks are all villains. Leaving them in the home for a long time can easily attract evil spirits and bring unrest to the home.

11. Don’t give away stones and antiques of unknown origin

Stones and antiques are things that can easily attract evil spirits to attach themselves to them. Some of them may look like ornamental stones or valuable antiques. However, evil spirits may be attached to it, making it unlucky to send it there.

12. Don’t give pillows

Pillows are a necessity for everyone at night, but if you give pillows to others at will, it means that you will have fewer days of "sleeping back and forth". On the contrary Trouble will ensue, so give pillows with caution. However, there is nothing wrong between lovers.

Question 3: Why is it not good to give gifts in the afternoon? What is so important about giving gifts but not time? If you are looking at patients who are recuperating at home, it is not good to look after patients in the afternoon because most people’s resistance in the afternoon is not as good as in the morning, and their energy is not as good. It's not as good as in the morning, so it's generally better to see people in the morning.

Gift giving should consider the specific situation and occasion. Generally, when attending a private family dinner, you should bring some small gifts for the hostess, such as bouquets, fruits, local products, etc. If you have children, you can give toys and candies. When invited to a wedding, in addition to artistic decorations, you can also give bouquets and practical items. During New Year and Christmas, you can usually give calendars, wine, tea, candies, cigarettes, etc.

Grasp the timing and method of giving gifts

Gifts should generally be given face to face. But sometimes to attend a wedding, you can also send it in advance. To celebrate holidays and give new year gifts, you can send them to your door or send them by mail. At this time, the gift giver's business card should be attached with the gift, or a handwritten message of congratulations can be placed in an envelope of similar size. The name of the gift recipient should be written on the envelope and affixed to the top of the gift wrapper.

Usually, it is not appropriate to give a gift to only one person in a group of people in public. Because the recipient will feel bribed and fooled, and it will make the non-recipient feel left out and looked down upon.

It is not advisable to give gifts to people you are close to in public, to avoid leaving the public with the impression that your close relationship is entirely supported by material things. Only special gifts that are light on etiquette but heavy on affection, and gifts that express special emotions, are suitable to be given in public. Because at this time the public has become a witness to your sincere friendship. Such as a special souvenir, etc.

Pay attention to attitude, actions and language expression when giving gifts. Peaceful, friendly, graceful movements and polite language expressions are what the recipient is happy to accept. The thief-like practice of quietly placing gifts under the table or in a corner of the room not only fails to achieve the purpose of gifting, but may even be counterproductive. It is a common custom in our country to always say overly modestly when giving gifts: "A small gift! A small gift!" "It's just a little meaning" or "I'm very sorry..." This approach is best avoided. Of course, it is not appropriate to say in an almost proud tone when giving a gift: "This is a very expensive thing!" When introducing the gift, you should emphasize your goodwill and affection for the recipient, rather than the actual value of the gift. Otherwise, you will fall into the situation of emphasizing gifts and undervaluing justice, or even It will make the other party feel like they are accepting a bribe.

Giving gifts according to people, situations and places is one of the norms of social etiquette. The choice of gifts should also comply with this norm. The selection of gifts should be based on different recipients. Generally speaking, for the poor, affordable is better; for the rich, exquisite is better; for lovers, lovers, lovers, commemorative is better; for friends, interesting is better; for the elderly, practical It is better; for children, it is better to enlighten and novel; for foreign guests, it is better to be unique.

For example, there is a common saying in China that "good things come in pairs", so for any big celebration, gifts should be given in pairs and not in singles. However, Cantonese people are taboo: the even number "4" , because in Cantonese, "4" sounds like "death", which is unlucky. No matter how good it is, although white has the meaning of purity and flawlessness, it is more taboo among Chinese people because in China, white is often the color of great compassion and poverty. Similarly, black is also considered unlucky, the color of disaster, and the color of mourning. Red is a symbol of joy, peace and joy, and is universally loved by people. In addition, Chinese people are often strict about not giving clocks to the elderly, and pears to couples or lovers, because "giving clocks" and "giving away", and "pear" and "li" are homophonic, which are unlucky. Also, for example, you cannot send medicines to healthy people, you cannot send personal items to friends of the opposite sex, etc.

Question 4: Is there anything special about giving gifts to friends? 1. Understand other people's tastes. You must know that giving gifts is not to make yourself happy, but to make others happy. Any items designed to experiment with other people's tastes are not acceptable as gifts.

2. Motives are not allowed. Gifts that have implications and meanings should be avoided as much as possible.

3. It's always better to be new. Because no one likes receiving second-hand goods.

5． Whether your gift is 3 yuan or 300 yuan, you must first remove the price tag. Giving a gift with a clearly marked price seems to remind the other person how much this gift cost me. Are you expecting a reward? Or do you want to do a business of equivalent exchange and value for money? It is generally considered rude to have a price tag on a gift. It is also unwise for you who want to express your feelings.

8. Still, it’s unwise to give away women’s clothing.

Not to mention that the colors and styles are different and difficult to figure out. The key obstacle is the size - losing weight is troublesome, but gaining weight also makes her unhappy: Am I that fat?

9． Seize the opportunity to give gifts. There are many opportunities for gift giving. We can only give someone a birthday gift once a year, but there's nothing stopping us from giving "non-birthday" gifts at other times. Non-birthday gifts have long been responsible for strengthening relationships, soothing wounded hearts and repairing broken friendships. important task.

10. Love the gift you sent. If you don't like a gift yourself, you shouldn't let others receive it.

11. Come up with something new. It is the most troublesome thing to give a gift to someone who is not interested in anything or someone who lacks nothing. You might as well use your brain and invite him or her to see a very attractive show.

12. Choose a more practical gift based on the recipient's occupation.

14. Personalized gifts. A homemade gift is one of a kind and it expresses how much you feel.

Question 5: Is there anything else to pay attention to when giving gifts? (What does it mean to give something?) Gifts are less important than friendship. When giving gifts, the specific situation and occasion should be considered. Generally, when attending a private family dinner, you should bring some small gifts for the hostess, such as bouquets, fruits, local products, etc. If you have children, you can give toys and candies. When invited to a wedding, in addition to artistic decorations, you can also give bouquets and practical items. During New Year and Christmas, you can usually give calendars, wine, tea, candies, cigarettes, etc. nbsp;nbsp;nbsp;Grasp the timing and method of giving giftsnbsp;nbsp;Gifts should generally be given in person. But sometimes to attend a wedding, you can also send it in advance. To celebrate holidays and give new year gifts, you can send them to your door or send them by mail. At this time, the gift giver's business card should be attached with the gift, or a handwritten message of congratulations can be placed in an envelope of similar size. The name of the gift recipient should be written on the envelope and affixed to the top of the gift wrapper. Usually, it is not appropriate to give a gift to only one person in a group of people in public. Because the recipient will feel bribed and fooled, and it will make the non-recipient feel left out and looked down upon. nbsp;nbsp;nbsp;It is not advisable to give gifts to people who are close to you in public, so as not to leave the public with the impression that your close relationship is entirely supported by material things. Only special gifts that are light on etiquette but heavy on affection, and gifts that express special emotions, are suitable to be given in public. Because at this time the public has become a witness to your sincere friendship. Such as a special souvenir, etc. nbsp;nbsp;When giving gifts, pay attention to attitude, actions and language expression. Peaceful, friendly, graceful movements and polite language expressions are what the recipient is happy to accept. The thief-like practice of quietly placing gifts under the table or in a corner of the room not only fails to achieve the purpose of gifting, but may even be counterproductive. It is a common custom in our country to always say overly modestly when giving gifts: "A small gift! A small gift!" "It's just a little meaning" or "I'm very sorry..." This approach is best avoided. Of course, it is not appropriate to say in an almost proud tone when giving a gift: "This is a very expensive thing!" When introducing the gift, you should emphasize your goodwill and affection for the recipient, rather than the actual value of the gift. Otherwise, you will fall into the situation of emphasizing gifts and undervaluing justice, or even It will make the other party feel like they are accepting a bribe.

nbsp;nbsp;Giving gifts to people, situations and places is one of the norms of social etiquette. The choice of gifts should also comply with this norm. The selection of gifts should be based on different recipients. Generally speaking, for the poor, affordable is better; for the rich, exquisite is better; for lovers, lovers, lovers, commemorative is better; for friends, interesting is better; for the elderly, practical It is better; for children, it is better to enlighten and novel; for foreign guests, it is better to be unique. nbsp;nbsp;nbsp;For example, there is a common saying in China that "good things come in pairs". Therefore, for any big celebration, it is best to give gifts in pairs and avoid singles. However, Cantonese people are taboo: the even number "4", Because in Cantonese, "4" sounds like "death", which is unlucky. No matter how good it is, although white has the meaning of purity and flawlessness, it is more taboo among Chinese people because in China, white is often the color of great compassion and poverty. Similarly, black is also considered unlucky, the color of disaster, and the color of mourning. Red is a symbol of joy, peace and joy, and is universally loved by people. In addition, Chinese people are often strict about not giving clocks to the elderly, and pears to couples or lovers, because "giving clocks" is the same as "giving away", and "pear" and "li" are homophonic, which is unlucky. Also, for example, you cannot send medicines to healthy people, you cannot send personal items to friends of the opposite sex, etc. Aries [March 21st - April 20th] nbsp;nbsp; An enthusiastic and positive Aries lover has high expectations for himself and is intolerant of ordinary affairs. He likes novel and valuable gifts to satisfy him. curiosity. nbsp;nbsp;Gift list:nbsp;nbsp;A very unique belt, a very special pen, a very elegantly printed scarf, a gift for her, a special pearl brooch, a bottle of newly launched brand names Perfume, a handbag with great style and value, a silk scarf with a unique pattern, a coat or sweater with tasteful texture and design. nbsp;nbsp;Taurus [April 21st - May 21st]nbsp;nbsp;A down-to-earth Taurus lover cannot stand waste and squandering, pays attention to practicality, and likes to receive gifts that can be used immediately Things will not be wasted at all... >>

Question 6: What is the point of giving gifts, and what is the point of returning the same gift? The goal is to send it to the heart of others. Auspicious

Question 7: What’s the point of giving gifts? Is it a boy or a girl?

For girls, it’s easier: pay attention to the colors or cartoons she usually likes, and buy her a doll or something cute that she will usually like.

Boys have more trouble. They should pay attention to practicality. In fact, it is good to give a book or a wallet.

Question 8: What is the point of giving gift money? Look at the stakes of the friendship level at work. If you want to enhance the friendship of colleagues and carry out the work better, then add a little more on the general level

Question 9: What are the considerations for giving gifts during New Year visits? 1. If you go to visit For a laid-off employee who is living in a tight financial situation, if you bring him expensive tobacco and alcohol, it is better to bring him two pots of cooking oil. This is more practical for him.

2. If you go to visit your teacher and bring an elegant calligraphy and painting with you, the teacher will definitely cherish it.

3. If you go to visit your boss, it would be best to bring a bouquet of flowers, a book, or artistic ornaments such as the Four Treasures of the Study.

4. If you go to visit a patient, you can choose to send some camellias, kumquats, rosettes, roses, chrysanthemums, daffodils, lilies and other flowers and nutritional supplements to express your condolences.

5. If you go to visit your mother or elders, in addition to buying some fruits and snacks, bring an extra red envelope. At that time, pay attention to the expression of the old man, he will definitely smile like a flower.

6. As gifts for children, you can choose some children’s books that can increase children’s knowledge and are beneficial to developing their intelligence; or choose some novel toys that can enrich children’s imagination in life.

Question 10: Are there any particularities in giving gifts during the Mid-Autumn Festival? Giving gifts and mooncakes during the Mid-Autumn Festival is of course the first choice for Mid-Autumn Festival. 1. The older generation still pays more attention to this festival. The symbol of this festival is mooncakes. Nowadays, mooncakes come in many styles and flavors.

You can choose mooncakes based on your parents’ tastes, and you can also choose gifts based on your parents’ preferences. 2. You can send some tea, tea sets, tableware, etc. Gifts such as tea sets and tea leaves are very popular during the Mid-Autumn Festival and are good gifts for parents, leaders and customers. 3. Give some imported food, such as red wine and olive oil. Such gifts are grand and tasteful. If you give this gift to a customer or leader, it will make you look good

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