Fengshui in delivery room
However, in the Ming Dynasty, the mainstream social opinion held that it was unlucky for men to have women, and scholars were no exception. Lu Rong discussed the reasons why men can't deliver babies to women in Miscellaneous Notes on Gardens:
Women want to have children, men don't want to deliver them. If he doesn't pay attention to it, then the child can only have half of it (in fact, it is difficult to have it). Why? Because when women are in contact with men, they will be emotional, leading to the leakage of vitality (or energy), and then the uterus will be closed, resulting in only half of life. For example, when animals such as cattle and horses give birth, if the male approaches it, the female will kick it, which is called fetal protection. Because of this, there is no such thing as cows and horses being born only half.
However, people often have too much desire to avoid these things, so the situation of being born half-baked sometimes happens.
In fact, Lu Rong's statement is completely untenable today. When a woman gives birth to a child, the pain is unbearable and unimaginable to ordinary people. Where is the mood to be emotional? This argument is just to create an argument that men are superior to women.
The most difficult thing for a woman to cross in her life is the delivery room, which can be said to be a road before the death of hell. The high degree of pain alone makes most women afraid of having children. Although modern medicine is very developed, amniotic fluid embolism, dystocia and postpartum hemorrhage still threaten the life of pregnant women. Because everyone has the idea of having children, it is natural to get married and have children. However, for women, although the pain of childbirth is unbearable, all kinds of dangers accompany the parturient. There should be only one reason to have children: because I like it, I am willing. Therefore, it is not easy for pregnant women and their families to get pregnant smoothly and bring a little life into this world.
In ancient society, men were forbidden to enter the delivery room. In costume dramas, it is taboo for men to see women having children. Modern society is open-minded, thinking that entering the delivery room is a sign that a man cares for his wife, and it is a very meaningful thing to welcome a new life with his lover.
The picture above is a survey made by a forum about whether men dare to enter the delivery room. It can be seen from the data that more than 8% of men think that they should stay in the delivery room if they love to have children. There are also a few men who dare not enter the delivery room, thinking that the delivery room is too bloody, for fear of psychological impact and affecting their happy life in the future.
Obstetricians and gynecologists suggest that in fact, in the process of maternal delivery, you can't see the place of birth with the birth. The best escort position arranged by the doctor is near the maternal head, which can better hold the maternal hand. When the parturient feels extremely painful and unbearable, your hand will be the best place to release the pain. At the same time, letting you into the delivery room is to cheer up the parturient, calm the tension of the parturient and make the parturient feel more secure. Therefore, when entering the delivery room to accompany the delivery, the focus should be on the parturient, rather than observing how the new life is born.
Companionship is the best care.
Therefore, a man who is afraid to enter the delivery room can safely enter the delivery room to accompany your lover, because at this sacred moment of welcoming new life, your eyes should only be on your lover, because she said, "There is only one reason why I have children: I am willing to have children for you because I like it."