The relationship between Guo Degang and his two wives

January 18, 1973, the fifteenth day of the twelfth lunar month, the year of the rat in Renzi, the day of Jiayin in the Guichou month

It is suitable to offer sacrifices and break down the house

Avoid anything

Everything is appropriate, and there are no taboos

In the obstetrics and gynecology department of a hospital in Tianjin, a boy was born successfully.

Later, he was named Guo Degang. This kid will be an important player in changing the landscape of the cross talk industry in the future.

His father was a policeman and his mother was not in good health, so before Guo Degang was seven years old,

his father often took him on duty, and then in the area under his father's jurisdiction Inside,

there is a small theater called "Red Bridge Club". There are often various performances in the theater,

including opera, drums, cross talk, etc. At that time, Guo Degang was directly immersed in the palace of art.

In such an environment, in Guo Degang's own words, "The love for art is smoked out. It cannot be shown in a day or two, but it lasts forever." I fell in love with him because of his influence."

Guo Degang has been a very honest child since he was a child. He has never been naughty, but he is very stubborn.

Once he decides on something, it is difficult to influence him. ,

So when Guo Degang was 7 years old, he stopped going to school. Although his family was not very optimistic about his choice, they did not object.

So he started to wear a coat and hold a He started his storytelling career with a folding fan.

At the age of 8, he had his first formal contact with learning cross talk.

Three years later, he learned Xihe Dagu from blind artist Wang Tianyu. , and at the same time studied cross talk with artist Chang Baofeng.

At the age of 16, he learned cross talk from Yang Zhigang, then director of the Hongqiao District Cultural Center and writer.

Six years later, at the age of 22, Guo Degang thought he had acquired the ability to "subjugate demons and eliminate demons".

In mid-1995, he began to head towards the capital Beijing,

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In fact, Guo Degang had come to Beijing to challenge twice before this, but both times he returned without success.

The first time was in 1988. I stayed in Beijing for more than a year and was forced to deal with various reasons.

In the end, I bowed my head high to reality.

The second time was in 1994. Guo Degang packed his bags and came to Beijing with confidence to start his career.

He decided to make great plans in Beijing and prepare to start a career of his own. I "made it" by myself,

Who would have thought, just four or five days after arriving in Beijing, I discovered that this was not the case, and after being severely "spanked" by reality,

< p> I found that I was still not prepared enough, so I went home. < /p>

I am under heavy pressure from life, so I am eager for quick success and daydream about coming to Beijing.

“Maybe some major theater or big shot will take a fancy to me and take me under their wing.

, I was able to take advantage of others' opportunities to perform,

Maybe I got involved in a big party, and I became famous in a short time.

I can earn tens of thousands per scene, and everywhere I go there are a group of people holding pens and papers asking me to sign.

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The ideal is very full, but the reality is very skinny,

When he first arrived in Beijing and was unfamiliar with the place, Guo Degang looked for and begged many people,

< p> I wanted people to take me to a performance, but no one took me,

(Although those people later became friends after I became more developed)

For a whole year At that time, Guo Degang did not perform and did not make much money.

He lived alone in Qingta (near Wukesong), with a row of small bungalows by the river.

Because Qingta The tower is close to the subway station. Taking the subway is cheap. In those days, it only cost three or four yuan.

There was only one bed and one chair in the whole house. I had to find one every time I wrote. Maza,

Sitting on the Maza and lying on the chair to write articles

At that time, Guo Degang's greatest happiness was to have a table, so he was satisfied.

Rental houses in Huangzhuang, Tongzhou, and Daxing all have Guo Degang's presence.

When I lived in Daxing, the performance ended late again.

There were no buses on the road. , walked out of Shazikou and started walking back to his home in Daxing.

You can't live on the street,

alone at night, surrounded by cars. The roar passed by,

Looking back, the stars were shining, and the waning moon was hanging high. Guo Degang burst into tears at that time.

When he got home, at four o'clock in the morning, he took off his shoes. , feet full of big blood blisters

I have lived in so many places, the cheapest rent is in Qingtana, 150 yuan a month,

It is so cheap. Guo Degang could not pay the rent many times.

When it was time to collect the rent, the owner of the house banged on the door and cursed while doing so.

Guo Degang could only He sat silently in the room, not because he didn't want to pay, but because he really didn't have any money.

He didn't dare to go out during the day, but he had to eat something.

So he waited until night and went out by himself. I didn't dare to go out through the gate for fear of meeting the landlord.

I could only climb out from a low wall, eat some food, and then climb back out.

This situation was only the beginning. .

During the worst time, Guo Degang just bought some noodles,

boiled them in water, bought some green onions and some sauce, and ate them. p> Why do you still persist when things are so miserable?

Guo Degang’s answer is:

“The more miserable you are, the more at ease your heart becomes.

I just thought that this would be a kind of qualification in the future,

I gritted my teeth and persisted, but I wanted to see what I could do in the future.

The wind and water are turning, and the east wind always blows. North, the north wind also turns south.

The tiles still have their day to turn over, let alone me, Guo Degang. ”

In 1996, Guo Degang and several of his friends who also loved cross talk formed a team together and named it the Beijing Cross Talk Conference (later renamed Deyun Society).

Telling cross talk to the audience in a small theater,

Although they have the beginning of realizing their life goals,

But the blow they received is far higher than they imagined. .

At that time, Beijingers were no longer used to going to the theater to listen to cross talk,

so every few cross talk shows sold a few tickets.

I had to lose thousands of dollars every month.

On the worst day, there was only one spectator in the audience.

When the show started, the first old man to appear was named Xing Wenzhao. , it’s about stand-up comedy,

There was one person on the stage, and one person off the stage,

During the performance, the phone of the person off the stage rang,

< p> The man on the stage stopped and waited.

Because the theater is losing money, Guo Degang has to continue to make money elsewhere.

To make up for the losses in the small theater, under such circumstances,

Guo Degang participated in an event called "Celebrity Legend",

Guo Degang challenged 48 hours of life alone in a shopping mall window, eating, drinking, sleeping and eating inside,

There is no obstruction, only a small curtain in the corner to serve as a privacy space.

"Like a monkey, being played by passers-by."

I can only eat instant noodles for every meal. I have to perform my talents for passers-by during the day, and I will be teased by curious people when I sleep at night. After being beaten to wake up,

he collapsed completely at the 36th hour.

After his mood stabilized, he chose to continue.

Guo Degang had a rough life, but he was helped by two noble "beauties".

The first beauty was his first wife, Hu Zhonghui,

She is an amateur actor. She met Guo Degang for the first time when she participated in the cross talk class held by Tianjin Hongqiao Cultural Center.

Two handsome men and beautiful women who were in love for the first time fell in love at first sight when they met.

After only half a year of acquaintance, they entered into marriage hand in hand in sweet love.

In the future life, no matter how beautiful the love is, it will be consumed by the daily necessities of life until there is not much left.

After the relationship became close, the shortcomings of both parties were even more exposed.

Especially after the birth of Guo Degang’s eldest son Guo Qilin in 1996,

The pressure of raising children was all over. All fell on Hu Zhonghui.

In 1995, Guo Degang went to Beijing for the third time (the difficulty of his life was introduced in the previous article).

In 1996, Guo Qilin was born, and his life was peaceful. The double pressure of money made the marriage of Guo Degang and Hu Zhonghui on thin ice.

They spent four years in constant quarrels. In 2000, when Guo Qilin was 4 years old,

Hu Zhonghui He and Guo Degang filed for divorce. Hu Zhonghui went to Japan, and his son was taken care of by Guo Degang's parents.

In Guo Degang’s early difficult years, it was Hu Zhonghui who accompanied him.

Although he did not accompany him all the way, we can know from Guo Degang’s life experience in those years ,

It is really difficult. Hu Zhonghui still has to take care of her children, and Guo Degang is focused on her career.

The pressure of life makes her unable to see the future, and she has to prepare for her own future. Think about life.

I believe that the final decision is the most helpless.

Otherwise, who would be willing to abandon their husband and children and go to Japan to make a living?

Guo Degang’s second noble beauty is his second wife, Wang Hui.

Wang Hui was born in a businessman family in 1976. He studied Jingyun Dagu,

He studied under famous masters such as Li Shusheng, and received guidance from Luo Yusheng. Before he was 20 years old, he was already famous in the Tianjin music scene.

Her works are all euphemistic, full-bodied and charming.

Wang Hui and Guo Degang met at a performance in Baoding, Hebei.

Guo Degang took the initiative to leave Wang Hui’s contact information,

and said, " We will keep in touch in the future, perform performances and so on."

Then I took the initiative to invite him to have a meal at noon.

In the days that followed, the relationship between the two became more and more intense.

Especially before Wang Hui goes to perform in Taiwan, she needs to go through various formalities, and Guo Degang is always there to accompany her.

Running around the stage, running here, running there, etc.

After Wang Hui arrived in Taiwan, the two of them kept calling.

After the show was over and everyone else went to play, Wang Hui kept calling Guo Degang.

It was through constant contact that the two had a deeper understanding of each other.

When Guo Degang confessed his love, he completed his pursuit with a few pieces of chocolate.

(It seems that true love does not require the blessing of money.)

Before getting married, it was the time when Guo Degang was at his most depressed.

At that time, Deyun The club kept losing money, no one came to watch the show, and they spent thousands of dollars every month.

It was under such circumstances that Wang Hui sold the Xiali car her father had just bought for her.

Sold it for 12,000 yuan, and then gave all the money to Guo Degang for emergency purposes

to maintain his Deyunshe Theater.

Until 2003, when Guo Degang was at his lowest point, Wang Hui and Guo Degang got married.

After the two got married, Wang Hui resolutely gave up her drum singing career. ,

Dedicate yourself wholeheartedly to the management of Deyun Club.

So the two formed a virtuous cycle,

Guo Degang was in charge of the outside, responsible for charging into the battle, and Wang Hui was in charge of the Deyun Club, so Deyun Club got better day by day.

Until now, Deyun Society has been an unshakable presence in the cross talk world.

Looking at the cross talk world, there are only a few opponents who can match it.

Today, Guo Degang is 48 years old.

Although he has already passed his forties,

he is close to knowing his destiny.

But we can still see that there is still that youthful spirit in him

Mr. Hou Yaowen once said: He has had a bumpy journey, and he is bound to hate evil as much as hatred.

CCTV comments: A milestone in Chinese crosstalk today.

After getting to know him, a couplet written by Yongzheng came to mind:

"You have no regrets about heaven and earth, and praise and criticism have their own spring and autumn."

A person who has emerged from suffering will surely have a brilliant life.

It is bright and beautiful in front of people, but who can see the dust on the road?

This article describes one ten thousandth of Guo Degang's first half of life.

The suffering experience, the joys and sorrows of others, the crowds from his peers, and the hardship of survival are far more than these.

Of course, his two beautiful wives are not the only noble people in his life.

For example, Mr. Hou Baolin, the master of cross talk, and the teachers who taught him Dagu opera.

When Guo Degang performed on stage for the first time, the audience silently encouraged him,

and so on. . . . .

The hardships and opportunities in life have made Guo Degang what he is now,

He has also become a fierce player in the Chinese cross talk circle.