For these four zodiac men, the better you treat them, the less you will cherish them. Do you know which zodiac signs they are?
The four zodiac animals are Rooster, Dragon, Monkey and Tiger. I won’t analyze the characteristics of these four zodiac men for you. Now I want to focus on why the better you treat boys, the less they cherish them. Why is it that the better a woman treats a man, the less he will cherish her?
I think that men with the following characteristics are more likely to not cherish a good woman. ① A man who has incorrect views and bad habits, ② a man who has no sense of responsibility, no independent opinion and a bottom line in doing things, ③ a self-righteous and stupid man, ④ a lazy and unmotivated man.
Men with the above characteristics are like big boys who are overly selfish. They feel good about themselves even though they are too self-centered. They cannot be aggrieved or unhappy. They cannot see clearly their own strengths and weaknesses, nor can they see their own strengths and weaknesses. He is clear about all kinds of things in the world. He does not consider the consequences and the feelings of others. He often does things that make his relatives and enemies happy. He has no wisdom and no pursuits and goals. He lives a mediocre life just for his own happiness. He feels that no one cares about him. All the good things are owed to him, enjoy the love or mercy of others with peace of mind, and live a mediocre life.
No matter what kind of man he is, there is the possibility of change. Women and their families should follow the guidance and let men know that they must be responsible for their families, so that their families will have a sense of security and live a happy life. The key lies in the man himself. If he can't change, give up decisively. I think the main problem is that there is a problem with emotional harmony
A woman gives a man too much love, which exceeds what the other person gives to her. Just like a man who loves to eat dumplings, you make dumplings for him every day. , even though you work very hard and rack your brains to come up with new tricks every day, the other party is still tired of it. At this time, just starve him for a few meals. Or, he doesn't like dumplings at all, but prefers Western food or noodles. You must understand his true needs, know yourself and the enemy, and then you can win every battle.
The "good" mentioned here is normal and the feeling of mutual joy, rather than the humble and undignified contribution of one party. No matter how beautiful music they create, two musicians of different levels cannot play a harmonious movement.
Sometimes, when it’s time for a woman to let go, she must know how to let go. If a man loves you, he will not be willing to let you work so hard for him, let alone do things that make you sad. He will also repay your love in his own way. This kind of unresponsive love, stopping the loss in time and starting over is also a wise choice on the road to marriage. There are two types of attitudes towards men, one is a boyfriend and the other is a husband
You should always maintain an appropriate distance when treating your boyfriend, you should always reduce the enthusiasm for pursuing your boyfriend, and treat your boyfriend again Maintain a sense of mystery. The sense of mystery will give the other person an unknown personal answer, allowing him to always have a sense of freshness towards you, in order to explore your inner world, miss you every day, but not necessarily see you every day.
Two people are inseparable all day long. Sometimes the flow of rich love words will stop, and the endless caress will make you feel numb. In ancient times, there was a saying that a short farewell is better than a newlywed. This is very true. It stands to reason that sometimes a little distance between lovers can produce beautiful feelings. Sometimes I leave you just to feel the feeling of missing you. Of course, this distance cannot be too far and should be appropriate.
Take a warm attitude towards your husband. Don’t use cold words, cold eyes, cold food and cold bed to treat your husband. If your kindness is separated from these four elements, it will not be appreciated. Within the tolerance range, the more you get, the less valuable it is
When people are hungry, they will definitely feel that steamed buns are very precious, and one steamed bun will comfort them for a lifetime. After he ate one steamed bun, he no longer felt that the second steamed bun was so precious. When he eats the second steamed bun and evaluates the third steamed bun, his evaluation will definitely drop again. This is the diminishing marginal effect, which is used to explain emotional problems. That is, when you pay more to obtain other people's affection, the satisfaction brought by the new increase will be lower. This is why the better you treat others, the less grateful and reciprocal they are. Tolerance reaches the limit and has negative effects
People usually think that there is an upper limit to the negative things that people can tolerate, but there is no upper limit to the positive things. In fact, a lot of common sense in life tells us that people also have upper limits for positive things. For example, extreme happiness produces sadness, which is the negative effect of being too happy. Food is positive, but when you are full, even the most delicious food will make you unable to eat it, and eating more food will have negative effects.
When a woman is too good to a man and exceeds his tolerance limit, the man will not be able to bear it, will feel that it is a burden, and will reject and escape, which is what you said. Cherish the question.