What are the stories of high EQ in Guo Ziyi?

There is a poem "Notes on Good Songs" in the novel A Dream of Red Mansions. At the beginning of the poem, it reads: "A humble room was empty, and the bed was full in those years." This is the water board of the minister's plaything. "Full bed" is a famous folk story, and people regard "full bed" as a symbol of wealth. According to legend, Guo Ziyi, the king of Fenyang in the Tang Dynasty, celebrated his 60th birthday when seven sons and eight husbands, who were officials in the DPRK, came home from work. 15 water boards covered the big bed. Guo Ziyi at this time, children and grandchildren, guests like a cloud, the door is empty. The colorful Guo Ziyi croquet bottles collected by the Metropolitan Museum of the United States can buy several sets of quadrangles in Houhai.

Guo Ziyi is the only Five Blessingg celebrity in the history of China. First of all, he is an effective minister in governing the world. After pacifying the Anshi Rebellion, he continued to live in the Tang Dynasty. Second, high emotional intelligence, no self-respect; Generally, 99% of the founding generals with military power were cooked by the emperor because of suspicion. The third is that children are excellent and filial, and * * * has seven sons and eight daughters, all of whom are auspicious. Its life span is four years. In the Tang dynasty, people's living standards and medical technology were not high. Moreover, Guo Ziyi is a soldier, living in the wild all the year round, fighting the enemy. His body was naturally injured, but Guo Ziyi lived to be 84 years old and enjoyed all the glory and wealth in his life. Degang Guo, who likes reading history, named his youngest son Guo Fenyun, suggesting that his son's fate can be as indulgent as Guo Ziyi, the king of Fenyang.

After pacifying the Anshi Rebellion, Guo Ziyi had a high prestige, and he could stand on his own feet as king, and he could also learn from Cao Cao's example of "relying on the emperor to make princes". However, Guo Ziyi still made Prince Li emperor. In order to stabilize his position, Qin Shihuang had a political marriage with the Guo family and married his daughter Princess Shengping to his seventh son Guo Wen. According to legend, on Guo Ziyi's birthday, the only daughter-in-law in the family, Princess Shengping, didn't arrive. After drinking Ai Guo, he angrily hit the princess and said, "Without my dad, your dad is nothing!" " The princess ran to the emperor and cried. The emperor smiled and said, "Ai Guo is a real child and is telling the truth." Guo Ziyi knows that "domestic violence princess" is a felony. In order to save the situation, he tied Guo Wen to the palace and asked the emperor for mercy. The emperor said that there was no one-night feud between husband and wife, so he didn't blame the Guo family.

People with high emotional intelligence have super ability to control their emotions. Guo Ziyi's murder outside was calculated by the workplace villain eunuch Yu Chaoen. Yu Chaoen is jealous of Guo Ziyi's popularity. In order to destroy the feng shui of the Guo family, he ordered the excavation of the ancestral grave. Guo Ziyi knew that he was still defending the enemy at the frontier fortress, and he didn't bother Yu Chaoen after moving troops back to the DPRK. This made Yu Chaoen suspicious, so he invited Guo Ziyi home for dinner and gave a banquet. When Guo Ziyi actually arrived, Yu Chaoen asked, "Why are you here alone?" Guo Ziyi said, "Father Fish is the benefactor of the old lady. This war is so smooth, thanks to your kind words in front of the emperor. " Yu Chaoen said with emotion: "King Fenyang's mind is really broad." I fear Guo Ziyi.

In his later years, in order to show that he was not rebellious, Guo Ziyi opened the door of his mansion so that people in the past could see what he was doing. Guo Ziyi combed his wife's daughter's hair and braided her hair in the yard, without any official airs. One day, the servant reported: Qilu asks for an audience. Guo Ziyi's face changed greatly. He ordered everyone to step down and not show up, or he would be killed. The wife and concubine inexplicably said, "Qilu is just a small official. Why are you so afraid of him? " Guo Ziyi said, "Qilu is as ugly as a ghost, and you will have an expression of disgust when you see him. He is narrow-minded, and if he is developed, he will harm you. " After Guo Ziyi's death, Qilu became prime minister, which caused great harm to Zhongliang, but Guo Ziyi's family escaped.

Guo Ziyi assisted san huang all his life and was closely related to the little emperor, showing no merit. He has been in his hands for more than forty years. The key is that Guo Ziyi is still a military commander with little culture, so he can make a career without waves. It can be said that Guo Ziyi's workplace wisdom is a real teaching material for modern people to learn.

Guo Ziyi: Ding You, Ji You, Wu Yin, Wu Wu, Universiade: Wu Shen, Ding Wei, Wu Bing, Yi Si, Chen Jia

The eight characters hurt the official's personality, and the injured official confided that he was outgoing and lively, and liked to run around, so Guo Ziyi marched and fought all the year round. The injured official is famous all over the world. Guo Ziyi, who works in a semi-closed fire station in Yin Wu, is fastidious in doing things, good at thinking of others, lucky all the way, rich in noble friends, and fastidious in the workplace. Women and children's palace is the official seal, and their children have great personal achievements and rich life in their later years.