A woman with a good face (never underestimate a woman with a good face)

People often say that a woman’s face represents her feng shui.

It not only includes a woman’s appearance, but also shows her temperament and past.

For a woman with a good appearance, others are more willing to contact her and help her. Almost everything goes smoothly for such a person;

For a woman with a bad appearance, no one is willing to stop for her. Most of these people have troubles and are repeatedly frustrated.

As Zhang Jiajia wrote in "Passing Through Your World": "Your appearance determines the attitude of others towards you, the attitude of others towards you determines your character, and your character determines The road of life. ”

A woman’s appearance affects her life.

A woman’s face hides her past

Writer Zhou Guoping once said:

“Over a long period of time, a person’s usual mental state and The behavior is always accompanied by expressions that he is not aware of. After countless repetitions, these expressions will be engraved on his face and even leave special wrinkles. ”

But if you observe carefully, it is not difficult to find that there is one similarity behind hundreds of millions of faces -

There is a difference in the life a woman chooses. What kind of face.

Saw a story online.

Junnan is a girl in her twenties who was born in a remote rural area in Hunan.

A few years ago, she was admitted to a university in Hainan with excellent results.

The moment she learned that her scores were far beyond the admission score, she felt no joy in her heart.

Because in their village, most girls choose to find a job, get married, have children, and spend the rest of their lives after graduating from high school or even junior high school.

Therefore, she faced a difficult choice, to become an "outlier" and go out to study, or to stay at home like everyone else.

That day, Xiao Zihan came to chat with her after dinner.

When she talked about her worries about whether to continue studying, Zihan said to her in a joking tone:

"What do you have to hesitate about? Reading is good." What’s so good, you see, I don’t have to do homework, and I can still work and make money.”

After listening, Junnan looked at the girl in front of her who was about the same age as her and had dropped out of junior high school. She was dressed in fancy clothes and her face was bright. Wearing heavy make-up and hair dyed in various colors.

She didn’t know why, but she felt that if she didn’t study, her future life would be terrible.

At that moment, she made up her mind to study.

Two months later, Junnan went to Hainan to go to school, moving from a remote rural village to a prosperous city.

During school, in addition to studying hard, she spent the rest of her time doing part-time jobs. She rarely went home even on holidays and always stayed in the local area to work to earn her own living expenses.

Every time she goes home, the most common thing she hears from her neighbors is:

"Big cities are just different from our small rural areas. Look at Junnan staying outside." She was getting fairer and prettier."

While she was away at school, Zihan got hastily married to a carpenter. Not long after, the two of them broke up because her husband cheated on her. There were quarrels and quarrels, and eventually they got divorced and she lived with a daughter by herself.

The blow of marriage and the pressure of life have made Zihan a lot of vicissitudes. As a girl in her twenties, her face is dull and her energy is low.

After reading it, I couldn’t help but sigh. Two girls of the same age have undergone tremendous changes in just three or four years. One’s appearance is getting better and better, while the other’s condition is gradually getting worse.

The reason is inseparable from each other's choices.

One is positive and studies hard; the other is self-destructive and confused.

Just like there is a saying: "A person's heart will appear on his face due to the influence of the external environment."

A positive life will make women happy because of their continuous progress in life. Feeling bright and refreshed.

A decadent life will make women depressed and depressed due to bad environment.

A woman's face is a mirror, it clearly shows the kind of life you have chosen.

Reading is the best cosmetic for women

Writer Tian Wei wrote in "Half Acre of Flower Field":

"Not reading will make us look disgusting. , but people are usually unaware of this face, thinking that by applying foundation and eye shadow, they can be as beautiful as flowers."

You must know that no matter how expensive rouge or gouache can fill up a woman's lack of connotation. The vacancy is just a temporary whitewash.

A truly beautiful woman is one who exudes charm from the inside out with her cultivation and temperament as her foundation.

The only source of cultivation and temperament is reading.

Lin Qingxuan told a story in the book "The Makeup of Life".

Once, he chatted with a well-known makeup artist in the industry.

He asked:

"You have studied makeup for so many years. What kind of person is good at makeup? What is the highest level of makeup?"

This book She thought that the other party would explain some superb makeup techniques to her in detail.

Who would have thought that the makeup artist would smile and tell him that the highest state of makeup is no makeup.

After hearing this answer, Lin Qingxuan was stunned.

Then, before he could ask any questions, the makeup artist explained:

The makeup on the face is actually just the last layer, and it can change very little.

A deeper layer of makeup should be about changing one’s physique. It is about changing a person’s lifestyle, including getting enough sleep, paying attention to exercise and nutritional balance, etc.

The most advanced makeup is to change your temperament, read more, think more, enrich and arm yourself with knowledge, such a person will not be any ugly even without makeup.

In fact, makeup is not limited to simple application of makeup and powder.

Third-rate makeup is makeup for the face, while more advanced makeup is makeup for the spirit and life.

Just as Lin Qingxuan later lamented:

"All appearances in this world are not independent. They must have their profound inner meaning. So, changing the appearance The best way is not to work on the appearance, but to reform from the inside. ”

Reading is one of the internal reforms.

Through the accumulation of knowledge, a woman who loves reading will have broader knowledge and more mature thinking, and will become more steady and calm in dealing with things. Her whole body will exude a kind of "poetry in belly" The charm of "bookishness comes from China".

This kind of charm will not only be hidden in her temperament, engraved in her bones, but also externalized in her appearance, becoming a nourishment that no expensive cosmetics can surpass. Taste. < /p>

In fact, they are still latent, in their temperament, conversation, and boundless mind. Of course, they may also be revealed in life and writing. ”

Reading can make women feel better. Rich knowledge serves as a springboard to cross the age gap and retain everlasting charm.

Reading is the best and most expensive cosmetic for a woman.

A woman’s appearance is determined by her heart, and her destiny is determined by herself.

A woman’s appearance includes her physical appearance and spiritual appearance.

Physical appearance is determined by innate genes and is given by parents; mental appearance is determined by personal temperament and charm and is created by oneself.

Everything inside must be reflected outside, and this is exactly the truth.

In 1897, a baby girl was born to a family in Ruian County.

At that time, secular concepts were extremely strong, and the idea that "a woman's lack of talent is a virtue" prevailed. The destiny of most women in their lives was to stay at home to support their husbands and raise children.

But she is different. She has loved reading since she was a child.

So she told her grandmother what she thought.

When her grandmother learned about it, she severely criticized her and told her that reading was a man's business and that women did not need to read.

Even so, it did not dampen her determination to study.

She began to secretly follow her brothers to the school to "audit", privately borrowed their brothers' books, and slowly studied on her own.

Later, because she moved out with her father and left the care of her grandmother, her father saw that his daughter was so diligent and studious, and reluctantly agreed to send her to primary school.

Who would have thought that after finally fighting for the opportunity, she would be asked by her family to return to her hometown just six months later.

Just like that, she turned back into the woman who was not allowed to study.

At this time, she had grown up. Faced with her grandmother's "imprisonment", she cried and made trouble and ran away from home for a time.

He even almost committed suicide in anger.

Seeing this situation, her grandmother had no choice but to agree to her request to study.

In 1915, she successfully entered the Women's Normal College to study, and also received guidance from famous figures such as Hu Shi, Li Dazhao, and Chen Hengzhe.

She is Su Xuelin, a beautiful writer and one of the top ten talented women in the Republic of China.

Undoubtedly, Su Xuelin completed the makeup of her life through her unwavering belief in studying and her determination to risk death.

She created many immortal works for us and became a very charming woman praised by the world.

People often say that a woman’s appearance is determined by her parents before the age of thirty; after the age of thirty, it is decided by herself.

As long as you are determined to change your heart, the environment, magnetic field, and energy around you will change accordingly, and your appearance will naturally become better.

Just as the philosopher Schopenhauer once said:

"A person's appearance is a picture that expresses his heart, and his appearance expresses and reveals a person's overall personality."

So, to a certain extent, a woman's appearance is her own inner vision.

As long as you have the determination to change your destiny, your appearance will be shaped by yourself.

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British writer Somerset Maugham once said: "There are no ugly women in the world, only women who don't know how to make themselves look beautiful."

I deeply agree. A woman's appearance is never static. No matter how beautiful her appearance is, it can't withstand the ravages of the world, and no matter how expensive the rouge is, it can't cover up the tribulations of time.

Only by starting from the inside, loving reading, completing a deeper spiritual transformation, and putting on the makeup of life can you have the indestructible beauty of all things.

Believe that no matter what your current situation is, your destiny will change quietly the moment you pick up the book.

Your appearance will gradually improve with every book you read.