That one said, "Why don't you die!" My mother loves me.
217.8.9? Wednesday? The weather? Sunny
When it comes to the word mother, many people will put all the beautiful words in the world on her: caring, ingenious, beautiful and capable, hard-working, getting up early and greedy for the dark, wearing a star Dai Yue, amiable, painstaking and painstaking. There is a deep affection for the calf, an inch of grass is blooming, and a mother's love is like the sky ... There is also a poor inherit the wind, who often uses the word "father" although he has one more word.
Seeing the images of mothers depicted in many books and TV plays makes me deeply suspect that I may have a fake mother.
other people's mothers always gently touch her children's heads with a loving face.
My mother often throws a small bamboo stick at me, so hurry home for dinner!
if someone else's mother is angered by her children, one turns around and cries silently.
My mother will yell at me, "Why don't you die?"
Other people's mothers are always worried about their children's lack of food and clothing.
My mother is worried, too, except for my brother. During that time, she called me every day and cried, telling me that she missed her brother and worried that it was not good for him, and that was not good either. I can only comfort her, it doesn't matter. In fact, he has grown up. It never occurred to her that she had another child who was alone and had no relatives around.
My mother quarreled with others, and then said that I dare to take out the most precious person in our family and swear, my family C (my brother's name), do you dare?
later, when she won the argument, she came to show off.
I nodded to show that I knew, but she still felt uncomfortable. I want to emphasize it again. I dare swear by our most precious A C that she is guilty of not taking their baby.
although I am young, I will also think, why is only A C the most precious child of yours? I don't mind being sworn by you either.
I remember four Apple brothers, three and one for me.
I remember when I was a child, I had to fill the family's meals no matter how many bowls I ate.
I also remember that time when she slapped me twice because I didn't give my brother toys.
growing up, I feel that there are really not many warm moments from her, unless I am sick. Speaking of which, when I was young, I liked getting sick best. The mother at that time was more like the mother in the book.
when you grow up, the chances of being beaten and scolded are reduced.
the subsequent dispute was about my life.
There is a boy, and adults think that he is very good and practical, and he is very kind to me.
I tried to accept it, and finally got along, but I still didn't love it, so I said, let's separate.
My mother has been quarreling with me ever since.
Apart from repeating that I probably won't get married if I don't get married this time, the most impressive sentence is that she yelled at me: You are nothing but good-looking.
to tell the truth, if this sentence is said by an outsider, I can barely take it as a compliment, but it is your mother who said this sentence, and this kind of shock is different.
so why do people say that the people who can break your heart are the people you care about? Because they have the most geographical advantage.
That's why I have never been so fond of others.
? To like someone is to put a knife in his hand and point it at his heart, but it's up to him to stab or not.
You can't change your parents and your family, so it's the only way.
I didn't mean to say how bad my mother was to me when I said so much. On the contrary, the more I grew up, the more I understood.
She brought up my brother and me almost alone. At that time, my father could see me almost every few months.
She has to work and take care of two children and an old man at home.
all the energy is spent on living hard, and there is still so much tenderness to wait for.
fortunately, my brother has not been treated with much tenderness by his mother.
This may be the case in our family. We never say anything too emotional, and we never show special intimacy.
let's not say kiss on the cheek and hug ... even mom loves you ...
Actually, if my mom wants to say it now, I'm really at a loss. Fortunately, she won't say it.
we can't say the same thing.
My younger brother often envies our cousin, because I often see my aunt holding my cousin's face and saying my baby son.
I am very gratified by my brother's envy. At least in this respect, I think my mother is very fair.
I was told by adults that I could cry very much when I was still holding it in my hand, and I kept crying with my eyes closed. My mother took me, and my hair fell off one by one. However, she didn't say hit me, just scold me without a word.
When I was a child, I went to a distant aunt's house for a wedding banquet and walked along the mountain road. She carried me away alone, still wearing high heels.
when I was a child, my brother and I actually fought, and most of my mothers still scolded my brother.
I was bullied by outsiders, so she dragged me to get justice for me. (These bullying include being stopped from going home by my neighbor's little sister with a bamboo pole, being buried by an older child, leaving a head outside, and being scratched by another little sister who is a little fierce ...)
In retrospect, my childhood was really sad.
even my aunt often scolds me, and she will take me back.
to be honest, it's really safe, isn't it?
when she grew up, she also apologized to me, because some of her emotions were out of control, causing harm to her, and so on. (Although it is rare, because she is a person with strong self-esteem, you are wrong, she is wrong or you are wrong, and she kept silent after giving evidence, but it doesn't mean that she admitted her mistake)
Of course, she is still worried that I will die alone. Of course, every time this topic is discussed, we are relatively silent.
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Having said so much, what I really want to say is that mothers are ordinary people, so it is normal for them to be biased on some issues.
Since she is an ordinary person, she will have her own joys and sorrows.
some of her emotions can't be vented on outsiders, but only on relatives.
So, don't just remember some bad things about her.
anyway, she loves you, maybe not the most.
so what? She is your mother.
Of course, there has always been a saying that I actually don't agree with. How is it possible to be a "parent who has everything in the world"? As long as people are sure, there will be "no", and "no" will not be "no" just because there is a parent's name.
Will there be fewer cases where many children are injured or even killed because of parents' negligence?
However, few people blame their parents. Why? Because they are already very sad. How can they bear it? How can they bear it? What's the use of being sad and what can they save?
So, parents are parents, "yes" means "yes" and "no" means "no" ... Don't connect them.
Parents are human beings, and they make mistakes, and then they will hurt you, but this injury is in the name of love.