Full-text translation of filial piety
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At home, when parents call us, they should answer as soon as they hear it, and don't answer slowly. Parents want us to do something, so we should act quickly, and don't delay or be too lazy to do it. When parents want us to learn well and teach us, we must be respectful and not casual, and we must listen to our hearts. If our parents blame us for our mistakes, we should obey and bear the mistakes. We should not disobey them and make them sad.
As children, we should pay attention to whether parents wear warm clothes and live in warm places in winter. In summer, consider whether parents feel cool. Get up every morning, be sure to visit your parents and ask if you are well; When you come back in the evening, you must also greet your parents. When you go out, tell your parents where you want to go. When you get home, you must meet your parents to make them feel at ease. There is a certain order in daily life, and we don't change what we do casually.
Although things are small, don't make decisions without telling your parents. If you act arbitrarily, it will be detrimental to your duties as a child. Although things are small, don't hide them secretly behind your parents' backs. Parents must be very sad when they know about them.
parents should try their best to prepare everything they like, and children should carefully exclude everything they dislike. If our body is hurt, it will definitely bring sorrow to our parents. If our character is missing, it will make our parents feel humiliated and lose face.
It is very natural that parents love their children and children can be filial to their parents. What is the difficulty of such filial piety? If parents hate us, but they can still be filial, then it is commendable. Most people always think that children have the obligation to be filial only after parents have paid something to their children. What is the difference between this and bargaining in the vegetable market?
When parents are at fault, their children must be remonstrated and corrected, but when remonstrated, they must never keep a straight face, keep an expression, be gentle and cheerful, and speak softly and peacefully. If parents don't accept our advice, they should wait until their parents are happy. If parents still stubbornly refuse to listen, people with filial piety can't bear to let their parents fall into injustice, and even cry aloud to beg their parents to mend their ways. Even if they are scolded by their parents, they don't complain. < P > When their parents have diseases, children must try the boiled soup first, whether it is too cold or too hot. No matter day or night, you should serve your parents, and you should not leave them too far at will. When your parents are seriously ill, they need someone to take care of them most, especially their children who can accompany you and take care of their daily lives, which is the most warm and satisfying thing for parents. When our parents are seriously ill at the end of their lives, can we, as children, give up this opportunity because we are busy with our careers or have no time?
When parents die unfortunately, they must be in mourning for three years. During the mourning period, they often cry because they miss their parents, and the place where they live has become simple, and they have given up drinking and eating meat. Handling parents' funerals should be in accordance with etiquette, not sloppy, and be sincere when offering sacrifices. Treat your dead parents with the same respect as you treated your parents before they died.
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Parents should not delay their parents' orders and do not be lazy. Parents should respect their parents' responsibilities and accept them.
It's warm in winter, warm in summer, and faint in the morning, so they will decide that they will sue them and live in their daily lives.
Although things are small, don't be good at doing things, but they will lose money. Although small, don't hide things, they will hurt their hearts.
Parents should do their best. Why is it difficult to love my filial piety and hate my filial piety? Fang Xian's relatives had remonstrated to make my color softer and my voice softer.
If remonstrated, I would cry. If there is no complaint, my relatives would have a medicine. Try staying in bed day and night first.
After three years of mourning, I will always grieve, change my place of residence into wine and meat, and do my best to honor the deceased.
Word definition: Filial piety is a Chinese vocabulary, pronounced as rù zé xiào. It means: people who are brothers and sons should be filial to their parents when they come home.
Confucius said, "Disciple, when you enter, you are filial, when you leave, you are sincere and trustworthy, and you love people all the time, but you are kind. If you have spare capacity, you will learn literature. " ?
Confucius said: "People who are brothers and sons should be filial to their parents when they go home, and obey their brothers when they go out. They should always be cautious and trustworthy, love the public, and be close to benevolent people. After all the above points are done, if you have spare capacity, you can study the six arts. "
Commentary:
Filial piety is the foundation of China culture. As the ancients said, "Filial piety comes first in all the virtues". If a person can be filial, he will have a kind and kind heart. With this kind heart, many people can benefit.
why do you want to do this? Confucius said: "Children are born for three years before they leave their parents' arms and can eat by themselves, so that parents can breathe a little sigh of relief. As children, why can't we always miss our parents and love them during the three-year mourning period?" In life, our parents are closest to us and give us the most kindness. We should study the etiquette of serving our parents hard, regard filial piety as a big undertaking, and manage it with heart, so as to stand between heaven and earth. Filial piety does not necessarily make our family rich or have a garden villa to live in, but filial piety can establish a natural and harmonious order and let us live in a peaceful and enjoyable environment. Home, if it is a person's fortress, filial piety is the cornerstone under the fortress. One more filial piety, one more guarantee for the family. Let's use filial piety to make the family an impregnable fortress.
These rules in Disciple Rules seem ordinary, but if we seriously implement them, it will bring joy to our parents. It's not something sexual that can be compared. Now we can cultivate such good manners at home, and we will naturally have unexpected gains in the future.
Appreciation of works:
Nothing is more enjoyable than reading, and nothing is more important than teaching children.
The book Disciple's Rules is a standard of life for schoolchildren, and it was compiled according to the teachings of Confucius, the most holy teacher.
First of all, we should honor our parents and love our brothers and sisters in our daily life. Secondly, we should be cautious and keep our word in all our words and deeds. When dealing with the public, we should be equal and kind, and we should always be close to people with benevolence and learn from them. These things are the foundation of learning and must be done. If you have done it, you should study hard six arts, such as ceremony, music, shooting, imperial art, calligraphy and art, all kinds of classics and other useful knowledge.
China's top ten filial sons in ancient times:
1 Xiaogan Dongtianshun
The legendary ancient emperor, one of the five emperors, surnamed Yao, was named Zhong Hua, nicknamed Yu, and was called Yu Shun in history. According to legend, his father, Gu Sou, his stepmother and half-brother tried to kill him many times: Shun set fire to the barn when he repaired the barn roof, and Shun jumped off with two hats to escape; When Shun dug a well, Gu Sou and Xiang Ke went down to fill the well, and Shun dug a tunnel to escape. After the event, Shun was not jealous, but still submissive to his father and loving to his younger brother. His filial piety touched the Emperor of Heaven. Shun cultivates in Lishan, the elephant cultivates the land for him and the bird hoes the grass for him. Emperor Yao heard that Shun was very filial and had the ability to handle political affairs, and married his two daughters, E Huang and Nv Ying. After years of observation and test, Shun was chosen as his successor. After Shun ascended the throne, he went to see his father, still respectfully, and made him a vassal.
2 Liu Heng, a Chinese emperor who personally tasted the decoction
The third son of Emperor Gaozu was born to the Queen Mother Bo. Eight years after high school (the first 18) is the throne. In the name of benevolence and filial piety, he is well-known in the world and never slackens in serving his mother. His mother was ill for three years, and he was often out of sight and undressed; He didn't feel relieved to let his mother take the soup until he tasted it himself. He reigned for 24 years, emphasizing the rule of virtue, promoting etiquette, and paying attention to the development of agriculture, which made the western Han society stable, the population prosperous, and the economy restored and developed. His reign with Emperor Han Jingdi was known as "the rule of culture and scenery."
3 "Bite" refers to Zi Yu, a distressed Zeng Shen, a native of Lu in the Spring and Autumn Period, a favorite pupil of Confucius, who was known as "Ceng Zi" in the world and was famous for his filial piety. When I was a teenager, my family was poor and I often went to the mountains to get firewood. One day, when a guest came to the house, my mother was at a loss and bit her finger with her teeth. Zeng Shen suddenly felt distressed. Knowing that his mother was calling him, he quickly returned home with firewood on his back and knelt down to ask why. Mother said, "A guest suddenly arrived, so I bit my finger and hoped you would come back." Zeng Shen then received the guests and treated them with courtesy. Zeng Shen, who is knowledgeable, once put forward the cultivation method of "I will save my body in three days" (The Analects of Confucius and Learning). According to legend, his works include Confucian classics such as Da Xue and Xiao Jing, and later Confucianism respected him as "Zongsheng".
4 Baili Mi Zhongyou
Zizi Road and Jilu, born in the State of Lu in the Spring and Autumn Period, were Confucius' favorite students, with straightforward and brave personalities and very filial piety. In my early years, my family was poor, and I often picked wild vegetables to cook food, but I went home from a hundred miles away to serve my parents. After the death of his parents, he became a high official and was ordered to go to Chu, with hundreds of chariots and horses, and accumulated as much food as ten thousand minutes. Sitting on a piled brocade mattress and eating a sumptuous feast, he often misses his parents and laments, "Even if I want to eat wild vegetables, where can I get them again?" Confucius praised: "You serve your parents, which can be said to be your best when you are alive, but you miss them after you die!" (
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Lu Yishun's mother's loss
Zi Qian, a native of the State of Lu in the Spring and Autumn Period, was Confucius' favorite pupil, and was called Yan Yuan by virtue in Confucius' school. Confucius once praised him and said, "filial piety, Min Zikai!" (Advanced Analects of Confucius). His biological mother died young, and his father married a second wife and gave birth to two sons. His stepmother often abused him. In winter, the two younger brothers wore winter clothes made of cotton, but they gave him a "cotton coat" made of reed flowers. One day, when my father went out, Min Min shivered because of the cold when he was pulling the car. He dropped the rope to the ground and was reprimanded and whipped by his father. The reed flower flew out with the broken seam, and his father knew that Min Min Min was abused. When father comes home, he wants to divorce his stepmother. Min Shen knelt down and begged his father to forgive his stepmother, saying, "I'm the only one who is cold when I leave my mother, and all three children will be cold when I divorce my mother." Father was very moved and obeyed him. When the stepmother heard about it, she regretted her mistake and treated him like a parent.
6 deer's milk is close to its parents, and it's
people in the spring and autumn period. Parents are old and suffer from eye diseases, so they need to drink deer milk for treatment. He went into the mountains in deerskin, got into the deer herd, squeezed deer milk and offered it to his parents. When I was taking milk, I saw the hunter was about to shoot a muntjac deer. The scorpion quickly lifted the deerskin and walked out, telling the hunter the fact that the deer milk was squeezed as a medical treatment for his parents. The hunter respected his filial piety and gave him deer milk as a gift to escort him out of the mountain.
7 Play Color to Entertain Lao Laizi
In the Spring and Autumn Period, the hermit of Chu State cultivated himself at the southern foot of Mengshan Mountain to avoid the world chaos. He is filial to his parents, and chooses delicious food to offer to them. He is not old at the age of 7. He often wears colorful clothes and plays like a child with a rattle to make his parents laugh. Once he brought water to his parents, he fell down when he entered the room. He was afraid that his parents would be sad, so he simply lay on the ground and went to school. The children cried and the parents laughed.
8 Yong Dong, who sold his body to bury his father
According to legend, he was a native of Qiancheng (now north of gaoqing county, Shandong Province) in the Eastern Han Dynasty. He lost his mother and moved to Anlu (now Hubei Province) because of desertion. Later, when his father died, Yong Dong sold himself to a rich family as a slave in exchange for funeral expenses. On the way to work, I met a woman in the shade of a tree, claiming that she was homeless, and they got married. The woman wove 3 pieces of brocade in January to redeem Yong Dong's debts. On her way home, she went to Huaiyin. The woman told Yong Dong that she was the daughter of the Emperor of Heaven and was ordered to help Yong Dong pay her debts. Say that finish volley. Therefore, Huaiyin was renamed Xiaogan.
9 wood carving pro Ding Lan
According to legend, he was a native of Hanoi in the Eastern Han Dynasty (now north of Yellow River in Henan Province), and his parents died when he was young. He often missed his parents' upbringing, so he carved a statue of his parents out of wood, and discussed everything with the wooden statue. He only ate three meals a day after honoring his parents. He must tell them before going out and meet them when he got home, and he never slacked off. For a long time, his wife was not very respectful to the wooden statue, but curiously used the finger of the wooden statue to acupuncture, and the finger of the wooden statue actually had blood flowing out. Ding Lan came home to see the tears in the eyes of the wooden statue and asked for the truth, so she abandoned her wife.
1 domestic helpers for the mother Jiang Ge
In the Eastern Han Dynasty, a young man was born in Linzi, Qi, and he lost his father and served his mother with great filial piety. During the war, Jiang Ge fled behind his mother's back, and met bandits several times. The thief wanted to kill him. Jiang Ge cried: My mother is old, and there is no one to support her. The thief can't bear to kill him when he sees his filial piety. Later, he moved to Xiapi, Jiangsu, and worked as an employee to support his mother. He was poor and barefoot, and his mother needed a lot. When Ming Di was elected as Xiao Lian, Zhang Di was elected as a virtuous founder and served as a corps commander of the five senses.