Which is better, phoenix tail or chicken head?

As the saying goes: the head of a chicken is not the tail of a phoenix, but it must be stubborn.

There is some truth in this sentence, but I think whether you are suitable to be a "chicken head" or a "phoenix tail" has a lot to do with your self-awareness, your own characteristics and your own personality.

A man fit to be the head of a chicken.

People who like to be the head of a chicken are mostly born with advantages or acquired, which makes him a leader in the group effortlessly.

Avoid competitive pressure

Whether at work or in study, I believe that we will be divided into three or six classes, such as ordinary points and rocket classes; Small company, big company. People who choose to be the head of a chicken will feel more fulfilled and feel more relaxed and happy in this environment.

For example, some children like to be among the best in ordinary classes and can keep good grades. On the contrary, if they are put into the rocket class, their grades will be worse than before.

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In such an environment, it is easy for us to get depressed, "born in sorrow and die in happiness", and it is difficult to exert people's potential without competition.

It is good in the "chicken head", but its ceiling is only that high, so our room for improvement is limited.

Pursue an independent life

Others want to be a chicken head, not to avoid competition, but to pursue a kind of self-independence. For a simple example, if you have excellent skills in a company, only you can do it in the whole company. Then, good resources will definitely tilt towards you, and you can do what you want according to your own wishes.

This is why many people would rather give up the stable income of well-known companies to start their own businesses or choose small businesses to work.

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In this environment, we will inevitably sit still and limit our horizons.

If the environment is relatively backward, resources will be scarce and the requirements for their own abilities will be higher.

Suitable for phoenix tail

Such people generally use external environmental resources for their own use, or want to pursue a higher life, have strong adaptability and like to challenge themselves.

Attached to a high-quality environment

This kind of person will take advantage of the environment, use it for himself and enjoy the benefits brought by the high-quality environment, even if it is a crane's tail.

For example, the older generation tends to let their children go to state-owned enterprises or institutions. This kind of work is relatively easy, the salary is good, and the security mechanism after retirement is also good.

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Relying too much on the gift of the environment, my ability has not been exercised.

Immersed in this life, once it changes, it will be the one that is eliminated.

? Use resources to accumulate wealth and accumulate wealth.

Generally, this kind of person chooses to be a phoenix tail, not to spend the rest of his life comfortably, but to jump out through this environment and onto a higher and better platform.

They use the pressure of the environment to force themselves to grow up, broaden their horizons, learn the ways of doing things in big companies, and accumulate more contacts for themselves.

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Being arrogant, but not reaching a certain height, will bring extra pressure to your body and mind.

If the environment presents Matthew effect (the richer people are, the richer they are), it is difficult to achieve anything on their own.

From the above, we can draw that no matter whether you are a chicken head or a phoenix tail, you have your own disadvantages, so there is no limit to which one you choose to do. The key is which one you are suitable for.

Personal character analysis

First of all, you need to know whether you are a person with high achievement motivation or a person with low achievement motivation. To put it simply, do you prefer to pursue success or avoid failure, and whether your self-esteem is high.

Dependent type and autonomous type

Each of us has different pursuits. Some people like passive arrangements and rely on better teachers and more prescient leaders. Some people like to go it alone, prefer the fun of independent research and have their own rhythm.

For a person, maybe he is perfect at making the head of a chicken, but not at making the tail of a phoenix, and vice versa. Therefore, everyone must think according to their own characteristics and ideas. Find out whether you are suitable for "the head of a chicken" or "the tail of a phoenix".