Lu Qin talks about Feng Shui video.

The child made a mistake, really not. This problem should be solved in a reasonable way. Reasoning must be useful. Children now. Don't think that he is too young to know anything. In fact, he has known everything since he was three years old. It's just that he can't fully express it in words. So reason with the children. Maybe sometimes you feel useless. As a matter of fact, he has listened. It's just that he may not do it well next time. When you find that he is not doing well, you should continue to reason with him. Beating children is definitely not the solution to the problem. Sometimes hitting him doesn't change it. He may make the same mistake next time. After all, he is a minor. Her cognition of some problems may be different from that of adults. Sometimes adults think he did something wrong. But in his eyes, he doesn't think it's wrong. It's just that we should always reason with him. And it is necessary to explain everything in detail. It must be specific to one thing. In the eyes of a child, he may think that this is not wrong. So he will continue to do it. And adults just think what he did is wrong. So everything has to be. Tell him clearly. In the process of reasoning with children. We should also adopt some methods and means. You can't just come up with a scolding. It is to reason in a way that children can accept.

The most critical issue is appreciation education. Parents who do the right thing for their children should praise them in time. Tell your children that you did the right thing. If there is an advantage, praise it. If you praise him for this advantage, he will certainly remember it more clearly and will continue to do so next time. This means. He will get more and more advantages and you will praise him more and more. In this way, the child's advantages will gradually cover up his shortcomings. This is a process of children's growth. In fact, educating children is like pruning a small tree. When a small sapling grows up, many branches will grow next to it in the future. If these workplaces are not repaired in time. Will become crazy. The trunk will get weaker and weaker. Sometimes it just bends the trunk. When we are making up the differences. Also pay attention to righting the trunk. In this way, this small tree can gradually grow into a towering tree. The same is true for children, while criticizing his mistakes. Or pay attention when you reason with him again. Grab his box. The way to strengthen his backbone is praise. So in the process of educating children, there must be rewards and punishments. We should also attach importance to appreciation education. Only in this way can children grow up more and more healthily.