An in-depth article to commemorate the third anniversary of his father's death.
It has been three years since my father died in a blink of an eye. In the past three years, my father's voice and smile, gestures, teachings often surfaced, and we often meet in dreams.
To be exact, even my father doesn't know when his birthday is. I also asked the only surviving uncle among my father and brothers, and he didn't know his father's birthday either. But people always have birthdays, so mom's birthday becomes dad's birthday.
My father had an unfortunate childhood and suffered a lot. There are three brothers and three fathers, and the father is the youngest. He lost his parents when he was six. Since then, he has been cold, hungry and naked. When children of the same age were under his parents' knees, his childhood father had already suffered human suffering, and later he was separated from his uncle and homeless. Fortunately, he was adopted by a kind family who had been away from home for more than 20 years. From then on, although he had a so-called "home", his life was difficult. Until he joined the army at the age of 18, he happened to be with Bo Er during the political review of the armed forces department of the commune. In that era when material life was very scarce, survival was the first need. His parents are dead, and his two brothers are still young. Who will remember his father's birthday except his parents? It should be said that my father's life has been full of ups and downs since childhood.
My father is gentle, humble and loving. Perhaps it was the misfortune of childhood that made my father indomitable and gentle as an adult. My father is famous for his good temper. Growing up, I have never seen him angry in my memory. He is always affable and smiling. Even if we do something wrong, we never abuse or even yell at him, but afterwards we will tell us a lot about being human. My father, who was not loved by his parents since childhood, buried his misfortune in his heart and didn't want to beat and scold at all.
My father is tenacious and kind-hearted Father left home at the age of 6 and joined the army at the age of 18. After he retired, he served as a village cadre for many years and his popularity was excellent. During the Cultural Revolution, factional struggles in the village, the alienation of village cadres trained by themselves, and the bullying of powerful people in the village ... all these are always generous, tolerant, open-minded and never bear a grudge, showing a tenacious character. "Right and wrong can be judged, and it will be clear after a long time." Sure enough, after many years, each of them has a different result. At this point, I understand a lot about being a man, but I admire my father's generosity even more.
Father is kind to others, not greedy and possessive. My father is easy-going and principled, and has been a village cadre for many years. He never takes advantage of the collective and has a good reputation. When I was working in the countryside in the 1980s, there were a lot of newly collected cash in the drawers opened by my office colleagues. After my father found it, he found a lock and gave it to him when his colleague came back. For this, my colleagues are very grateful. Even after many years, my colleagues and my father returned to the village to farm, and they kept in-depth contact. My father is kind, warm and helpful. Nanzhuang North League and the people in the neighborhood always try their best to help each other when necessary. A family in a neighboring village has been walking around as relatives since his father helped him a lot.
My father knows this book like the back of his hand, and he is optimistic. Although my father doesn't read much, he is sensible and knows right from wrong, and he writes well. He was also a literate person in the village at that time. It should be said that the hardships and setbacks of childhood have a great influence on my father, and it should be my father's good wish to dream of successfully jumping out of the farm. There are many children in our family, all of whom were born in difficult times in the sixties and seventies. At that time, material conditions and living standards were extremely poor. Solving the problem of food and clothing for the whole family is my father's first priority and main responsibility. However, my father (except my elder sister) can send every child to school. Although life is hard, my father tries his best to train us to study and let us finish our studies as much as possible, which reflects my father's ardent expectations for our children. I remember when I was in the third grade of primary school, my teacher asked me to bring 2 yuan money to buy books the next day, otherwise I wouldn't go to school. Because I was in a hurry, my father went to my neighbor's house early in the morning to lend me money so as not to delay my school. When I was in junior high school, my family conditions were much better. My father was also working in the village, close to the school. So he improved my food from time to time, and I was very frugal, but I was very disappointing, bored with playing and learning, and finally failed to meet my father's expectations.
Father has worked hard all his life and is willing to suffer from poverty. After my mother died, I wanted my father to live in the city, but he only stayed for more than 20 days and went back with his family's vegetable garden. We agreed to go home and collect the vegetables before going back to the city to live. I never thought this trip home would be a farewell. I'm not the kind of person who is capable. Without money, I can't give my parents material satisfaction and security. No power can give glory and pride to the father's family; So for many years, my parents have been living in an ordinary house in their hometown, and their living conditions and environment have never been improved; Even if I have a little desire to let my parents live a good life, sometimes I can't. I can only use my spare time to go home as much as possible to meet my parents' simple needs and satisfy my parents as much as possible, but I am really sorry for not letting my parents realize their material life.
Father is considerate and considerate. My father hasn't left my mother since her illness shifted after her operation in 2006. Although the family has stopped farming and raising livestock, the restless father will still clean up the vegetable garden and occasionally plant sweet potatoes and soybeans on the roadside. Once the mother needs to go to the market and visit relatives, the father will take her with him on a tricycle. Especially during my mother's serious illness, her health went from bad to worse, and she went to the hospital for injections or infusions almost every week. Her father is always alone with her and never bothers her children. Later, my mother was in unbearable pain and couldn't sleep well all night. Fathers always serve wholeheartedly, work day and night, and never offer to let their children go home to take care of them. Father took all the burdens, made no demands on us, and did not add any burdens to us. He was alone, silently enduring all this. I never thought that two months after her mother died, her father, who should have enjoyed life in misery, would follow her.
Father cares more about children than himself and always wants us to be happy. I remember when I first changed jobs, I was faced with multiple pressures such as work, children going to school and buying a house. This should be a difficult time for me. My father asked me many times about my mortgage and work, and I could see that my father was very worried about my financial ability and quality of life. Whenever I hear that the mortgage pressure has eased and the economic situation has improved, my father will show a relieved expression.
Although my father's life is extremely ordinary and has left us nothing of value, his tenacious, kind, tolerant, optimistic and open-minded personality is our precious wealth; Although he suffered from childhood, he never bowed to fate; Although the family is poor, but hard-working, with the backbone of micro-camel to provoke the burden of the whole family; These excellent qualities of father are our intangible precious wealth.
We didn't feel anything when our father was around. Seeing that my father was still in good health and young, we always thought that there was still plenty of time. Some ideas and plans were not put into practice, and they were delayed again and again, leaving deep regret at last. Looking back, I really don't know if I am blessed. At that time, for the so-called work, I always found various reasons to get rid of myself, which reduced the chances of going home and reuniting with my parents. Now it's "a child has to support, and relatives are not there", which is really hard.
Where did the time go? I left before I could honor my father, and even if I had more time, I couldn't honor my parents.
Children without parents lose a lot of color in life. Holidays and festive events always have different feelings from others, adding a touch of sadness and missing; No matter how many thoughts you usually have, you have to face the reality of losing your parents. People say, "Time is the best medicine". For me, time can't really help me solve any problems. Just gradually fade out the problems and things that I couldn't figure out before, and become unimportant. Time has gradually made me accustomed to loneliness and learned to be strong; Time has taught me that life is impermanent and things are unpredictable; Time also taught me to adapt and accept what happened.
The sudden death of my father is the most painful thing in my life so far. Every time I wrote an article in memory of my father in these three years, it was a baptism of my heart and the most painful memory in my heart. "When you really feel pain, you know what' pain' is." This feeling can't be expressed in words, you can only experience it.
Flowers bloom and fall, and heaven and earth are unknown; It's another snowy day (my father died on a snowy solar term night), thinking about my father's tears and wet wipes alone.
Dad, everything has been fine at home for three years, and every family is happy; Jia (Jia) was admitted to an ideal university; Rui (Jia Geng) has also been in the second grade of primary school. He is smart, studious and has excellent grades. You can go safely.
Dad, today, my brothers and sisters and all my relatives and friends came to see you in your cemetery. Even my second uncle personally came to your grave and brought you a lot of paper money and supplies you need, which is enough for you to enjoy life in heaven!
According to the old people, the soul of the deceased will leave after the third anniversary. Therefore, on the occasion of the third anniversary of his father's death, this article is featured to commemorate and bid farewell to his father.
I wish my father a happy life in heaven and all the best!
It's over, and life goes on.
Unfilial son
The couplets on the third anniversary of his father's death (7-character couplets are the best) 1, which is frugal all his life and exemplary for half a century.
2. Diligently manage the family, obey the inheritance, and work hard to repay the kindness.
Career has been recorded by predecessors and left to future generations.
4. After the New Year, the world of Dapuyan has been preserved, benefiting future generations.
5. Children whose works are not old will have a long career.
6. It's still a dream to wait for a while and talk to you again.
7. Where can I swim in the bright moon and spring breeze?
Mourn the third anniversary of the death of a loved one and weep at midnight.
Bless Jiuquan knowledge for three years
Hello, landlord. As far as I know, couplets must be hierarchical and level, so as to be elegant. It takes a little effort to try to write a couplet. According to the rhyme, this couplet is as follows, please adopt it:
Medium to flat.
Moderately flat.
-Shui Mu Zhu Xuan presented it to the landlord and was accepted by others. If you need to reprint, please also indicate the author.
Father and mother's three-week commemorative couplets = to commemorate the third anniversary of father's death, please refer to:
On 1, there are still traces in front of the hall.
2 live frugally, save one hand, and manage your family diligently for half your life.
3 Diligent housekeeping, carry forward the past and forge ahead into the future, work hard and repay kindness.
Career has been recorded by predecessors and left to future generations.
After the end, there will be a windy blessing in Dapu Eye World.
Children whose works are not old will have a long career.
Wait a little longer to say goodbye or dream. Why should I talk to you after that?
Where can I swim in the bright moon and spring breeze?
The wind is sad and the color is sad, the willow moon hangs and the cuckoo crows.
10 wind signal of bamboo with weeping willow and half window in three-diameter cold pine belt
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12 The moon is not round. After the Mid-Autumn Festival, there is always a strong wind to be proud of. How can we say goodbye again?
13, an old friend hasn't seen you for three years, and he hasn't shed a tear for three years, which is thousands of miles apart.
Part 1: Say goodbye to the father (mother) who drives the crane in tears.
Bottom line: I think there will be only Sanqiu in a hundred years.
Analysis: After the death of father or parents, there is often sadness. Although it is only three years, it seems like a hundred years!
My mother sent a message that the third anniversary of my mother's death was the cry of the north wind and the frost branches of Yushu. All the people in Botiandi mourned for the death of their loving mother for three years, crying at their desks and writing sacrificial words.
Time flies, three years in an instant. At that moment, I was heartbroken and said goodbye to my mother. It is hard to forget the heartfelt advice and the deep sadness and regret in this life. Nostalgia, let life stop in an instant, and loving eyes are the constant aura of my youth. Instead of disappearing, I feel lost and feel like an adult! The pain of losing your mother is like the sky were to fall!
The kingdom of heaven is far from us. Burning paper and incense, can mother be safe?
First of all, before the third anniversary of my mother's death, I want to improve a little, because the death of a loved one will actually have a certain impact on your fortune. Of course, this fortune is going down. Therefore, when you take off your clothes, you can wear your own mascot combined with your own eight characters and five elements to help resolve bad luck and improve your personal fortune, so that you will have a good fortune blessing for your future life and work. It is suggested to order suitable auspicious pendants in official website instead of phase copper furnaces.
Secondly, the couplets for the third anniversary of this mother's death are as follows:
1, keep filial piety for a hundred days, except for mourning, it is difficult to change homesickness for a thousand years.
On the mourning day, although I took the piano, I still felt that I was not a sound.
3, be careful, and finally chase all my sincerity with a hundred-day ceremony.
4, a hundred days to remove clothes into a ritual system, a filial piety that runs through ancient and modern times.
It is difficult to change clothes into clothes without changing the age and filial piety.
6. It is difficult to be filial. The reform of filial piety can't change all my heart
7. Take off my dutiful son to greet the guests and pursue all my heart.
8. Today, in addition to the best service, it will be passed on to future generations.
I don't forget my hard work and deep gratitude.
10, serving for three years, mourning according to the ancient system, in addition to daily kindness.
What poems are there to commemorate the third anniversary of my father's death? Poetry commemorating the third anniversary of his father's death;
1. Ten years of life and death, forget without thinking. _ _ _ _ Su Shi's "Recalling Dreams on the 20th Day of the First Month of Jiang"
2. once the sea was difficult for water, it was always amber. _ _ _ _ Five Farewell Poems by Yuan Zhen (4)
3. If you look back at the flowers lazily, you are half qualified. _ _ _ _ Five Farewell Poems by Yuan Zhen (4)
You bury the mud under the spring to nail the bone, and I send the snow all over the world. _ _ _ _ Bai Juyi's Micro Dream
5. When night comes, the dream suddenly comes home. The window of Xiao Xuan. Dress up. Care for each other without words, only a thousand lines of tears _ _ _ _ Su Shi's "Twenty Memories of Dreams in the First Month of Jiang"
6. Because of being drunk, Mo Jingchun slept soundly, and his gambling books were spilled all over with tea. At the time, it was just unusual. _ _ _ _ Nalanxingde's "Huanxisha, who reads the west wind alone?"
7. The spring waves under the sad bridge were green, which used to be a stunning photo. _ _ _ _ Two Shen Yuan Poems by Lu You
8. If the moon finally shines, you don't have to worry about snow and ice. _ _ _ _ NaLanXing DE "dead Hua Lian, hard, the most pity Tian Yue"
9. This is a sorrow that all mankind must know, but it is not as known by those who have been poor together. _ _ _ _ Yuan Zhen's Three Sorrow Poems, Part Two
10. Just keep your eyes open all night, which is a lifelong worry for your eyebrows. _ _ _ _ Yuan Zhen's Three Sorrow Poems, The Third
1 1.40 years of dreams, shenyuanliu does not blow cotton. _ _ _ _ Two Shen Yuan Poems by Lu You
12. I sit here alone and mourn for both of us. How long is a hundred years? _ _ _ _ Yuan Zhen's Three Sorrow Poems, The Third
13. What hope do I have in the darkness of our grave? Neither you nor I believe in meeting after death. _ _ _ _ Yuan Zhen's Three Sorrow Poems, The Third
14. The article is full of people, and I missed you once. _ _ _ _ Bai Juyi in Li Chen
15. Care for each other without words, only a thousand lines of tears. _ _ _ _ Su Shi's Remembering Dreams on the 20th of the First Month of Jiang.
How to send an invitation message for my father's third anniversary? Better call him. I don't think it is appropriate to send messages.
How to write a wreath for the third anniversary of death depends first on the deceased and your status.
If you are friends, write it, deeply mourn xxx and pay tribute to old friend xx.
If it's grandpa, write a notice in memory of xxx, Jingxian County, Sun Xian.