It turns out that these four things are the most luxurious things in the world. Do you have them all?
Rich or poor, each of us must find a way to have these four luxuries:
Quiet and peaceful sleep,
Healthy body, rich heart,
Alone, with a clean circle,
Meet people who know themselves.
Once you have it, you will be the master of life for the rest of your life.
During the Warring States Period, Qi Weiwang was ill, so he invited a famous doctor Wen Zhi to check his health. Seeing Wen Zhi looking particularly good, I asked him for advice on keeping in good health.
Wen Zhi said: "My way of keeping in good health is to put sleep first. People and animals can only grow up by sleeping. Sleep helps the spleen and stomach digest food. Sleep is the first supplement to health. People don't sleep for a night, even if they lose a hundred days, it is difficult to recover. "
I quite agree with what Wen Zhi said. Sadly, many people in life don't realize the importance of a good sleep and always spend the longest night with the most expensive life. As we all know, we spend one-third of our lives sleeping. If you don't pay attention, you will get the greatest punishment from your body.
When people reach middle age, they are more aware of how extravagant a good sleep is and how important it is to their health. In other words, when you understand the importance of sleep, you really understand the meaning of health and the true meaning of life.
Shakespeare, an English playwright, once said: A comfortable sleep is a gentle and unforgettable care given by nature.
A quiet and peaceful sleep is really a luxury. As the saying goes, sleeping is borrowing death. The more you sleep, the longer the repayment period.
If a person's sleep quality is not good, then life will naturally not be happy. On the contrary, if you can have a peaceful and stable sleep, it is really something to show off.
We all know that health is 1, while wealth, feelings, career and family are all zeros behind 1. If this 1 does not exist, then all zeros will lose their meaning.
Although we know, we can't do it at all. We always put the cart before the horse in our life. In order to seek things outside our bodies, we overdraw our health unscrupulously, but we don't know that this is the most stupid behavior.
An epidemic has made us see how extravagant health is and understand that nothing is worth it. If a person is healthy and kind-hearted, he will live an enviable life.
A kind-hearted person will live a rich life even if he is teased. In this regard, I have read a short story and deeply felt it.
Legend has it that in his early years, Feng Shui master Liu Bowen asked a family for water to drink on the way. The hostess scooped a ladle of water, but sprinkled a handful of chaff in the water.
In the face of her behavior, Liu Bowen was very upset, but he didn't have an attack. The hostess learned that Liu Bowen could read Feng Shui, so she asked him to help her choose a place. Based on revenge, Liu Bowen pointed to a place without looking.
Ten years later, Liu Bowen passed by here again, only to find that his family was rich and filial, which was very strange. At this moment, the hostess recognized Liu Bowen and invited him into the house.
During the dinner, Liu Bowen asked about the fact that he passed by begging for water but was scattered in the valley.
The hostess smiled and explained, "I saw you in a hurry and sweating like a pig." If you forcibly quench your thirst, it will not only quench your thirst, but also make you sick. Sprinkle some glutinous rice to let you breathe slowly and drink slowly. "
If the hostess is not particularly kind, naturally she will not be blessed by God, and the family will not be harmonious and happy. Always remember that everyone is watching, and when you know kindness in your heart, you will definitely get the highest reward from heaven.
People who know how to be alone with high quality are all true wise men and pretend to be masters of life. Loneliness is also a scarce luxury in this world.
Chen is a well-known person who knows how to be alone in the entertainment circle. He doesn't like making friends with people, and seldom attends dinner. Even if he does, it usually lasts less than half an hour. He especially knows how to enjoy life and knows that it is foolish to waste time in useless circles.
Schopenhauer once said, "Only by being alone can a person become himself completely. Anyone who doesn't like being alone doesn't love freedom, because a person is free only when he is alone. " I deeply agree with this.
People who know how to be alone with high quality don't deliberately pursue anything. More often, they just follow their inner arrangements and pursue the stability they need.
Sadly, in life, many people don't like being alone, they always try to integrate into other people's circles, and finally make themselves more miserable. In fact, you don't need a circle that doesn't belong to you, because it will make the other person more tired.
Confucius said, "A gentleman is proud and does not fight, but a group is not a party."
Studies have shown that people's social life is actually very small, because the number of people who allow us to have a stable social circle is 150. Of this 150 people, even fewer can talk to us.
It's better to choose high-quality solitude in different circles, at least not only to trouble yourself. When you learn to be alone and the circle is clean, your mood will naturally be happy. How can life be unhappy?
Liao Yimei once said, "It is not uncommon for us to meet love and sex in our life. What is rare is to meet understanding. " Therefore, it is really a luxury and luck to meet people who know themselves.
Sanmao is such a lucky person, because she met someone who knows herself. San Mao once said that Jose is a gift from God and the person who knows himself best.
When getting married, Jose gave Sanmao a pair of camel skulls as a wedding gift. Many people think that Jose doesn't understand Sanmao because the gift is wonderful, but he didn't expect it to be sent to Sanmao's heart.
When Jose gave Sanmao camel bones, Sanmao said happily, "You are my bosom friend."
It's too difficult to meet someone who knows himself in this life. In front of someone who knows yourself, you can be yourself, and you don't need to hide it. No matter what you do, the other person will understand and tolerate. How lucky this is.
Being with people who don't know themselves is particularly tiring. Obviously close at hand, but the hearts are far apart. Because I don't know, I can't understand each other, and I can't tolerate each other's willfulness.
People who don't know you may love you, but it's hard to get into your heart; People who know you will love you deeply and fully understand your inner thoughts, so you must cherish those who know you in this life.
Life is only tens of thousands of days, and we are only short-lived scenery in the years, but even if it is short-lived, we must strive to have these four luxuries and live like ourselves in this only year.