Isn't it a mother's tragedy that Wu, a student of Peking University, brutally killed her mother?

Wu is a talented young man, a good boy from other people's families, who has studied well since childhood and is smart and sensible. He graduated from Peking University majoring in finance and has a bright future. However, such an excellent student killed his beloved mother at home with the tools prepared in advance. No matter what kind of person, an expert can kill his mother. How cruel the means are! What a sad thing it is for a mother to be killed by her own child after paying for her life and survival!

There may be many problems behind excellent grades. Many years ago, Lu Gang, a student studying in the United States, shot and killed several of his tutors with guns for unwarranted reasons, which aroused widespread concern in society and made people sigh. A few years ago, the medical doctor of a university in Shanghai also poisoned his roommate mercilessly, just because he wanted to win the first place; Wu, who is usually gentle and filial, killed his mother extremely cruelly, and made all kinds of illusions extremely calmly to cover up his despicable behavior, which is still puzzling ...? Before the police announced the truth, I was just guessing like many people.

? As a middle-aged woman, I know the greatness of maternal love, but I often realize the selfishness of maternal love. I never want to excuse the young man who killed his mother. What is the crime of maternal love? Even if there is a mother's love, it is just an improper expression, so why be killed by your son!

? As parents, who doesn't cut off the liver and lungs? Who doesn't think about their children? However, objectively speaking, sometimes parents' love is blind and unnecessary!

? Perhaps, every life should let nature take its course, but as people in a complex society, we often can't! For the sake of dignity and fame and fortune, how many seemingly amiable parents are around us, and it is extremely inappropriate to be tough when disciplining children! How many parents in the world are kind to everyone, but strict with their children! How many parents don't pay much attention to their children's everything, only pay attention to their children's achievements ... It seems that they are only responsible for the depth of love, but in fact they are selfish, and there is something wrong with the method of love. For children with strong self-discipline, parents often only see the changes or progress of their children under strict discipline, and often only feel proud of the success of educating their children, ignoring their inner feelings. Perhaps the child's heart is full of thorns, and parents are still complacent. Looking back on the road we have traveled, every growth is not easy! Do you submit to others or express yourself? How many people have paid an extraordinary price to thank their parents? We often say that everyone's heart is an independent world. However, children under the excessive interference of their parents cannot express themselves and have no world of their own!

To some extent, people are born to express themselves and present themselves. Genius expresses itself creatively, while mediocrity expresses itself imitatively. If you don't get the opportunity to express and vent properly, it will often lead to more serious psychological problems. The cost of growth may be beneficial but unreasonable: there is less and less need for parents and more and more need for yourself; Getting closer and closer to your inner self, but getting farther and farther away from your parents, is the natural law of growth. However, parents are getting older and more dependent on their children. One wants to escape the bondage, and the other wants to seize the fruits of parenting. We sometimes forget the fact that a child is a person with an independent personality and will live a free life regardless of success or failure.

? Wu is happy, but unfortunately. Mother's daily teaching of caring and attentive seems excessive and redundant for him, a big boy with strong self-discipline. He is so clever that he must know his mother's love. But no matter how great a mother's love is, perhaps in his heart, it is a heavy pressure, and it is all about quick success and instant benefit at the expense of self. The essence of human nature is that half a day makes half a devil. When the angel's power weakens, the devil's power becomes stronger. How filial he was and how cruel he became!

There is a saying like this: "There is no beauty or evil in things, and going too far is a disaster."

There is a saying in Wu Qishi's Silent Confessions: Our whole life is to get rid of the expectations of others and find our true self.

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