Don't let uncommon words become the fetters of a better life.
Names are business cards that accompany each of us for life. Some people's names with uncommon words often bring unexpected troubles to life. Because there are uncommon words in the name, students are stopped in front of the entrance threshold; Because there are uncommon words in the name, it is difficult for customers to withdraw bank deposits; Because there are uncommon words in the name, children can't register ... Every year, during the freshman enrollment season, the new name "stalk" of various uncommon words will also cause heated discussion in society.
As the saying goes, the name is as good as the person. Since ancient times, parents have been extremely particular about the names of their children. It has also become a cultural custom of the Chinese nation to cite classics as names. In ancient times, in order to conform to the etiquette system and show the taste, people preferred to use uncommon words to take names, such as Liu Shi, the emperor of the Western Han Dynasty, Yu Xun, the adviser of the Three Kingdoms, Zhang Kun, a novelist of the Tang Dynasty, and Jiang Kui, a poet of the Southern Song Dynasty. In modern times, in order to express their expectation for their children's better life, parents pursue the innovation and particularity of names, such as "Wan" means softness and harmony, "Wan" means auspiciousness, "Wan" means good conduct, and "Wan" means self-improvement and enterprising, symbolizing cultural taste and beautiful meaning.
In fact, name culture is an organic part of China culture. Every surname has its own historical story, and every Chinese character has extraordinary cultural implications, which is worth inheriting and developing. Moreover, the right to name is a personal right given to citizens by law. As for what kind of name to choose and what Chinese characters to use, as long as it does not violate the law, citizens are free to choose. In the face of people with uncommon names, whether they are uncommon surnames handed down or unfamiliar names with personal demands, we can't "throw the pot" or take detours in doing things for the people. To this end, the public security department expanded and upgraded the special Chinese character database of population information database, and included 72,000 Chinese characters such as minority characters and obscure surnames into the special Chinese character database of population information database, which basically met the identity authentication needs of ordinary people. Correspondingly, institutions and industries, including education, banking, transportation, education, hospitals, social security, etc. It is also necessary to "move" and build an interconnected service bridge to completely solve the embarrassment of ordinary people's names.
In fact, the children's names with uncommon words are often behind their parents' anxiety about parenting. Names are only symbols of people in the social field, and they are not necessarily related to people's future and destiny. The extraordinary name on the tall is neither a magic weapon for children to win at the starting line, nor can it carry too many beautiful expectations of parents. Instead of giving children trouble with unusual names, it is better to give way to some personal preferences and obsession with practicality. Even the ancients, who took their names with uncommon words, had the helplessness of avoiding relatives, avoiding sages and respecting others that modern people could not understand.
"Parents' beloved son is far-reaching. "How long is the road of life? You can walk steadily and far without naming it with uncommon words. An appropriate name should be a name that parents express their deep hopes in simple and plain words, rather than a name that parents pretend to be profound in pursuit of elegant culture. Parents should not pin their children's beautiful life on uncommon words, but should set an example in daily life and train their children to become dreamers of a better life. (Author: Xie Jun)